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shoutout to littles with borderline personality disorder!

you guys are freaking awesome. brave. strong. loving.

i'm proud of you for staying on this planet with us.

❤️ /p

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meltdowns happen baby, its okay. i know it felt like the world was ending and you didnt want to calm down but everything turned out okay, right dear? im proud of you for making it through, and i love you very much <3

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Tips pt.2 for anyone struggling mentally:

(you don’t have to be an age regressor)

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★-One day at a time, and one thing per day. This goes for any aspect of your life, the worst you can do to get rid of an extreme is to fight it with an extreme.

★-If you struggle with starting tasks, break them down into digestible parts. My mentality is “if this task takes 30mins to finish, it’s actually only 10mins tripled”.

★-Some things deserve to be journaled, some don’t. If you’re on a mental/physical health journey and you do journaling, don’t obsess over writing everything. The stats are numbers, but you’re not. It’s okay to allow yourself to process things directly.

★-If you’re struggling with addictive behaviours, these (free) apps might help you: [I Am Sober] [Nomo - Sobriety Clocks] [Puff Count] [Sum Puff]

★-Stop gossiping and judging. The less you feel observant of other people, the less critical you become of yourself too. “Live and let live” mentality actually helps with insecurity sooooo much.

★-Try having more than just one hobby. Humans by nature need stimulations, and getting obsessed over one thing can be harmful. Introduce yourself to new forms of media, watch people do stuff you don’t usually do, who knows what you’ll get interested in

★-Your brain is not a machine, don’t bombard it. Don’t study multiple subjects in the same two hours, don’t start four tasks in five minutes, don’t juggle different activities at once, it’s not physically possible for your brain to actually learn or process anything.

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𝐓𝐢𝐩𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐋𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐀𝐭𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐈𝐬𝐬𝐮𝐞𝐬 ☁︎︎

-> Communicate with your caregiver about reassurance that you may need, and what ways they can support you best. Also make sure you’re expressing your feelings clearly, and how your needs can be met best.

-> Establish healthy boundaries from both sides! Sometimes attachment issues can cause excess anxiety and worries, and while that is normal, it’s important to make sure you’re still being healthy and respectful.

-> Make time for each other, or establish a routine. This can be particularly helpful if you or your caregiver are busy, and want to make sure you can still get in quality time together.

-> Use self soothing strategies when you find yourself getting anxious or overwhelmed. Go for a walk, hug a stuffie, find a new cartoon to watch, take several deep breathes- try to distract yourself.

-> Most importantly, be gentle and kind to yourself. Remind yourself that it’s okay to have that anxieties and fears, and that you’re lovable. You’re a worthwhile person, and you deserve secure connections. ♡︎

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Do u have any tips for caregiving? :))

I would say to just communicate with your little one! It’s hard to give general tips because every tiny one is going to be different. Make sure to ask questions, establish healthy boundaries for you and your little, and learn about how you both can support and work with each other best! <3

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Everytime my little one sends me something I just eek !

want a caregiver who will tag me in posts that remind me of them and say “youcore !” or “us <3” :((

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☆Clingy caregiver, regressor and flip☆ agere flags

@bunnelbaby

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tips for caring for littles with anger issues !!

develop methods to help them get the anger out (breathing exercises, throwing pillows, breaking ice, drawing, etc.)

make sure you give them space to feel their anger, i know you want to help your precious little one but sometimes they just need to feel it

let them know its okay to be angry sometimes, feelings are allowed

have stress toys available for them

do some of their favorite activities after they calm down

offer a stuffie for them to squeeze

take them to a safe place where they can get their anger and frustrations out

be patient with yourself too!! know that you may want to help, but you can't always fix it and thats okay!! youre doing your best to be there for your baby

don't reprimand them for getting angry

to help with tantrums offer choices of things that could help them feel better

offer to talk about their anger with them, try letting them talk about what made them angry and why it made them angry

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The Super Easiest Ways to Feel Little

(Absolutely Zero Gear Required)

🍊 use your non-dominant hand!

Whether it’s using a fork or brushing your teeth, using the wrong hand will make your tasks a little more difficult, like you’re learning them for the first time!

🍊 use both hands!

Like holding a cup or carrying things around, sometimes little ones need to be extra careful not to drop things <3

🍊 try it a new way!

