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[cozy-cg]

cg posted my personal life with agere on reddit to ask for moral adivce on REDDIT and tried to hide it from me and now all my friends hate him and want me to block him. dear lord WHY did he do that -🥞

Oh my gosh, that’s really terrible. I’m so sorry that happened to you, little friend, because that’s not okay at all ! I think your friends are on the right track in terms of blocking him, especially because that’s a very big violation of your privacy :c

Sending hugs, I hope everything turns out okay for you some way or another (⊃｡•́‿•̀｡)⊃

[cozy-cg]

i no feel loved o liked anymo milo :( mae me sad

-🎀

Hey little bub- I’m really sorry you’re had to be carrying this heavy feelings. I know they aren’t easy, and can be so weighing to navigate. But I want to remind you that you are so, so lovable and likeable, even if your current circumstances aren’t making you feel like that. I love you and like you.

I hope things feel lighter for you soon, teeny friend. Sending so many hugs and bunches of love for you (⊃｡•́‿•̀｡)⊃ ♡

[cozy-cg]

you are still a valid caregiver if... 💛🧺

you are still a valid caregiver if you became a caregiver because someone you love regresses.

you are still a valid caregiver if you are still learning about your little and how to care for them properly.

you are still a valid caregiver if you don't fully understand how regression works.

you are still a valid caregiver if you are learning how to care for someone else while also learning how to care for yourself.

you are still a valid caregiver if you don't go into a carer headspace.

you are still a valid caregiver if you have mental illnesses.

you are still a valid caregiver if you are neurodivergent.

you are still a valid caregiver if you don't fit the stereotypical parenting role.

you are still a vlid caregiver if you have more of an older sibling or friend role.

you are still a valid caregiver if you feel tired, stressed, or burnt out.

you are still a valid caregiver if you regress.

you are still a valid caregiver if you are in a relationship.

you are still a valid caregiver if you aren't in a relationship.

you are still a valid caregiver if you are shorter or smaller than your little.

you are still a valid caregiver if caring helps you cope with your own trauma.

you are needed and you deserve love too. thank you for all you do! 💛

[cozy-cg]

oh to have a real agere daycare!

everyone would have hooks with their names above to hang up their coats and little cubbys to put their belongings in! carers could sign their babies in or regressors could do it themslves with the help of a carer on staff! <3 it'd be such a warm, welcoming, judgement free place where everyone can safely be themslves...💭

there would be a quiet, soft and safe room for baby regressors to crawl around and play with toys! so many foam blocks to build with and stuffies to cuddle! there would be highchairs for snacks, and little inside tents for the babies that like to play alone and cribs for nap time with little nature themed mobiles above them!

and for the tots and kiddos, there would be baskets upon baskets of toys, from cars to barbies, to action figures! and there'd be a huge playground and field outside for recess! we'd have hopscotch, four-square, jungle gyms, swings, and so many slides... there's be pavement to color with chalk, bubbles to blow, tricycles and scooters to ride! and in the field, kiddos can play soccer and tag with one another <3

there'd be a community garden where our little helpers can pitch in and we'd grow all sorts of fruits, veggies, and plants! and at the end of each harvesting season, our leaflings will all get to take something home with them!

for the middles, they'd have their own room with game consoles, just dance, a computer lab, a craft station, and much more! we'd make super cool crafts like origami, mini plushies, bracelets, and more! there'd be a free library full of picture and chapter books to read, a cozy nature-themed reading corner with bean bags and a fake tree with animal hand puppets to play with!

little leaf daycare would be so amazing, don't you think?

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𝐀𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐧𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭: 𝐅𝐨𝐫 𝐓𝐞𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐞𝐬!

NSFW, k!nk or dualcom DNI.

-> Try to physically get the energy out. Run around, do as many push ups as you can or stay in a plank until you have to fall. They sound silly, but it can help get the tension out.

-> Allow yourself to release the emotions. Crying is okay, yelling into a pillow is okay- just being angry is okay.

-> If you struggle with being able to use nice hands on yourself or others, find fidget toys to distract yourself with. Stress balls can be especially good, because you can give them lots of big squeezes!

-> Create a communication card if you’re prone to lashing out at others. Instead of trying to engage in a conversation where you know you can’t be kind, prepare something ahead of time. Picsart can be a very good tool for creating simple cards like that!

-> Write in a journal or talk to your stuffies about any mean or harsh thoughts you can’t tell others- your stuffies won’t tell anyone, promise!

