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MBTI vs. Enneagram

MBTI (Nature): focuses on inborn personality traits. How you naturally think, feel, and behave based on your inherent preferences and tendencies. It's about the personality you were born with. Describes how we think.

Enneagram (Nurture): how your personality has been shaped by your experiences and environment. How your life experiences and personal growth influence your behaviors and motivations. It's about how your personality develops and changes over time based on what happens to you. Describes what we think.

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Fav Colors

Bright Gold: FDD017 Royal Azure: 002EAA

Rich Blue: 021BF9 Palatinate Blue: 273BE2

Magenta-Red: F20089 Violet?: 7209B7

Light Mustard: FBD156 Pinkish-Red: CC2D54

Pastel Violet: C49FCB

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Close friends nicknames

Bestie ✨

Bae ✨

Sis

Bro ✨

Dude✨

Gurl ✨

Dummy ✨

Nerd

Weirdo

Sherlock

Pookie

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Ways to develop a Judging characteristic

Write down goals

Take advantage of agendas. Write to-do lists ✨

Stick to your routines & schedules⚠️

Tidy your work spaces regularly

Prioritize tasks from most important to least

Limit Distractions⚠️

Plan ahead ✨

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Endearing Love Names I Like

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Instinctual Variant in a Nutshell

EQ: What do each variant need to survive?

SP: Need secure and comfortable life. Prioritize on their well-being.

SO: Need connections with other people to feel belonged. Maintain their bonds, social circle, group dynamics. Focus on enhancing social life, and creating a community.

SX: Need intense relationships, captivating experiences, deep one-to-one connections, passionate engagement with their interests and people. Most importantly, want interesting life.

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Instinctual Variant Stackings in Nutshell

SP/SO: Average citizen. Knows their role in society. Aim for comfortable living. Would only do things for themselves first, then focus on the group. Strive to meet every goal they set. They only allow things/people that fulfills them. Find it hard to socialize with community, so they observe and look for something meaningful. Have conditions when building friendships. ❓

SO/SP: Model citizen. Have moral responsibility to look after people. Desires justice.

SO/SX: The Host. Have many social circles. Enjoy sharing passion with others and encourage others to share their story.

SP/SX: Reclusive loner. Live in the shadows. No interests in connecting with a group of people. Even though they focus on personal life, they still need close relationships. Though they prioritize themselves over the other. Keep things to themselves. Hesitant to form new relationships. Either look calm or intense. Act mysterious and so secretive. Very loyal to close ones, like they’ll provide for them. They just want to live comfortably and what they desire. Know how to read people.

SX/SP: Magician. That charismatic mentor and potion-keeper. Looks for riveting experiences while also concern for stability. They have determination, charisma, yet practical and set boundaries. They take risks in a safe way. Well prepared for danger. Stock characters examples are Passionate Lover, Anti-Hero, Artist, Mentor, Entrepreneur.

SX/SO: Social Butterfly, Superstar, Idol figure. Charismatic, Alluring. ❓

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My Tritypes

7-4-1: The Visionary

Idealistic, Unique, Creative.

want to cause change

have big ideas and willpower to change the world

want to try something new

they start the trends

want to be very original and unique

very intuitive and creative

either the life of the party, or someone who needs much alone time

want ideal relationships and fulfilling experiences

easily irritated when things isn't ideal to them

tends to compare themselves

have a utopian vision.

My productive self who wants to achieve their dreams and change the world.

7-4-9: The Gentle Spirit

Positive, Dreamer, At peace from harsh reality

they change people from bad to good

tends to hide their pain, thoughts, feelings, opinions from others

lazy, delays important tasks for fun stuff

Dreams a lot

often disappointed in real world

want to avoid conflict

try to change things to positive, fluffy, humorous

barely reveal anything about themselves. They let the other talk.

My laidback self who wants to have fun.

4-6-9: The Seeker

Insecure, Anxious, Sensitive, Overthinker, Inquisitive (curious about the world), Introspective (search for answers to one's life's mystery)

experiences intense feelings of self-doubt

very dependent and need support

scared of being separated from others

scared of making the wrong decision, being tricked.

Experiences so much anxiety

Scared of being wronged, rejections, exclusion

emotionally comforting to others

Think skeptically

accepting

experiences so much pain that they can empathize someone else's pain.

search for answers to their questions

My unconfident self

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Copying Someone's Interests

I really don't like it when someone follows/copies my dreams and values. It makes me feel basic because when other people replicate the same interest as mine, this lets me know that I am not as unique as I thought. It shortens my unique self. I want to be the only one in the room that likes this stuff.

What bothers me more is that people would copy my methods and skills. First of all, I want to be the only one that possess this skill and no one else can. It triggers me that people imitate my techniques and claim it their own. The only time that i'm calm with this is when people give me credit and state that they got inspiration from me.

I hate is when someone has the same personality as mine 100%. It makes me feel that "that" person is the star of the show, while I sit in the shade like garbage despite having the same identity. I think that person is superior because that person is going to influence better than me.

