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*finds antiradqueer awareness blog*

Its pro endo

ENDOS ARE TRANSIDS BY ANOTHER DAMN NAME

Yeah.. its fucking crazy how many people are "anti radqueer" or "anti transID" but have ,, zero issues with endos?? Like,, are you.. stupid? Perhaps? Do you actually understand why radqueers and transIDs are bad or do you just say you're against them because you see it so much.. because like.. if you knew why then surely you'd understand that endos, who are low-key trans-DID people in a different font, are bad,, right?? right?

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Ironic how Pro-Endos will claim to be supportive and inclusive and tell Anti-Endos to DNI but will go out of their way to harass an Anti-Endo Blog just for simply existing! Follow your own DNI, it's literally so simple!

—Aoife, Shi+Doll

nod nod. Literally happens all the time. They break both their own DNI and the anti-endo blog's DNI most of the time. It shows a lack of respect for boundaries and also shows that they think DNIs are like, a one way thing or something. Either that or that they're just like, really dumb or something

Either way I literally have like, an old post of mine with tons of examples of (pro) endos harassing anti endos. Dunno if I'll ever finish that post, but ah well

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queer system call us a fruit salad

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being a system is having one of your headmates say the wildest shit known to man and just going "WHAT." while turning around to look at nothing

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treat your alters as separate people or not, but at the end of the day i think its important to acknowledge that we're all parts of someone who we were supposed to be as a whole

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If you ever need proof that systemscringe is bullshit

I need to remember my Reddit login so i can post this on r/systemscringeiscringe but yeah

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i kinda dont get how endos claim to not have osddid and yet mention they experience key symptoms of it and use the same terminology as those with disordered plurality as well as try to push themselves into and invade traumagenic spaces, dictating how they should be used? ??

?????

on top of that blatantly breaking boundaries and harassing people? scrolling and filtering what you see on media has been made so easy why arent yall taking THAT into your advantage instead

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I hope you all know I am always like 10 seconds away from punching an endo

🫶 ableists aren't punk, ableists deserve to be punched and way more things that I won't say

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correct me if I'm wrong!! but aren't endos being racist by using the term tulpa? from what I know it's a closed Hindu practice (meaning you can't do it unless you were born into it) and it's not at all the same thing as DID or any disorder-- so why are they (endos) trying to use that as a term????

they are being racist yes. Also I'm fairly certain it's a Buddhist practice not a Hindu one but yes, it's still a closed practice that is not even remotely similar to DID. Endos who use the term are appropriating it, they're being ableist and racist at the same time, and they're also spreading misinformation about both DID and the practice itself

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Common things in DID that no one likes to talk about

- switches that feel like you’re turning into someone else rather than them taking control (non-possessive switching)

- being unable to recognize amnesia until something requires you to remember something you forgot

- staying in the front for weeks at a time

- being unable to communicate with alters internally (this is so common why does everyone act like this is weird?)

- feeling like you don’t have any problems because you feel disconnected from them

- constant denial

- rapid identity, label, and appearance changes

- comorbidities, particularly personality disorders, anxiety disorders, and the schizophrenia spectrum

- autism (there is science pointing towards autistic people being more susceptible to trauma)

- disliking your system

- wanting final fusion

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It is not racist to say that endos are not real. Endos appropriate eastern religions all of the time in order to fit their narrative of being a “system”

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ALL SYSTEMS ARE SEEN

You are seen if you have a big headcount

You are seen if you have a small headcount

You are seen if you switch often

You are seen if you rarely switch

You are seen if you deal with flashbacks often

You are seen if you don't deal with flashbacks often

You are seen if you can communicate with your alters

You are seen if you have a hard time communicating with your alters

You are seen if you struggle

You are seen if you dint struggle

You are still seen. You are still a system.

- 🧿 + 🥀

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Reblogging here to vent

Fuck endos

Fuck the pro endo community

I'm sure some are nice, I've met a few that actually respect boundaries and arent transphobic but my fucking God are the are

Jesus christ is that community rampant with assholes who violate boundaries, call people names and send hate when given even the slightest notion they're in the wrong and not allowed somewhere

Ableist fucks

No you're not fucking disabled if you're an endo

You're a fucking transphobic piece of shit if you use the word sysmed

YOU should get off the tags you ableist fuck, you're not valid.

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saw "being anti-endo is racist"

you are stealing our terms and thinly veiling yourself as a "system" i think we need to focus on your ableism first

They say this as if most endos aren't like.. Incredibly racist.. not only by appropriating a closed culture with their whole Tuplas thing,, but also by straight up claiming to have black alters who can say the n word and stuff..

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I feel guilty for using things like PK and SP cause apparently they're endo run but I can't function without them I feel bad thogh

-a little who will not be disclosing their name

Don't feel guilty. You are not doing anything wrong by using the tools available to you in order to make life easier. Yes, the creators are dickheads, but unfortunately there are hardly any alternatives right now. You're not a bad person for using those, you're simply a disabled person trying to make your life easier. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise 🫂

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I feel guilty for using things like PK and SP cause apparently they're endo run but I can't function without them I feel bad thogh

-a little who will not be disclosing their name

Don't feel guilty. You are not doing anything wrong by using the tools available to you in order to make life easier. Yes, the creators are dickheads, but unfortunately there are hardly any alternatives right now. You're not a bad person for using those, you're simply a disabled person trying to make your life easier. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise 🫂

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TW vague trauma mention

Was once told I'm privileged for going through severe complex trauma from around infancy to high school because "it means people take my DID seriously."

Also. they don't even take it seriously

I don't get why endos say this. Like, first of all, TRAUMA IS NOT A PRIVILEGE. Being disabled is not a privilege. DIDOSDD systems are not in any way privileged for their trauma or their disorder. Second of all, as you mentioned, even with the trauma people don't take it seriously. If anything they treat you worse for it, especially when you start showing symptoms of that trauma, such as having "odd" triggers or struggling to trust others, oversharing, undersharing, being dissociated constantly, not remembering things they told you multiple times, ect. People HATE when they have to deal with actually traumatized and disabled individuals. To say those individuals are in some way privileged, simply because you want to have what they have, is not only stupid, but fucking disgusting.