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Y'know what? Please draft me into a meat grinder already. I am ready to meet my destiny as cannon fodder. I should have been dead at least two decades ago.

Misandry kills men by drafting us as cannon fodder for the whims of oligarchs.

Misandry kills men by ignoring & silencing those who were raped.

Misandry kills men by denying the existence of gendered abuse & murder by women, and even the ability for it to happen.

Misandry kills men by shaming us into silence & suicide, while blaming it on us.

Misandry kills men by denying us our humanity. By portraying us as masters of our own destiny, yet utter beasts with no empathy, compassion, or feelings of any kind, and thus deserving of none in return. By assigning us ultimate responsibility for every toxic or negative thing any man has ever done, and thereby condemning us.

Misandry kills.

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Cw: g0rey, goo from the body, mold (?)

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I like going "invisible" on chat apps and watching all the people on my "friend list" suddenly appear and start to interact.

Like watching an ecosystem rebound after removing toxins.

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my life if my mom got as upset with herself for yelling at her kid as miles o’brien did

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Even between other cluster b and even other borderlines your emotions are still too much. You may not get angry. At least that's what they say.

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Please just let me die, universe.

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"Oh I've never been without an FP for longer than a couple of months and that time was HELL. I have no idea how I survived." says the woman with BPD.

Meanwhile, men with BPD:

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I'm either a therapist or a day laborer or a last resort to my "friends". I should just go back to being a hermit and stop annoying everyone.

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no yell, just a flower for you: 🌷

have a nice day!

❤️

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Why do periods at the end of the last sentence in a text feel like anger or annoyance???

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yo i just wanted to say i really love your posts, that’s all. they make me more comfy.

Thank you! 🥹 It's nice to know I'm not always alone in my frustrations.

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You forgot to put this one on anon. I guess when you have nothing better to do with your life than spam a bitter, broken old man with 20 pointless identical asks, you're obviously not the sharpest tool in the shed.

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Oh, and "toxic masculinity" is just the hateful, bigoted way to talk about "internalized misandry." Stop that.

literally zero terfs think toxic masculine behaviour is caused by testosterone. that's our whole point. we know testosterone levels have no impact on behaviour because we have the crime stats from multiple countries that all show the same pattern: cis women committing the least violent/sexually violent crime, then trans men (despite injecting themselves with testosterone), then cis men (who have very high levels of testosterone), then with the highest rates of violent and sexually violent crime are trans women (despite taking estrogen to lower their testosterone levels). the only people who link testosterone and toxic masculinity are anti-science rightwingers who believe in patriarchal nonsense like "gender". everyone else follows the science and the statistics and knows testosterone has no impact on crime. it is the y chromosome, and the millennia of rape and war that's been bred into it, that influences toxic masculine behaviours, regardless of how little testosterone is present in that individual's body.

can you give me a peer reviewed study for the "trans women commit the most violent and sexual crime" stat? + you can't put personality traits [good or bad] into a chromosome, that's just not how it works. You've actually proven my point pretty well though! ya'll wont accept that toxic masculinity is a symptom of sexsim and patriarchy, good job ((:

[bonus: that post didn't say "terf" it said "people" and you automatically decided that meant terf...interesting..]

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Wrt to transandrophobia you're right imo, but you also have to remember that people are often dumb and misinterpret things. I know it's tempting to put a specific name to it rather than just calling it "the ways trans men are oppressed for being trans men" but the moment you do that some people will behave as if it's the same as transmisogyny. This is important to keep in mind because misandry does not exist. Men (trans men included obviously) are frequently oppressed for not living up to some masculine standard, for being too womanly. That's still just misogyny, just weaponized against men.

Though I could be pulling all this out of my ass, since I'm not well-versed in feminist theory. It's just my two cents on the matter as a trans woman.

so like you can't really make a word for it without that word getting twisted into meaning something harmful so you shouldn't try putting it to a word? :3

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Always amuses me how they steal & co-opt lingo from men's spaces they claim to hate. Even if it starts "ironic," it becomes obvious they actually mean it and are just bitter they were unable to create such innovation themselves.

You're not even a feminist. Go fuck yourself, moid!

They seen upset ….

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And keep in mind: most men don't report crimes when they are the victim, so the stats will always be skewed.

literally zero terfs think toxic masculine behaviour is caused by testosterone. that's our whole point. we know testosterone levels have no impact on behaviour because we have the crime stats from multiple countries that all show the same pattern: cis women committing the least violent/sexually violent crime, then trans men (despite injecting themselves with testosterone), then cis men (who have very high levels of testosterone), then with the highest rates of violent and sexually violent crime are trans women (despite taking estrogen to lower their testosterone levels). the only people who link testosterone and toxic masculinity are anti-science rightwingers who believe in patriarchal nonsense like "gender". everyone else follows the science and the statistics and knows testosterone has no impact on crime. it is the y chromosome, and the millennia of rape and war that's been bred into it, that influences toxic masculine behaviours, regardless of how little testosterone is present in that individual's body.

can you give me a peer reviewed study for the "trans women commit the most violent and sexual crime" stat? + you can't put personality traits [good or bad] into a chromosome, that's just not how it works. You've actually proven my point pretty well though! ya'll wont accept that toxic masculinity is a symptom of sexsim and patriarchy, good job ((:

[bonus: that post didn't say "terf" it said "people" and you automatically decided that meant terf...interesting..]

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