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Helping Heart
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You should never feel like you have to bottle your emotions forever. This site was designed to give advice to those who ask for it. No discrimination. No 'name-calling'. No harassment. Just pure advice and 100% of our listening.
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helpingheart-blog · 11 years ago
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what does "more single than most" mean?
This is pretty pointless to answer because it's been so long BUT my take on it is that "single" is synonymous for "lonely". But it's a bit too vague for me to dissect. I'm sorry! Xoxo, Barbra
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helpingheart-blog · 11 years ago
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WOW. 2 YEARS I let this blog be forgotten. I’m so sorry. It’s been bothering me recently and I just retrieved the password to log in again!
I’m thinking of bringing it back now that I’m stable and could run it… what do you think?
Xoxo, Barbra
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helpingheart-blog · 13 years ago
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(by 陳彥愷)
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helpingheart-blog · 13 years ago
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Here to help, anytime.
Open to give advice to anyone about anything. No judgement! Only the honest truth! You can vent, rant, confess, ask, etc… I listen and give you my advice!  xoxo
Don’t forget: there’s always someone willing to help, you just have to let them know.
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helpingheart-blog · 13 years ago
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helpingheart-blog · 13 years ago
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We were the people who were not in the papers. We lived in the blank white spaces at the edges of print. It gave us more freedom. We lived in the gaps between the stories.
Margaret Atwood, A Handmaid’s Tale (via pavorst)
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helpingheart-blog · 13 years ago
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thisishangingrockcomics:
Oh gosh I made a sappy kind of sweet comic, what am I becoming.
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helpingheart-blog · 13 years ago
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This summer: be yourself. Summer vibes are all about feeling beautiful and natural and unique and that's what you're all about! Don't settle for less or go back to old habits. Do something new! Have fun, but be responsible and safe. This summer you should let the best of yourself shine through!
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helpingheart-blog · 13 years ago
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I'm a lesbian. I've been keeping that secret for a while but not that long. It kills me inside everyday that nobody knows who I really am. But at the same time I know it's not time for me to come out, most of my friends are homophobic and I'm just not ready. I'm going to a therapist for the first time soon and I don't know if I should tell him/her? If I should: On the first visit or later? How?
I just want to let you know that you are beautiful and you are so strong. It is a hard thing to go to a therapist, so I commend you. I absolutely think you should tell your therapist the truth, they are there to help you and full disclosure is the only way to get there. 
As for your friends, do you think maybe it's time to reevaluate your relationships with them? I think it's more harmful to be with people that can't accept the real you and pretend every day to be someone you're not than being honest with them. However, coming out is a very personal decision (in my eyes it's equivalent to losing your virginity), so make sure you are truly comfortable with yourself and your surroundings because no one makes that decision for you. You make that decision. 
I hope that helps and if you need another outlet besides your therapist, Barbara and I are always here for you.
Xx
Ayla 
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helpingheart-blog · 13 years ago
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helpingheart-blog · 13 years ago
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Here to help.
Have something to rant/confess/vent to us about? Tell us here.
Have any testimonies to tell us of how we've helped? Submit here. 
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helpingheart-blog · 13 years ago
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helpingheart-blog · 13 years ago
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it’s empty in the valley of your heart (by sarahandsons_)
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helpingheart-blog · 13 years ago
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Reflection is one of the best ways to cope with your problems. Allow yourself time to truly evaluate yourself and your surroundings every once and awhile. Go for walks. Breathe deeply. Think passionately. Let your mind unwind and with it all the negativity will fall away.
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helpingheart-blog · 13 years ago
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my best friend who i known since 4th grade is constantly trying to take my other best friend away from me. i knew him since preschool. she would always talk to him whenever im with him and i feel left out. i dont know what to say to her because im been friends with her since elementry.
Since you've known her forever, you guys harbour a lot of trust for one another, I imagine? Because of this bond you two share, I would strongly advise being open and honest with her. I'm sure opening yourself up to this kind of communication will make it clearer on both your end and hers and strengthen your relationship for the better. :) 
X
Ayla
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