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Pet peeve: untrained dogs

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Its anime, everyone looks good

if sebastian looked his age

nobody would ship sebaciel.

pretty privilege is a thing, ladies and gentlemen and everything in between.

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The fact that people get mad over two people in a relationship that is pedophilic or abusive is completely justified. But if the two people are actually fictional characters, thats when it get ridiculous.

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Health isn’t beauty. You can be both unhealthy and beautiful.

Health isn’t morality. You can be unhealthy, even if it’s related to your own actions, and you can still be a good person.

Health isn’t worth. I can promise you that if you’re unhealthy, you’re still an important person.

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You literally just contradicted yourself

Anyway I’m pro self dx because a lot of mental health professionals are absolute shit, unreliable and you’re better off turning to Dr.Google I’m serious. I’ve seen tons of psychologists and psychiatrists in my life, not all of them bad, some of them were actually really good and extremely helpful such as the person who professionally diagnosed me but in this town its SO shit that if I had lived here initially I would’ve had to self dx because of how useless the mental health professionals are? I hate seeing stupid neurotypicals say “uwu you need to get help!” Because okay. I did that. I sought help and the mental health “professional” treating me now is not helpful at all whatsoever like literally not at all.

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Honestly, you being a minor doesn't excuse you from any critism

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Apartment _ Seoul

Photography by momomi

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Well since you're so done arguing, I might as well put my final word in.

Yes, it is absolutely disheartening when people are unable to get a professional diagnosis. Life isn't fair. But that is not an excuse to diagnose yourself. No matter what the reason be, whether you're in an abusive relationship, unsupportive family or simply don't have the financial resources. It does not excuse self dx.

I'm also not directing any of this towards people who HAVE eventually gotten a professional diagnosis. Because that is literally the biggest difference: they took notice of their behavior and symptoms and became self aware and then finally reached out to a professional.

And you go on to say that people who self diagnose rarely parade their mental illness around, but I LITERALLY see it on tumblr all.the.time. People get so upset and prissy when people are doubtful of their self diagnosis, when you can literally find so many of their own blog posts, blaming their actions on the disorder and putting it in the tags. I even see it in people's bios, so how exactly is that not "parading" it around?

I guess you like to call people republicans often, particularly when they don't share your opinion? That's nice, you know nothing of me at all. I just like to think for myself, even if that pisses people off and upsets them. People seem to be so eager to call me a republican or "sjw" just for calling out behavior that does more damage than good. And just like you are free to post and express anything you'd like on tumblr, you have to deal with the fact that people will see what you're posting and will have an opposing opinion. You don't have to complain about people responding and putting there 2 cents in when you're literally blogging to the public.

why do people automatically hate/shame/distrust ppl who have self-diagnosed mental illnesses?? like why do ppl think self dx ppl are faking?? first of all, everyone’s symptoms are different so who the fuck r you to say someone is faking im sorry can u read minds?? and second of all, a lot of ppl can tell their symptoms early on and since theres a stigma around mental illness they dont get it checked out, or they dont have the resources?? ex: ive had anxiety my whole life and when i was 7 it was inhibiting my ability to work in school so my school spoke to my parents and they all suggested i had severe anxiety (but ya know they werent doctors so they couldnt diagnose anything) so i’ve gone about my entire life w anxiety, aware i have symptoms of anxiety, w/out being properly diagnosed until recently ?? so in short, stop being a wet sock and acting like u know more about a person’s mental illness than them

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Uh, yes I can call out bullshit. That's literally freedom of speech so yeah, I CAN "call you out". And I have every right to be distrustful of someone who self diagnoses because they literally did not go to a professional??? Like if a psychiatrist can't diagnose themselves, what the hell makes you think you can? It's infuriating to see people diagnose themselves with serious disorders when they haven't even sought out medical help, it trivializes those who HAVE been diagnosed and just furthermore adds to the stigma already surrounding mental illness.

Grow up honestly.

why do people automatically hate/shame/distrust ppl who have self-diagnosed mental illnesses?? like why do ppl think self dx ppl are faking?? first of all, everyone’s symptoms are different so who the fuck r you to say someone is faking im sorry can u read minds?? and second of all, a lot of ppl can tell their symptoms early on and since theres a stigma around mental illness they dont get it checked out, or they dont have the resources?? ex: ive had anxiety my whole life and when i was 7 it was inhibiting my ability to work in school so my school spoke to my parents and they all suggested i had severe anxiety (but ya know they werent doctors so they couldnt diagnose anything) so i’ve gone about my entire life w anxiety, aware i have symptoms of anxiety, w/out being properly diagnosed until recently ?? so in short, stop being a wet sock and acting like u know more about a person’s mental illness than them

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Uh, yes I can call out bullshit. That's literally freedom of speech so yeah, I CAN "call you out". And I have every right to be distrustful of someone who self diagnoses because they literally did not go to a professional??? Like if a psychiatrist can't diagnose themselves, what the hell makes you think you can? It's infuriating to see people diagnose themselves with serious disorders when they haven't even sought out medical help, it trivializes those who HAVE been diagnosed and just furthermore adds to the stigma already surrounding mental illness.

Grow up honestly.

why do people automatically hate/shame/distrust ppl who have self-diagnosed mental illnesses?? like why do ppl think self dx ppl are faking?? first of all, everyone’s symptoms are different so who the fuck r you to say someone is faking im sorry can u read minds?? and second of all, a lot of ppl can tell their symptoms early on and since theres a stigma around mental illness they dont get it checked out, or they dont have the resources?? ex: ive had anxiety my whole life and when i was 7 it was inhibiting my ability to work in school so my school spoke to my parents and they all suggested i had severe anxiety (but ya know they werent doctors so they couldnt diagnose anything) so i’ve gone about my entire life w anxiety, aware i have symptoms of anxiety, w/out being properly diagnosed until recently ?? so in short, stop being a wet sock and acting like u know more about a person’s mental illness than them

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A fat cat.

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Wow it does not take a rocket scientist to think logically and be able to call out bullshit when they see it

why do people automatically hate/shame/distrust ppl who have self-diagnosed mental illnesses?? like why do ppl think self dx ppl are faking?? first of all, everyone’s symptoms are different so who the fuck r you to say someone is faking im sorry can u read minds?? and second of all, a lot of ppl can tell their symptoms early on and since theres a stigma around mental illness they dont get it checked out, or they dont have the resources?? ex: ive had anxiety my whole life and when i was 7 it was inhibiting my ability to work in school so my school spoke to my parents and they all suggested i had severe anxiety (but ya know they werent doctors so they couldnt diagnose anything) so i’ve gone about my entire life w anxiety, aware i have symptoms of anxiety, w/out being properly diagnosed until recently ?? so in short, stop being a wet sock and acting like u know more about a person’s mental illness than them

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i can't even believe that opposing self dx is a controversial topic but i guess it is oops

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i always see genuienly SEVERELY mentally ill ppl get attacked and accused of faking meanwhile the bitches with entry level nd combos who self-dx themselves with the new tumblr disorder trend every other week get off scot-free every time