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Enjoy These Trash Edits-

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What if..?

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Here’s another Harry drawing I did a while ago, since you guys like my colored versions of him! Thought you might want to see this one as well!

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DRARRY IS REAL !!!

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This is definitely, 100% not based on a real conversation that I just had...

Draco: While you're at work tonight make sure you think about how I was laying next to you while you were taking a nap and making myself come while thinking about the last time we made love...

Harry: Ohmygod...this is why I keep getting boners at work!!!

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I have no explanations.

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Is it the wish?

iS iT tHe WiSh?¿?¿?

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Things I Like (because i need friends:(

· Sally Face

· Queen (obviously)

· Camp Camp (Achievement Hunters)

· Marvel

· Big Mouth

· Disney (I'm a big Mulan Nerd)

· Law & Order: SVU (I ship Barisi🖤)

· Andi Mack (🤷😂)

· Detroit Become Human

· BrokeBack Mountain

BIG FUCKING EDIT!:

· HARRY FUCKING POTTER IS DOPE DM ABOUT IT.

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“There won’t be a next time…”

“Don’t be like that.”

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sebastian stan wallpapers/lockscreens.

like or reblog if you save.

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Law & Order: SVU - 19x03 -  “Obfuscate?” Yummy

#lawyerboyfriendsflirtingatwork

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Because I can’t even with these two

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Barba: Since I’m leaving, I’m leaving you all with a complimentary bowl of advice.

Barba, picking paper out of a bowl: For instance, “Carisi, stop doing that”… just applies to anything.

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Friend: but that isn’t a canon couple!

Me: it’s not about what’s canon

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Freddie even admitted to the Queen fan club that he was gay but he couldn't admit it to the public because of the time and the consequences.

Freddie is bi. What you're doing is bierasure. It's so disrespectful of you to claim that LOML was not for Mary when Mary was made the most impact in Freddie's life. She was there from the start and never left him. She changed him for the better. Just because Freddie moved on with some man doesn't mean he stopped loving Mary. He was BISEXUAL so he can love Mary and men both at the same time. He also had a girlfriend after Mary. There were pictures of the girl hugging him. No more false info pls

Wow, there’s a lot to unpack here. Based on this shitfest of an ask, I’m gonna assume you rely on the biopic as your credible source. Since you clearly did the bare minimum of research, I’m gonna write down what I’ve gathered so far based on interviews, books, blogs, and docus.

First of all, what I’m doing is not bi erasure. That’s the last thing I want because I’m bisexual and that was something that my mother tried to take away from me by constantly telling me that I was just going through a phase or that I was just curious. I’ve had friends telling me that I’m just confused. My sexuality has been dismissed a lot so I know how it feels to be erased.

I just think that the fact that most people who knew Freddie personally said he was gay and lived his lifestyle as such are more reliable than Mary’s inconsistent stories. In one of her first interviews about Freddie’s sexuality, she said that Freddie came out to her as gay. In other interviews, she said he couldn’t even say it himself so she asked him if he was gay and she said that he smiled and nodded. In another interview, she claimed that he said “I think I’m bisexual” and she said smth like “are you telling me you’re gay?” and he smiled and nodded. In another interview, she said that he responded with smth like “yes, let’s leave it that way.” Either way, it ended with Freddie agreeing that he was indeed gay. Like I said, she’s very inconsistent which is weird because that should have been one of the most important moments in their relationship and yet she couldn’t get her story straight. 

Freddie had already said a few times that he’s “as gay as a daffodil” but of course, most people saw that as “oh it’s just freddie being freddie” or “he’s so campy!!!” but somehow, his “i slept with men, women, and cats” statement is something that should be taken seriously?? And you say we’re committing erasure?? One of my uncles was married for 20 years and just last year, he came out to us as gay. Hell, even Alyssa Edwards had slept with women but he identified as gay. So no, just because Freddie slept with women doesn’t automatically mean he’s bisexual. He was figuring himself out, just like what most gay men go through. There was also this interview that went around before where he said smth like “I’ve done all that but I’m gay. Mary was my last woman.” but it was removed from Youtube. Nevertheless, it was still mentioned in the book, Freddie Mercury: His Life in His Own Words (a compilation of Freddie’s own words. This book was also approved by his mom).

And who is this girlfriend you’re talking about? Are you referring to Barbara Valentin? Because Freddie denied having any sexual relations with her and she was dropped out of their circle right away for spreading that bullshit. But if you’re referring to Sarah Harrison, then no, they never dated. They were just friends. If your logic is that any picture that shows a girl hugging a dude means they’ve dated/fucked, then I must be more promiscuous than Freddie was.

Also, ‘Mary made the most impact in Freddie’s life’? (insert John Cena ‘are you sure about that’ meme here) Sis, it was his bandmates that made the most impact in his life because the music they made together changed their lives for the better. Mary had nothing to do with that. But if you’re referring to how she convinced him to ‘go back home’ to his friends and his bandmates, then I’m gonna call bs on that because the people who worked on the biopic said so themselves that the version of Mary in the movie was strictly fictionalized. The whole ‘Mary brought some sense back to Freddie’ is fiction. It didn’t happen.

Brian May also said so himself that at first, he thought that Freddie really was in love with Mary but by the time Freddie was slowly coming into terms with his sexuality, he realized that Freddie only saw Mary as a sister.

Mary’s not a saint. She kicked Jim, Joe, and Peter out of Freddie’s home soon after Freddie passed away– those are the people who took care of Freddie until his last breath. Taking care of the bedridden wasn’t part of Joe’s job and neither was it part of Peter’s but they still did it anyway because they loved and respected him. Jim, bless his heart, didn’t even want to hire a caretaker (yet, people still accuse him of being a gold-digger) because he wanted to take care of Freddie himself. Freddie passed away while Jim was literally helping him change out of his clothes in bed. And yet, Mary kicked him out and wouldn’t even let him have the cats he and Freddie raised together. Jim wasn’t allowed in the house so he had to go out in the night and call for one of the cats, hoping that one of them will pop out just so he could pet them and hug them. Instead of taking care of Freddie’s cats, Mary gave them away. I don’t understand why she didn’t want to give them to Jim when they were like his own children to him and she clearly didn’t want them.

Jim is not just ‘some man.’ What the hell is wrong with you? You preach about respect but say this kind of shit about the man Freddie was genuinely in love with? 

Do you still think Mary and Freddie are relationship goals? She literally admitted that she only fell in love with him after three years into the relationship and if you check that timeline, that was during the time Queen was getting the recognition they deserved. Most of those who knew Freddie well didn’t have a lot of nice things to say about her and that clearly speaks volumes. Plus, Freddie cheated on her with several men so I don’t know why people love to #relationshipgoals these two so much. They seemed pretty toxic for each other.

Also, it was John Reid who said that Love Of My Life was for David Minns. I didn’t just shoot that out of my ass. I have already provided proof that he said that but somehow, that still went over your head. 

Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

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Stucky Fans//Marvel

My computer teacher told me that Captain America isn't bi because he read all the comics and he liked Peggy. Can he not be bisexual, i even showed him some proof and he even tried to play it off.

Really?

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FREEZE! IT’S THE BEAUTIFUL POLICE!!👮‍♂️👮‍♀️🚨

We heard reports that you were being beautiful and/or handsome whichever your preference!!!!!

We’re taking you the fuck in!!!!!!!!!!!!