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being a young lgbtq+ person and seeing older queer folk is SO incredibly important

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Some trans men have large hips and thighs and that's okay. I only ever see trans men depicted as having skinny waists and no hips or thighs whatsoever and I need people to understand that some trans men do have large hips. And if you're a trans man who has large hips and/or thighs please know there's nothing wrong with you and you're not less of a man for it.

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i love pre-T and never T trans men. i love trans men who don't change their outward appearance after coming out. i love trans men who dont want any surgeries. i want trans men who dont bind. i love trans men who like wearing bras. i love trans men who wear makeup, who hate having facial or body hair, who still shop in the "women's" section. i see you and i love you for being men in a way that's comfortable for you. there are many ways to be a man, you aren't less of a man because of how you present. ily!

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Okay I keep seeing posts about trans men with big chests finding bras that work to squish things pretty flat. I wore a 44H cup from Lane Bryant... NOTHING got me flat. Not a single thing made me look less than a DD. That's because I had 13 pounds of tissue on my rib cage that can't compress INTO that rib cage no matter how tight I pulled things. No folding, no layering, no doubling up ever was enough for my bf to even notice the size difference. I spent hundreds trying and every time I would be left sobbing in front of the mirror in garbage that left me suffocated and bulging.

THIS HAPPENS... Not everyone has a success story with binding, and I wish I wish that I had found just one person that had said... Hey, it's never going to work at that size but that's okay. It's not your fault.

It's not because you didn't research. Because you didn't TRY hard enough. Sometimes bodies just don't compress. They aren't meant to.

So... it sucks but you're not alone.

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wow i missed painting shit on fabric and staring at it for hours in awe of my ability

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shout out to all my middle school weird girls who grew up and are still weird but are no longer girls

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Shout out to trans people with chronic pain. Your struggles and relationship your body are difficult, but you are not alone. Treat yourself gently and with kindness 🤍

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cis woman who’s expected to be a thin pretty girl to trans man who’s expected to be a thin pretty boy pipeline

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about to bake a potato

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Something that truly helped me accept my trans body and my manhood was realizing that men don't exist in the narrow margins which society tries forcing us in. Really! It was so life-altering to see men with my exact body type, with my facial structure, with my interests and hobbies and joys, who wore things I loved. I've learned just how versatile manhood is - it was never just about the chiseled, tan, athletic, conformist. However you exist as a man (whether you're trans or cis) is how you're supposed to be. You do not have to fit into any mold which you don't like. Your body is good enough for a body - for a man's body. Your interests, your joys, your style, your love - it all makes you you, and if you're a man or if you align closest with masculinity or manhood, then that doesn't change this fact. I hope you always remember this: you're man enough. You're masculine enough. You are enough. Always.

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it's cold out there, reblog to give a trans man a cup of soump

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seems like we've been so scarred / some people call it art

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i hope you make peace with your pain / and never lose your flames

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Repblog to delete your deadname from existence

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being trans is beautiful.

i am soft.

i am strong.

i am masculine.

i am transgender.

i am beautiful.

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Mac Finds His Pride - It’s Always Sunny In Philadelphia (2005-) ↳ November 7th, 2018

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chubby trans mascs and trans guys are hot.

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