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"guys we're so cooked" "it's wraps" "the end is near" shut up shut up shut up shut up shut up. i say that with love because you are probably saying it out of distress and hopelessness, but for your own well-being and for everyone else's, please stop saying this shit.

no we are not "cooked." and by saying that, by the way, you are giving more power to the neo-nazi oligarchy in charge.

they want you to abandon all hope of a better life. they want you to believe "oh well, it's over, we might as well stop trying to fight back and just resign ourselves to despair forever."

every time you get on tiktok and comment "guys we're so cooked haha it's over," you are feeding into the mindset of hopeless compliance. you are, unknowingly, spreading this infectious idea that just because we've lost one battle, we've lost the entire war.

your words matter. i am saying this out of love and concern for our future, but please stop choosing words of defeat.

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Little! Janine Teagues

to sort of go with @miloscozycorner's little gregory board + headcanons <3

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𝐆𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐨𝐫𝐲 𝐄𝐝𝐝𝐢𝐞 𝐋𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐌𝐨𝐨𝐝𝐛𝐨𝐚𝐫𝐝☁︎︎

+ Some headcanons below the cut..

matching w/ @downinthehull <3

-> Only time he indulges his sweet tooth is when he’s teeny, because he doesn’t feel as guilty for it

-> Regresses between 3-5

-> Loves playing board games so much! His favorite board game is Monopoly >:b Not a huge fan of card games- he’s not very good at it. He plays against himself (and gets genuinely upset when he loses)

-> He finds gardening fun, but mostly uses pretend toys, not actually gardening

-> He’s pretty anxious about the idea of a caregiver, and would only be comfortable regressing by himself (janine might be the exception but he’s probably too awkward for it)

-> Not a big fan of stuffies. Instead he made himself a collection of pet rocks that he decorates and gives silly faces (and names, of course)

-> Not very verbal, but mostly because he’s just on his own anyways. Though if he was with Janine he’d probably be very quiet and not too good w/ words, but again, that’s a big if

-> Doesn’t like playing pretend or anything. He’s pretty content just sitting with his rocks and being silly by himself :3

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Setting Rules for Littles with PDA 📚

(Pathological Demand Avoidance)

Affirmation-style: instead of “Maddie HAS to brush her teeth before bed” try “Maddie is so smart! She always remembers to brush her teeth before bed”

De-center the task: instead of “Danny HAS to finish his homework before watching TV” try “when Danny’s worksheet is done he gets to watch three whole episodes of Bluey!”

Take little bites: instead of “Lou HAS to take out the trash” try “Lou can tie up the trash bag now, and take it to the bin later when they leave for work”

These won’t work for everyone, but they can help break thru the barrier of PDA that makes traditional rules hard for some little ones!

Feel free to add on if there’s something else that helps you!

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My baby made baba the best moodboard ever! Love you bunches, bunches and bunches!

@downinthehull / @softsailor

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unconventional caregivers, you’re seen. caregivers that curse, caregivers that aren’t parental and more so sibling coded, caregivers that can’t be full time, caregivers that want to be full time, caregivers that help with medical issues and not so much regression issues— you’re seen. your work is appreciated!

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hiiihibb :))))) I made a buncha kandi at a friend’s house :)) and it’s very fun!!!!! my internet ‘s out tho and I can’t play my comfort game :(( caus I can use my phone but not pc annnddd yea.! have a good day :)

can I be 🎀💎❤️ anon?????

That sounds like a lot of fun, teeny friend! Sorry to hear the internet went out, because that’s certainly no fun :c what’s the comfort game you like to play, little bub?

And of course you can! I’m so happy to see some anons drop by my inbox (≧◡≦) ♡

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When my baby and I share the same brain cell so the same characters just spin on our brains like microwave plates and our concepts bounce between the two of us like pin pong balls >:3 !

@softsailor / @downinthehull <33

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quinny's tips & tricks for sensitive littles !

[cg & no cg inclusive]

for littles with a cg,,,

💧 making your boundaries and needs clear from the start <3 this will help your caregiver understand what you need from them and lets them know that you need extra gentleness !

🐑 finding ways to make vocalizing your feelings less scary (i.e emotion flash cards, drawing sad/happy/scared faces, etc etc)

🫧 find and have your cg read affirmations for people with sensitive hearts (@/hopehealingarts on ig usually has a ton!!)

☁️ ice/cold compress for after tears!!

for littles without a cg,,,

💧 find agere-safe comfort media!! whether it be asmr, a book, a show/movie. anything to help distract your tears away! i personally like vooks on youtube !

🐑 journaling/coloring when you get big feelings can help the emotion feel less big !!

🫧 be patient with yourself <3 it's okay to just cry it out sometimes !

☁️ be gentle with yourself <3 it's totally okay if it takes you longer to do a certain activity or if you need a mental health break !! you are not a burden <3

[dividers by @saradika-graphics]

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Cg! Michael Taylor

mostly just for the first season as I haven't finished all of them yet!

he's just so papa, oeugh,,

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𝐏𝐨𝐬𝐭-𝐏𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐜 𝐀𝐭𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐑𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬 ☁︎︎

NSFW, k!nk or dualcom DNI.

-> This isn’t embarrassing. You had a medical emergency. It is real, it is valid. You deserve to take care of yourself.

-> Be gentle with yourself. You experienced something very distressing- you deserve kindness, not to beat yourself up over it.

-> Panic attacks are temporary. These big, scary feelings will pass. This is not your forever.

-> You are not weak. Panic attacks are your body’s way of protecting you when it feels like it’s in danger. If anything, you’re strong for pushing through this, even if you can’t see it right now.

-> This does not define you as a person, or take away from your value or strength- big or small.

-> You are not alone. As unfortunate as it is, panic attacks are common. You’re not weird or broken for experiencing them.

-> You’re not a burden for reaching out for support you need. The people that love and care about you will want to help you through this.

-> You deserve to rest and take it easy after this. Be kind to yourself, take it slow, and prioritize yourself. Your health will always come first, little ones.

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guess what!!

i did good in math yestrday!! i’m so happy i got a answer rite

Woah! That’s amazing! You did an incredible job, little buddy. Such a smart bub! \(^ヮ^)/

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Response to 🐍anon (I lost the ask)! :(

I’m sorry you didn’t end up getting the caregiver that you need and deserve. It can be really painful to think you’re making a connection with someone, only for them to change their mind on you and choose someone else.

But this isn’t a reflection on you! You’re going to find the right fit with time, and just because one person didn’t click, doesn’t mean you aren’t worthy of care. (⊃｡•́‿•̀｡)⊃

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i drew aaa dragun an i ehhhh :(

You drew a dragon, teeny bud? Well I am positive that the dragon looks amazing! I know a talented little artist when I see one (￣▽￣)

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Shoutout to Caregivers that went through unspeakable childhood trauma and heal themselves by taking care of regressors the way they wish they had been taken care of

Ya’ll are loved ❤️

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tips n tricks for tackling hygiene when regressed

here’s a short list of things you can do to stay happy and healthy even when tiny!!

Use sticker charts to motivate yourself to complete tasks

Set timers and reminders

have rewards ready for completed tasks

use bath toys when bathing or bath crayons when showering

have fun kiddy towels

have comfy clothes ready to change into

use a kid toothbrush and toothpaste

Play a brush along song, or use a kids brushing app

drink water with flavor packets or with lemon or cucumber

Make games revolving around cleaning your room!

listen to the clean up song as you clean!!

if you have anything to add then put it in the comments!!! <3 hope this helps!!