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DO NOT CHANGE THE ANSWERS FOR THE LOVE OF GOD. Teachers may have taken a picture of the students answers so people wont cheat. Don’t even think about it, especially in college, AP Classes. Its like being sent to prison just because you are involved in a crime. Its not worth the risk. Its not worth committing a small crime just to face a big consequence. 

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Each Enneagram type in a Nutshell

Type 1 - Reformer - Strict Perfectionist:

Desire to be perfect. They follow the rules and do things right. They are moral. They want to get every detail correct. They take mistakes seriously. Do not care for praise. Have strong internal compass. Comfortable with criticism.

Type 2- Helper :

Desire to be liked and appreciative. People pleaser because they help others. Act as a support-system. Want to fit in.

Type 3 - Achiever - Competitive Achiever:

Desire to be the best. Very competitive, overachiever, want self-worth, seek praise. Desire to be successful in all aspects and never fail. They want things to be accomplished. They are sensitive to criticism, like they worry about what others think of them. Have weak internal compass. Would lie to save their image.

Type 4 - Individualist- Intense Creative:

Desire to be unique and authentic. They want to be extraordinary and stand out from the crowd. They hate being the average person. They want to express their identity. Feeling-based. They are motivated when having a purpose.

Type 5 - Investigator:

Desire to know/understand everything. Independent. They love constant learning. They love to learn about the world. Secretive, Knowledgeable, Curious-minded,

Type 6 - Loyalist:

Desire to feel belonged, safe. They want to be responsible and prepared all the time. They want support from others. Have high devotion. Committed.

 Type 7 - Enthusiast:

Desire to feel happy/satisfied, experience life to the fullest, and avoid pain. They want to experience everything. Life is an adventure for them. They dont want to feel discomfort. Fun, Positive, spontaneous person.

Type 8 - Challenger:

Desire to be strong and not look vulnerable. They want to be in control with everything and not seem weak. Make sures to achieve their goals. Assertive,

Type 9 - Peacemaker:

Desire for world peace. They want peaceful atmosphere, with stable society and equality. Want to avoid conflict. Have kindness. Want everyone to get along. Treat each other with respect. Let others be happy, as long as there is no dispute.

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Main Character Syndrome

Aka Hyper Individualism

Being the main character is like romanticizing your life and making the boring parts of life seem interesting. The reason why this condition is taking things too far is because people tend to make something all about themselves. This is applied in someone's problem, an event, or a tragic incident. Though, one reason behind this is that they are jealous of you. The people who are lower than you are will most likely be jealous.

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No Purpose

TW: Vent!

In the past 8 months, I was a junior in high school. Being a junior means spending 8 hours on homework, getting no sleep, and trying to fulfill those last minute achievements for college. Well, I'm afraid to say that I have not accomplished any of those goals that I hoped to achieve: starting a club, being a project manager, friendly relations with teachers, and getting straight As.

In those times, my purpose, goals, dreams slowly faded away. I have no idea what I really wanted to do in life, other than career choice. I had a vision of myself becoming an influencer, but I haven't even started on that goal because of how busy I am. My hobbies also faded away. I don't know what type of person am I. I don't know what my interests are. I have no motivation to perform any of my hobbies: content creation, poetry, writing stories. I feel like I am a lost soul in the middle of blankness. I feel as if my links with my dreams have been severed. I really hope I can turn back into a purpose with a sole purpose.

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Keep your happiness to yourself because the evil eye is always around. Always wish the best for others. 12:22

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Witnessing a fan dissing your hater

Story Time: I came across a hater and that hater insults me. However, a fan stood up to that hater and that fan began to diss that hater by cussing & roasting them. I really appreciate the support, though I want to tell my fan to be careful. Though I wasn't sure what to be careful of . What should I say to them to show my appreciation to them, but I also want to say to not diss them back and be nice and not cause commotion? I wasn't sure how to react.

Solutions:

Let your fan know that you appreciate their support and their attempts to defend you.

Encourage your fan to avoid engaging in insults or slurs, as this can lead to the escalating of the situation and a possible escalation of any conflict.

Remind your fan that it's not worth wasting time on a hater who is already set in their feelings and thoughts.

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Why don't students ask questions, despite teachers being openly encouraging to do so?

Problem: I feel like the problem for teachers is that even if they encourage students to ask questions, students don’t really say anything, rather they stay silent. Why does that happen?

Shyness or social anxiety, which can make it difficult to speak up.

Fear of being judged or rejected, which can also dissuade students from speaking.

Lack of confidence in their understanding of the material, which could make them hesitant to ask questions.

Feeling like they don't need further explanation due to already being somewhat familiar with the content.

Being unsure what to ask about.

Solutions to address the issue:

For teachers:

Create a welcoming and encouraging environment where it is safe and respectful for students to ask questions.

Be open and approachable, so that students feel comfortable asking questions.

Provide clear instruction and explanation, and provide students with ample opportunities to ask questions.

For students:

Don't be afraid to ask questions, even if you feel like you don't fully understand the content.

Take initiative and speak up even when you're unsure what to say.