Walking around? Maybe you could skip! Or only step on the white tiles! Or carefully step over the concrete lines! Little ones are so creative, they can turn something simple into something super fun

🍊 give it a voice!

“Well hello Mr. Fork, how are you doing today?”“Very well, thank you, Mr. Spoon.” No toys, no problem! What do you think your comb would say if it could talk?

🍊 no erasing!

Write/draw/journal with something that can’t be erased, like a pen or a marker (sharpies are my favorite!). The mistakes don’t matter, so if you mess up, keep going! Can you fill the whole page?

Age Regression is not about the objects you have, it’s about reclaiming the mindset of curiosity and healing the part of yourself that finds joy in the little things. <3

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haii activities for littles w online cgs?? preferably ones that don't get on call! tyy

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Activities 4 Littles W/ Online Cg's (No Calling)

ദ്ദി ≽^⎚˕⎚^≼ .ᐟ

It is a little more difficult without being able to call but here are some cute online cg activities!

🎀༘⋆ Have your caregiver find you worksheets (pinterest, tumblr, etc) and send them when you complete them! (Caregiver can send them back with a check or smile-y face!)

ᯓ✦ This one is a little "silly" but so cute, have your caregiver edit your finished worksheets onto a "fridge" picture! (Picsart is perfect for this) So cute!!! "Put it on the fridge" for your little one<3

‧˚꒰🐾꒱༘⋆ Keep a "sticker chart" & add a sticker every time your littles does something 'sticker worthy' (eating a meal, finishing a worksheet, etc!) When they fill up the chart, do a big reward! (Buy them a plushie, read them a story, +) These can also be edited through Picsart & sticker charts can be found anywhere online!

☁︎⋆｡ Making little playlists, Pinterest boards, and even little gear wishlists together is always such a cute fun way for your caregiver to be involved and get to know your little likes! [ Bonus points if they get you stuff from your wishlist ;) ]

🍼₊˚⊹ Have your caregiver send voice messages of them reading you a story!

If i can think of more I will post more! Sorry for slow posts :,3 💫🫶🏻

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hi sweethearts ☁️

please remember that regression is okay even if you're having negative feelings. whether you're sad, stressed, angry, feeling icky, having bad thoughts, it's all okay

seeing littles on my feed feeling guilty about their regression when they're upset breaks my heart :(

i wish i could cuddle all of you and tell you that it's okay to be upset, its okay to regress with awful feelings and thoughts, its all okay and it's not your fault. please be gentle with yourselves & always know that you're not a bad person for regressing! never ever!

of course having big feelings is hard when you're small and it isn't necessarily "expected" of a little, but that's nothing you can control and that's okay! it's always ALWAYS okay <3

you deserve love and kindness regardless of the severity of your emotions and feelings. you're loved always always always 🩷

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Kate Bishop or Bellatrix Lestrange and I’m not elaborating on my choices

hmm… i have fictional caregivers. i wonder if i can have fictional regressors, too!!

the fictional character i’d MOST want to have as my regressor is steve harrington. bu i also want eddie munson!!

what about u guys :)

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ellw milo i rllys lov ur acct i wants o know if i could beas 🦷⭐️ anon ?.?

Hey there, little friend! You absolutely can be, happy to have you here :>!

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Peekaboo! >v<

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Peekaboo! :o how was your Halloween? :3

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How to comfort your sad little one! ˙◠˙

🌧 Let them let it out, let them cry, let them whine about it, let them know their feelings are okay and you care about them. be there for them, that's what's the most important. 🌧 Get their favourite stuffies and blankies, aka comfort items for them 🌧 Get their favourite snack if you have it around! 🌧 If your little one wants (always ask beforehand!) give them a cuddle 🌧 Put on their favourite TV show, or play their favourite game together! 🌧 if you can, try and give them advice, or just reassuring words and comfort 🌧 When they calm down, ask them if they want to do anything special. 🌧 Recommend a nap time, naps help a lot when sad. 🌧 Tell them a story to distract themselves 🌧 Use grounding exercises (name 5 things in the room, breathing exercises) 🌧 and last and most important. be patient and don't rush them to explain why they are sad, don't raise your voice and yell, make them feel loved.

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Little!Seymour Krelborn

he deserves to be small after everything.

he's just so baby, i think

let him settle down with audrey and get some comfort after everything.