g1hana

[g1hana]

speaking as someone who’s involved in kink, consensual somnophilia would fall into the category of “consensual non consent” because touching your partner while their asleep and can’t communicate with you WOULD be assault (bc by virtue of being asleep, they quite literally can’t consent).

BUT if you’ve discussed it before hand, what you want from it, what your limits are, then that makes what would be an otherwise non consensual situation suddenly consensual—which is why it’s called consensual non consent.

when it comes to the question of consent, you (general you, not you specifically) have to put people’s autonomy and choice first bc doing otherwise… sort of just inherently disrespects their ability to provide that consent? like, if someone clearly says “i want to be here!” then that’s consent, even when it comes to kinks that you (again, general you, i’m not trying to make assumptions abt you or your sexuality) personally don’t partake in or understand, you know?

which is basically a really long way to say that you’re correct, providing consent makes it consensual, even if people who don’t partake in it would disagree with you.

there are a lot of people who get weird about kink in the sense that their SO insistent that it (or perhaps, certain aspects of it) are inherently bad that they disregard other people’s ability to make choices about their own bodies and sex lives—which, in turn, means that they’re the ones disrespecting other people’s consent, bc their refusing to acknowledge someone else’s ability to. i think it’s cool of you to go “consent is consent”, bc, yeah, it is.

(not that i’m trying to imply that’s what the person you tagged was saying, either, i didn’t check out their post and only saw yours completely by chance, before i offered my two cents—sorry about that btw)

Right I agree!, For me personally I feel like if you talk to your partner and have fully communicated with them about what you wanna do and they are completely fine with it then I don't consider it rape,

Now I do see a lot of fandoms who abuse this and try to sneak stuff in that is not okay but other then that if you and your partner is okay with doing somno then nobody can tell you anything.

(and your perfectly fine baby you don't have to apologize)

[g1hana]

Hey quick question for everyone, do you consider consented somnophilia as rape?,

And when I say this I mean when a person asks their partner if they can wake them up with sex and the partner says yes and is fully comfortable and has consented do you guys consider this as rape?,

because I saw another creator ( @cntloup ) talk about this and me personally and this is only my opinion I don't think it is rape, now it would be different if you didn't ask your partner and just woke them up with sex but I really don't see it as rape if your partner is fully comfortable and has fully consented, AND even when they get woken up with the sex are still happy and letting it happen to them and are not angry or upset and can still go about they day happy and like it's a regular day,

This may just be me and that is totally okay but that's just my opinion what about y'all?

[g1hana]

SERIOUSLY, Like damn give a girl a lil flavor now and then😂🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

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[g1hana]

Bro where is the black men x reader atttt like ughhh I like reading jjk x reader and aot x reader but I need some flavorr LIKE PLS GIVE RECS OMG 🤦🏾‍♀️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[g1hana]

Bro guys I just realized that you can actually ask people for smaus and fics😀, LIKE I BE SO SCARED IS IT ONLY ME?

[g1hana]

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me when the READER in the X READER has a name:

like babe the fic ate but i do NOT look like an Aurora🙁