-> Identify triggers to try and avoid them, or find management for them. Writing down what upsets you can be helpful to reflect back on and learn from.

-> Always remember that you aren’t a bad teeny for having big feelings. It’s okay to be angry, to have tantrums, to not know what to say or do. You can navigate this- you are strong and valuable. ♡

[cozy-cg]

i,,,, do not remember what donut i got thwt day. but the guy who works at dunkin really likes me and he always gives me free stuff even when i dont ask so probably more than one!!!! i think i fractured my foot cause i cant walk and my friends had to help carry me home which got me in trouble with my mom for bothering them . todays a half day though which is good i think! itll be crowded after school so me and my friends will wait a little before going anywhere because people will bark at us -🥞

That sounds so yummy ! What are your favorite kind of donuts ? Personally I love the blueberry glazed ones from Dunkin >:b

I’m really sorry to hear you’ve got an ouchie though, buddy :C ! And especially sorry to hear you got an earful about it. You deserve the support and help of your pals when you’re not feeling good- you are the furthest thing from a bother !

A half day, yay ! Hopefully you were able to enjoy the extra time off- but people can be such meanies, especially when it comes to people who are different. I’m glad you and your buddies have ways to steer clear of it when you can, because no one deserves to be subjected to others being cruel :( you’re amazing and only are worthy of kindness, my friend (⊃｡•́‿•̀｡)⊃

[cozy-cg]

How to feel tiny

Sometimes, regressing can be tricky. A lot of the first few years of life focus a lot on learning. If you have already learned what the material, your grown-up brain might want to take over, making it hard to enjoy toddler activities.

🟦If you want the experience of learning preschool/kindergarten material again, try learning your shapes, colors, the alphabet, months of the year, or days of the week in another language! You can use fun songs or games to help.

🖍️If you want to experience developing motor skills again, try using your non dominate hand. You can try coloring, learning to write your name, or do basic scissor worksheets. (Please be careful with the scissors!)

🐻If you want to explore and learn science, try learning about animals. Shows like Wild Kratts and Octonauts can be genuinely educational for "grown up" brains. You can also check out books about animals from the library!

🫂Learn social-emotional and coping skills that are appropriate for children. There are many YouTube videos for yoga or meditation for kids. Shows such as Bluey, Author, or Carl the collector are some of my favorites and focus on social skills.

☀️If you want to feel physically tiny, try getting on the floor. Remember when your body was small and everything around you looked big? That was perspective! You can achieve something similar by being on the ground. Just make sure to listen to your body and take breaks if it hurts. You can also cover yourself with a blanket to focus less on your size.

[cozy-cg]

uhmmm i definitely want to work with women’s fashion and maybe eventually looks for runways or celebrities so i would probably work in formal wear and haute couture a lot more!!!

i’m not sure if it will work out tbh but fashion is one of my only passions in life and i want to do what i can to make a life for myself out of it <333

-🎀

That sounds so, so neat ! I really hope you’re able to explore that passion because that’s really incredible (*^‿^*)

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Hi Milo!!! Flowers for you!!!

🌹🌸🌺🌻🌷🌼🪷🪻

Gift from sunys garden :D

@sunflowerandsunshinebaby

Thank you so much, Sunny ! It’s always very neat to see you popping by >0< I hope everything has been going well for you, friend ( ´ ▽ ` ).｡ｏ♡

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yessss!!! i really wanna be a fashion stylist but maybe along the way i’m planning to have experience in being a luxury personal shopper as well! i also want to be a model too but im not sure where that will fit hehe

and i want a pink sippy! maybeeee with my melody on it???

-🎀

Wow, that’s so awesome ! Is there certain styles (not sure what the right terms are of fashion industries) that you are hoping to work with in particular ?

That sounds absolutely adorable, my goodness friend ! (≧◡≦) ♡

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Hello, I really hope I'm not bothering you? That isn't my intention, so I apologize if I did. I was originally planning to ask @/dadzawa-abc this question, but he seemed really busy with life and such. So I decided to ask you, if this makes you uncomfortable, it's okay to ignore this! My question, or rather questions.

How do you know if your a caregiver or a little? (I really hope I typed that correctly, I'm still very new to all of this. Sorry.)

How does someone know at all if age-regression (again hopefully the correct word) is something that fits them? I mean, how does someone find that out? And what to do if age-regression isn't something for them?

As last, any tips for a person who's still very confused about all this? Cause well, I got asked to be a caregiver, and usually I get told I care a lot about others. But again, I'm very new to all this, so yeah. Kind of want to know more?

