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Caregivers will say the wrong things sometimes, or fall short. As does every single human. Caregivers aren’t some exception to this rule.

CGs aren’t perfect and that’s okay (hot take alert) TW: Abuse

Pre script: Don’t worry Kae I’m not mad at you, or anyone for that matter.

Not from any specific person but just as a broad observation, I’ve noticed a bit of an expectation of cgs to be perfect, and when they aren’t, some people assume that that CG is a bad person. Once again, not accusing anyone, I understand that little space can make this type of thinking harder.

But CGs aren’t perfect, and the expectation that they can be could lead to a little breaking away from a great cg for something that’s really minor.

But yeah, good CGs can forget the names of your stuffies or forget to text you back or say the wrong things and that’s okay, no one’s perfect.

Also so I don’t have to make another PSA style post, littles can be abusive too. I’ve never experienced this personally, but if a little is abusing you you should prioritize your own safety imo.

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‘M scawed Milo I haves a big test for colleg tomorrow an I don’t know if ‘M gonna do goods :( need hugs pwe :(

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Sending you so many hugs, little bub! Important tests are scary, but you’re smart and capable— you can do this! <3

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some girls keep following me home and calling me names. people are so boringggg me having a plushie in my bag is the most entertaining thing is this town i hate it here -🥞

I’m sorry, little friend. People being meanies can be very impactful and hurtful, especially when you’re just expressing yourself. But remember that you aren’t doing anything wrong— mean people are everywhere, and it isn’t your fault.

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”You aren’t personally responsible for the feelings of others” have you considered that I’m a caregiver

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On agere tumblr you feel rlly maternal abt ur mutuals and thats just natural

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Hi Milo, can I be 🧶 anon pwease? I’m new to you blog but like a lot

I wanted to ask how come some cgs always ask what age I am when I re? Tyyy xoxoxoxo

Yes, of course you can, friend ! To answer your question, caregivers are usually asking your regressed age range because that can play a role in how a caregiver thinks they should engage with you. For instance, if you’re an older kiddo, they may coddle you less. Where as if you’re an infant regressor, you’re probably going to need more support.

But if you mean your real age, that’s just for safety purposes and making sure a minor and an adult don’t end up as one’s little or caregiver. Hope this helps !

* Quick message to any minor (under 18) regressors: A grown adult should not want to be your caregiver, your little or your friend (in the context of you meeting them through the internet). Adults trying to get close to underage people is quite weird, and should be avoided.

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I want a teacher caregiver so badly. I feel like all the love goes to parents and babysitter caregivers and they're great too. But like someone teaching me fun facts and giving me little worksheets to do and making sure I did my homework and telling me what I great job I'm doing even if my grades aren't reflecting all the work I'm putting in and helping me study more.

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hi sorry i not aroun much. life hard. nee huggies peas…jus wan somone to hol me

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Hey little bubby, it’s okay. You’re always welcome to pop in and out when you wanna ! I’m sorry life is hitting hard for you. You’ve been such a smart, busy bumblebee it seems !

You deserve all the hugs and cuddles for how hard you’ve been working and trying ♡︎

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I hurted my knee today onna sidewalk and I had a cry because I wanted to go to the aquarium and my mama said no 3: but then I hadda juice and puffs and gotta bandaid wif creepers and I gotted all better :D

Aw, I’m sorry little bub ! Not being able to go to a fun place can be pretty disappointing, huh ? But it seems like you were such a brave kiddo even though you scraped your knee ! And what a cool bandaid and yummy snacks you got too - juice is sooo tasty >:b

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hi hoping to get some advice. i’m a little and my boyfriend was my caregiver for the last year and a half. i love him to death but he was kind of bad at it. we both have some mental health issues and i just couldn’t handle the constant disappointment so we put the cg/lg part of our relationship on pause a few weeks ago. it’s been really hard. i put all my agere stuff in my closet/away/covered with a sheet because it’s just too painful to look at. i’ve been a little without a cg before, when i was single but it’s different, harder, letting myself be smol without him. i put all my stuffies away and haven’t watched a single cartoon in weeks and i feel…I don’t know. we paused with hope that once he’s back in therapy and has finally moved closer he’ll be in a better place to be the cg i need. i guess im just wondering if … I don’t know. I don’t know how to handle it. i’m more distant from him now, i can’t let him in the same way. i just want my daddy back. i want him to do the things that will help that happen but I don’t know how to handle it in the interim. i miss my stuff and being/feeling smol. it was really just an ideal i was giving up but..why does it hurt so much if i gave up something i didn’t really have? i want to be strong enough to be little without him but i just i cant. I don’t know what to do. any advice would be helpful. tysm

