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Grokio Communities is a joke

For those who don't know Grokio Communities is the network behind Grommr, Chasable, Feabie, Ferzu and Pupspace. I have only used Grommr and Chasable due to my love for plus sized men, specifically those who are proud of their size, which was what drew me to Grommr more than Chasable, I still used both since there were men on one website but not the other, however most were on both, even on Bigger City, proves how niche the chub chaser community truly is, especially in the UK where I'm from. For the last 11 years I have been on and off both of these dating websites, met numerous chubby men, however most of them turned out to be disappointing or abusive, I would never have thought a group of guys who face discrimination for their sexuality and their size could be so cruel and dismissive towards those who admire them, I would have expected them be more accepting but they are no different to the people who discriminated them to start with. I have faced a number of unkind behaviour on these websites, I've have witnessed bullying, smear campaigns, solicitation, sexual harassment, online fraud and gaslighting, most recently antisemitism, yet Grokio did little to nothing about any of these morally reprehensible acts, on the other hand, they waste no time persecuting those who say a word that triggers them regardless of the context or one wrong picture is enough. I have been suspended from both Chasable and Grommr for 7 days because of words I have used in posts, calling chubs I had interacted with "beached whales" and "overfed pompous poofters" both cases out of anger at how I was treated by them, even calling out the lack of gratitude chubs show to those who admire them. Most recently I have been permanently banned from Grommr after I expressed my frustration with the LGBTQ community and that I have grown to hate it because of how discriminatory it really is, how difficult it is to build relationships and be part of a community you identify with, but getting nowhere after so many years of trying but either feeling rejected or settling for less. But because I said what I said I was accused of being an incel which I'm not, I'm just sick and tired of being disrespected and disappointed, I'm not an entitled basement dweller. However my words once again were enough to have me permanently kicked out of Grommr. Whilst they allow those who have bullied, conned, harassed, abused, support terrorism etc they get to stay because Grokio administrators clearly follow the same rhetoric and they only care about the chubby elites who are the only ones who truly benefit whilst their admirers and lower profile chubs are seen as peasants and are disposable. So the smallest thing they do can lead to consequences no matter how unjust it is. Whilst the fat elites can get away with murder. In short Grokio is a corrupt network with inconsistent rules and loose morals. I would honestly refrain anyone from using their apps. I would be interested to hear anyone else who has faced permanent bans from their platforms over something small and didn't deserve such harsh consequences.

[kh-koenigsberg]

From Hilzfuld on Instagram ❤️

TRUTH !

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My message to pro Palestine/Hamas supporters

If you need to murder babies, violate women, incite terrorism, manipulate international media, without conscience in order to have a free state 🤔😳😨 Then you shouldn't be granted a state at all 🩸💀 The whole Free Palestine movement is a terrorist movement, that must be condemned 👊🎗️ I STAND WITH ISRAEL 🇮🇱🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 THE TRUE STATE ✡️ PALESTINE IS A TERRORIST STATE 🔥🤯

[kh-koenigsberg]

DONE WITH BUILDING CONNECTIONS ONLINE.

I honestly don't understand human beings to be honest. They are happy to display themselves for the world to see, however when you reach out to them, due to a mutual interest in something, they appear friendly, then all of the sudden one wrong question or one wrong opinion is enough for them to cut you off and dismiss you. Since when did getting to know people become so difficult? Since when was it OK to block someone who hasn't done anything wrong to warrant it? How have humans become so entitled, hostile, rude, closed minded and intolerant?? I thought we were supposed to evolve to be better humans, not reverse the clocks. Now I know why I hate social media and why it's one of the worst places to find community. Fortunately I have spoken to a few content creators who I have become friendly and have brought joy to my darkest days, so I have a few lucky stars.

It hurts that it's so hard to make friends nowadays, nevermind anything more, today's world simply reminds me that I'm better off alone. No one can use you, hurt you or betray you. Who needs that pain in their existence? I don't.

[kh-koenigsberg]

I love an obese policeman 💙

Way too many donuts

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He is so handsome 😍

[kh-koenigsberg]

hmm. i don't think this nudity thing will catch on @malegains underexposed Polaroid, side view from far away, two Icelandic [sumo] wrestlers facing each other submerged near a hot spring, enormously fat, [cold] light, embrace, relaxed, unbelievably enormous belly, exaggerated stomach like an enormous heavy water balloon, high body fat, leaning against each other the quantity is not super reliable but this is the first 30 results i managed sooo...it's kind of wild that i can no longer seem to get a fat guy on a stepladder, butt hanging out or not

[kh-koenigsberg]

Walking away from dating apps

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Dream boyfriend 😍

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Boyfriend material 😍

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Agreed

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She deserves to remember her mother fondly, regardless of her tarnished reputation. 😭💔

Anne loved her daughter, Elizabeth losing her mother was the first of many traumatic experiences in her early life, Anne becoming nothing more than a faded smile frozen in time, never forgotten 💔😭👑

Elizabeth couldn't kiss her mother goodbye, but in staying strong, she promised to try 😢❤️

FAVORITE SCENES FROM BECOMING ELIZABETH: 4/∞ "You look beautiful. Show me. Oh, ready for this party and ready before me. Beauty really is wasted on the young. You don't use it or believe it, and then just when you start to, it disappears. But it leaves the vanity behind, for the sake of irony, probably."

[kh-koenigsberg]

FACTS!! That society tries so hard to deny

That person the other day who said they love seeing photos of thin people holding up 3XL jeans to show all of the "hard work" they put into living "the life they want," there's so much I could say about that.

I could explain that any fat person you see has almost certainly put in that same amount of "hard work" to become thin and then watched as their body refused to stay that way.

I could explain basic, unbiased weight science proving that weight loss is only temporary for the 4 millionth time.

I could explain that fat people are human beings who deserve to be treated with dignity, respect, and humanity, again for the 4 millionth time.

I could explain and explain and explain, but I'm tired of explaining to people who don't listen and pull their views out of their ass. So instead, I think we should applaud photos of fat people holding up the jeans they temporarily wore as a thin person.

Let's celebrate the fat people who once were a size small. Let fat people hold up their old tiny jeans in celebration of:

Beating an eating disorder

No longer experiencing food insecurity

Recovering from an illness that had caused weight loss

Accepting their fat body instead of abusing themself to become thin again

Leaving an abusive family/living situation where they were starved and/or forced to conform to prevent abuse

Having the genes of ancestors who survived famines

Knowing that there is not a single scientifically-proven method of weight loss

No longer wasting time fighting their body's weight gain from health conditions that cause weight gain, like PCOS

Accepting their body that changed due to pregnancy

Accepting their body that changed due to puberty

Accepting their body that changed due to transitioning

Allowing themself to take the medicine they need to treat mental or physical illness no matter the weight gain side effects

Not listening to harassment from bullies, friends, family, or anyone else who demanded they be thin to deserve peace from mistreatment

Literally just getting older and having a body that has changed with time

Loving themself despite the entire world believing that fat people do not deserve love

Existing, because fat people do not need to justify their body and existence to anyone

And so much more

-Mod Worthy

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diet culture people make me feel like i’m going crazy. you want me to take an experimental pill that destroys my appetite?? you want me to remove part of my stomach??? you want me to stop eating bread and rice, two of the staple foods most inherent to humanity????? why exactly? because my stomach is big? because you don’t like the way i look, and you think it’s reasonable to tell me to carve pieces off of myself and try random drugs and ruin my own life so i can look more visually pleasing to you? and you somehow don’t see how absurdly cruel and selfish that is to ask of somebody???? while pretending you care about their HEALTH????????????????? FUCK YOU!!!!