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I ❤️ contributing to low birth rates

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📸 phyllis christoper - on our backs 2006

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not to be mean and a fat bitch but some of you hyper focus too intensely on the fact that you are small as your main point of attractiveness and femininity.

i AM your friend that’s too woke and i beg you to free yourself from that shackle please

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DOECHII'S full performance of catfish and denial Is a river at the GRAMMYS

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“I told myself if I ever won a Grammy and I got to stand up here in-front of the most powerful people in music, I would demand that labels and the industry profiting millions of dollars off artists would offer a liveable wage and healthcare, especially to developing artists...labels we got you, but do you got us?”- Chappell Roan during her GRAMMYS acceptance speech.

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I LOVE ‘EM BUTCH pin. 1990’s. Canada. Source: The Arquives

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everything is romantic if you’re hopeless enough.

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everything is romantic if you’re hopeless enough.

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if you get mad at lesbians for calling their partners their boyfriend you need to have some reflection time and really process why it bothers you so much, lesbians that use he/him pronouns or like to be called boyfriend are not “uprooting the sanctity of lesbianism” or “disgracing the identity” or any of the terfy rhetoric y’all are coming up with and id argue that there’s nothing more lesbian than having or being a butch/masc lesbian boyfriend, y’all are just stuck on societies definition/view of lesbians, there is no one way to be a lesbian and im so sick of it

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in honor of black history month 2025, i’ve put together a list of books written by black sapphic authors for you to read in the month of february

non-fiction essays/memoirs:

all about love: new visions by bell hooks

black lesbian in white america by anita cornwell

sister outsider: essays and speeches by audre lorde

mouths of rain: an anthology of black lesbian thought by briona simone jones

blues legacies and black feminism by angela davis

does your mama know?: an anthology of black lesbian coming out stories by lisa c. moore

fiction:

the color purple by alice walker

loving her by ann allen shockley

the gilda stories by jewelle gomez

in another place, not here by dionne brand

pomegranate by helen elaine lee

the summer we got free by mia mckenzie

these letters end in tears by musih tedji xaviere

dead in long beach, california by venita blackburn

young adult:

honey girl by morgan rogers

escaping mr. rochester by l.l. mckinney

this ravenous fate by hayley dennings

faebound by saraa el-arifa

so let them burn by kamilah cole

where sleeping girls lie by faridah àbíké-íyímídé

adult:

the deep by rivers solomon

sweet vengeance by viano oniomoh

come back (love concealed) by terri ronald

house of hunger by alexis henderson

short stories:

girl, woman, other by bernadine evaristo

the secret lives of church ladies by deesha philyaw

additional info:

-> “why wasn’t this book listed?” probably because it wasn’t black sapphic-centric, the author isn’t a black sapphic themself, or i just simply haven’t heard of it! so feel free to add on if it meets those two criteria

many of these books require trigger warnings, especially some of the older ones that are more likely to feature racial struggles of the time. please do your due diligence and search for tws if you want to read them!

please feel free to add onto this list in the rbs or comments! happy black history month

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She's sublimating her anger into art

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include black femmes in your sapphism, include Asian masc in your sapphism, include indigenous women in your sapphism, include Arab women in your sapphism, include religious women in your sapphism. The list goes on ! Many of you are so kind but it becomes increasingly apparent that your idea of lesbian diversity is a thin white girl with long brown hair and another thin white girl with long blonde hair.

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im always saying shit like ‘the worst thing i could do for my mental health right now is isolate’ while crawling into bed with my phone

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“heteronormative” this “heteronormative” that

gender is made up, let me want a butch husband in peace

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the only thing I’m grinding are my teeth by accident

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i love how kendrick lamar was like i fucking hate this one dude and the rest of the industry was like fuck man we do too give this guy 5 grammys