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Hi there- firstly, I’m sorry to hear that you and your partner are having hard time. That’s never easy, and I know it can feel very heavy to have to navigate these things. Additionally, it’s not uncommon to romanize or idealize a situation or person once they’re not around. Because you feel alone, you may end up looking at things through rose colored glasses; it’s important to remember looking back when you miss it that you’re probably just thinking of the good times, not what the relationship was actually like.

With that being said: the best advice I could give you is to be patient with yourself and your partner. Your feelings and regression matter, and it’s okay to grieve or have difficulty. Try and find ways to make your regression feel just a bit less lonely- seek out other regressor friends, join regression discord servers or tumblr communities (be safe!!), chat with stuffies.. things to occupy the space your caregiver held.

Also, try and keep some compassion while your boyfriend is taking care of himself. Caregivers can’t care for another person if they can’t care for themselves.

Good luck, wishing you all the best! ♡︎

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Hello! Maybe you can help me?

I have been wondering for the longest time how caregivers and littles find each other. How? Is it through tumblr? Specific websites? Reddit? Out in the wild?

I have been looking for a cg for a while, possibly a couple because both a mommy cg and a daddy cg sounds pretty rad. I just am not sure how or where to look.

Hey there ! In general, I’d say out in the wild. I met my little goose on Tumblr and we started off as friends, and then as we grew closer I asked him to be my little (≧◡≦) ♡ I’d recommend meeting new people in the age regression community as a first step (which, yes, you can use Reddit or Tumblr to do so. Or other websites that I don’t know about yet)

There are also little/caregiver applications people can post specifically to look for a good match ! However, there is some debate about how safe this is. I’ve done it before and it was a positive experience for me, but I’d only recommend it if you are an older teenager/adult. If you’re on the younger side (which is okay, of course), stick to making friends and going from there so you can veto that person as safe before jumping into such a vulnerable connection.

Good luck !

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....I spelled gigantism wrong in my ask…. (-’๏_๏’-)

It’s okay, I continually misspell that word honestly (ﾒ﹏ﾒ)

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AHHHHH I LOVE DEEP SEA GIANTISM ITS SO FWEAKING COOL (° ο°)

Hi hi !! It’s so cool to see another person who’s interested (」°ロ°)」 Do you have a favorite deep sea giant ? Mine has to be the giant squid or the Greenland shark - they’re so fascinating !

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hello!! i saw your latest post and i wanted to ask what a dual com was? i saw it on your dni and was just curious c:

Hey there- dualcom is an individual who’s a part of both the ageplay community and the age regression community / a person who both regresses and participates in ageplay. Sometimes the two are mixed together, or sometimes it’s completely separate.

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NSFW, k!nk or dualcom DNI.

❧ Thinking about a soft day in with my little one. It’s raining out, and we’re both feeling just a bit too sleepy to go and play in the puddles. My little one would grumpily force themself up, a blanket wrapped around them before I scoop them up, kissing their cheeks until they giggle and stop pouting. “Baba can’t have a grumpy baby on his hands!”

❧ Deciding on a show or movie franchise we can commit to for the day, humming and nodding along whenever my baby excitedly points to an option and starts to babble. “Oh my, what a good choice bug! Hmmm, maybe a bit too much of a big kiddo movie. You like cartoons, right bubby?”

❧ They could help me make a snack board, choosing their favorite treats and foods to eat. They’d sit on my hip the entire time, pointing at what they want in the cabinet. “I hear you chipmunk, but we need at least one veggie. C’mon, just one for baba?”

(Can we tell I’m yearning for my little one in my arms?)