It is not my intention to make you uncomfortable, if you are though, you can ignore this and block me if you find that necessary. Sorry if I did make you uncomfortable. Umm, honestly don't know what elseto say, so have a nice day or night!

No problem at all, not uncomfortable in the slightest my friend. I think that question though can be somewhat difficult to answer, because it really just depends on the individual !

Caring about those around you does not correlate with being a caregiver, however - caregiving is a responsibility where someone watches over a regressor. While it can take on a variety of dynamics and relationships for each person, I’d compare it to this: Imagine babysitting a little cousin or family member that’s a small child.

That’s probably what caregiving could the equivalent to (But of course, this can be different depending on the person) So I really encourage not to take on the role of a caregiver if you don’t have the full information of what that entails.

Finding out if age regression is for you is really just trial and error ! Experiment with age dreaming is a good first step. See how you feel when trying out child-like activities, babbling to yourself, chatting with caregiver accounts on Tumblr. And if that doesn’t feel comfortable for you, then that’s okay too !

*As a side note, you can be a regressor and a caregiver- that’s called a flip.

Do your research on age regressing and caregiving, and see what feels right for you ! Good luck buddy | (• ◡•)|

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hi miloo!! im still here :D havnt had a lot of tim for agere cus of colege but im visting my siser so i don hav stuf to wory abot. i cant be as smal as i want cus they dont kno but i can stil think it!!

i probly wil get busy agan wen i get home tho but ill try an giv mysef mor tim

iv goten betr at regresing! i get dat fuzy feeling mor now

oh an i gots a new stufie!! :D :D its a purpl chamelon!! its soft an looks a litle sily. i namd him markl like from howls moving casle!

- @turtletot

Hi hi ! It’s so nice to hear you from you :D

That’s understandable ! College can be so busy and wild - I’m in the process of applying and getting ready and that in itself is crazy, so I wonder what it’ll be like when it’s the real deal for me (ﾒ﹏ﾒ)

And yay, small time ! That’s always a nice thing to be able to squeeze in :] such a cute stuffie you chose ! Tell Mark I say hi ( ´ ▽ ` ).｡ｏ♡

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milo milo!! remember i told u i got my first paci??? i bee using it a lot now and i love it!! it just had to take getting used to :)

i’m still scared to use it in my dorm cuz my friends might see but i love using it when im back at home hehe (i want a sippy now but shhhh don’t tell😚)

-🎀

Oh my goodness ! That’s also so exciting, and I’m really glad you get to enjoy that when you’re comfy at home c:

Is there a specific design on a sippy you have in mind ? :3

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hi milo ! i forgot to answer ur question from a while ago teehee

so! i have two fashion classes, one is textiles and the other is history of fashion. in textiles, we learn about different fibers, fabrics, and yarns. i’ve also been learning about qualities of them in clothes or fabric products like abrasion resistance, absorbency, luster, stuff like that.

history of fashion is exactly what it sounds like !! we learn about fashion from different centuries and how it evolves over time. my favorite part is that we sketch a look from each era !!! i’m not too good at art but it’s super super fun !!!

sometimes the homework is too much but i’m glad to be in fashion classes and learn about my passion（≧∇≦）

-🎀

Woah ! That sounds really neat and interesting :o are you hoping to go for a career related to fashion ? Because that sounds so cool !!

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Hi ! Um .. ! Am shy but can I come in your arms?

Hey there little bub! Of course, I’ll give you a bigggg squeeze! \(^ヮ^)/

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haaaai sorry ive been ia... life is very stress hard to regress. cps is visiting today so i hope that goes well!!! i wanna get a donut afterschool -🥞

It’s alright bubby ! Life can get stressful and fast- trust me, I get it. I hope your visit goes well, and the stress lessens a bit so you can enjoy your teeny time <3 !

And yay ! Donuts are so yummy. What kind of donut? :o

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hi milo. i having a really rough week. i told my friend it got bad again but he didn’t help me feel better. it okay tho i know he has priorities. need to feel better tho cause i have a lot of homework and can’t not do it. i really tired, just wanna sleep.

-🎀

Hey little bub. I’m really sorry that your week hasn’t been easy- I know that carrying weight on your shoulders can be so, so difficult. You deserve to have all the help and support, from your friends and in general !

I know it isn’t easy especially when everything is so heavy, but just take it one day at a time. Allow yourself grace, and do what you can ! That’s all you can do ♡