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*runs up to you*

*kisses your tummy*

*scampers away*

until we meet again

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The sight of someone’s soft belly jiggling as you tickle it will always be adorable to me.

Just makes me want to tickle and squish it even more!! Sooo cute fr <33

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you're insecure about your round, pudgy belly?

you mean this wonderfully warm and soft belly?

this blissfully snuggleable, huggable belly right here?

the one that curves up so I don't have to bend over as far to kiss it?

with plenty of room for me to bury my face and nuzzle and give raspberries?

this belly that's so ticklish, you start squirming before I even touch you?

that shakes when you giggle in a way that makes me never want to hear you stop?

this is the belly you're insecure about??

oh, honey. this belly is perfect. 💕

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you don't have to apologize for taking up space if you're fat. you don't have to apologize for your appearance if you're fat. you don't have to apologize for your fashion choices if you're fat. you don't have to apologize for eating if you're fat. you don't have to apologize for sitting instead of standing if you're fat. you don't have to apologize for being disabled if you're fat. you don't have to apologize for needing mobility aids if you're fat. you don't have to apologize for needing support if you're fat. you don't have to apologize for being trans if you're fat. you don't have to apologize for being queer if you're fat.

you don't have to apologize for being fat.

fat people are guilted out of just about every experience in life. we're told we're too unsightly to dress and look how we want. queer fat people are made to feel like they can never be their given identity because the scant representation of queer folk that we have always shows a skinny or buff person, never any other kind of body in between. fat people are shamed out of becoming singers because of our appearance. fat people are shamed out of becoming actors because of our appeareance. fat people are shamed out of being chefs because we're fat. fat people are shamed out of sports and athletic activities because we're fat. it's often times difficult to impossible to find a fat role model because we are shamed out of thriving and reaching toward our goals.

you don't have to apologize. you don't have to feel like you "can't" do something because you're fat. if you are disabled, please consider and know your limitations, but being fat does not bar you from hobbies or careers that you want to participate in. fat people can dance, sing, do yoga, body build, cook, run, play sports, act, perform on stage, create art, become models and yes, even find sexual liberation in their fatness. fat people are allowed to be fat without apologizing for it. fat people are allowed to be fat.

we're taking up space and we're not apologizing for it anymore. we are not here solely to appeal to the sexual and aesthetic tastes of thin and "fit" people. we are here to live our lives.

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💗 thinking about how engaging in this kink can be a form of healing. how living in the u.s. as a fat person is a constant battle against doctors, advertisers, and even loved ones who believe that fatness is always unhealthy, undesirable, and unnatural. how embracing the rolls and curves and softness in others is an act of defiance, and embracing those things in ourselves is an act of self-love. how discovering that there are benefits of being fat, that there is a whole community that finds fatness attractive, and that there are natural ways to become and remain large proves that being fat does not mean being a failure of a human being. 💗

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Hullo! Nice to meet you! I have been wanting to make a blog on this topic for quite a while now, and I've finally mustered up the courage.

(Bear with me, I'm a bit shy 😭)

About My Blog, & What I'm Here For

I am into tickling & tummies, in the way dogs are into scratches behind the ears - I'm not getting anything sexual out of it, I just think they're nice. ☺️

I consider this a kink because I believe these topics should be treated with the same sensitivity, discretion, and respect for boundaries as sexual topics. But if you're here just for sexy themes, this blog is gonna disappoint you.

Most people would consider this blog SFW. Admittedly I'm not a huge fan of the term "SFW" as a descriptor (because it's rather ambiguous and I've seen a very broad range of interpretations on this site). but you're not gonna see anything explicit here.

Posts I deem as sorta-kinda-maaaybe inching into NSFW territory will be tagged as #suggestive.

This blog is NOT safe for minors. Minors attempting to interact will be blocked; anyone under 21 attempting to interact will be ignored. I'm just not comfy with that age gap.

Finally, all my posts and interactions are intended platonically (unless otherwise specified). I am already well spoken for in the romance department.

(more rambly footnotes on blog content below)

Some Additional Notes

This blog is chub-friendly.

Fat is beautiful, and everyone of ALL body types are welcomed here with open arms ❤️

(to be perfectly frank, I suspect I have a chub kink too in addition to my tummy tickling thing... stay tuned for more on this probably lol)

I'd also like to use this as a space to process my own relationship to my own tummy on here. I grew up with an extended family who was EXTREMELY fatphobic, but also parents who recognized it and did their level best to keep from passing it down - so I have a complex history with body image.

I also struggle with chronic illness, which has been dragging my weight all over hell's half acre for a solid decade now. Currently I'm trying to heal after a disastrous experience with a medication that left me underweight, so you might see me posting a bit on healthy weight gain and such as I navigate that.

But I must be clear: when it comes to acceptance, I do not assign value judgements based on a person's weight OR health.

Which means you are welcome here whether you are...

fat + healthy

fat + unhealthy

thin + healthy

thin + unhealthy

somewhere in between

Unsure and/or don't give a rat's ass whether any of the above categories apply.

I've spent significant portions of my life in all of the above states. I think the interplay of health and weight and body image is helpful to discuss, but never to judge.

Last but not least:

If anything I say or post compromises the safe space I'm hoping to create here, PLEASE reach out and let me know - through a DM, ask, tagged post, comment, whatever is comfiest for you. Heck, you could even use a burner account if you want. I'm flexible 😎