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Thank you for such a lovely gift! 💜💜💜

[ TS4 to TS3 / Age conversions ] Girls school uniform set + loafers（CF）

This is a gift for people who have helped Ewa, thank you :) Special thanks to @ninjaofthepurplethings and @pitheinfinite.

Credits (some contents are for personal use)

Hair：Nightcrawler / Osoon Hat / Top / Skirt：Imadako Shoes：Noiranddarksims / Pixicat Pose：sketchbookpixels

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Thank you @belasims Starla is a total Hornbag, Eve would be proud!  ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

Most people would know that Eve’s Mum, Alina, just lost her battle with cancer. If you can help in anyway with funeral expenses it would make the world of difference to Eve, thank you  ❤️

In honor of my dear friend Ewa ( @sims3hasstoppedworking ) I wanted to make a TS4 sim download that resembles her lighthearted and comical TS3 play-style in hopes of continuing to raise awareness for her situation.

For those of you who don’t know, Ewa is a fellow simmer whose mother was diagnosed with terminal Cervical Cancer, and despite her own health issues, she’s been bravely taking care of her mother full-time due to the lack of quality healthcare they were able to receive in their country. You can read more about their situation here.

However, as I was in the process of preparing this download, we found out the devastating news that Ewa’s mother passed away on July 24, 2019.

I was unsure if it would be appropriate to make this post, but I decided to still do so because Ewa’s fundraiser is currently still open, and I know that things have been incredibly difficult for her for so long - emotionally, mentally, physically, and financially. She did reach her goal while her mother was still alive, but she kept the fundraiser open due to ongoing need. You will find countless detailed updates on her blog.

Currently we are trying to make sure Ewa at least has her basic needs met and is able to do a bit of self-care while she is grieving and preparing for her mother’s funeral. And even just a message would mean a lot to her.

If you are interested in supporting Ewa financially:

🎁Donate HERE (PayPal) or HERE (Zrzutka Poland)

If you would like to send Ewa a message of support and comfort:

📩Message Ewa HERE

Thank you all so much for supporting Ewa & her mother in various ways - it has meant the absolute world to her. In the midst of immense suffering, she was able to provide everything her mother needed because of your support.

Thanks for reading. ❤

Starla Download & CC links are under the cut. 👇

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Polish Posters Version 2 for @sims3hasstoppedworking

I came across these Polish Posters and I absolutely love them. I am sorry that I did not have the time to make them in Simlish! I hope that you will like them as much as I do anyway. These posters are for The Sims 3.

The mesh is basegame but greatly improved in quality by the ever generous @baufive 💜 They are §4 and found in Wall Decor.

As always, I am sharing these to raise awareness for Ewa. Many of you will be aware that Ewa’s mother Alina lost her battle with Cervical Cancer and passed away in the early hours of the 24th July 2019. Although Ewa reached her fundraising target a while back, I am hoping that people will be generous enough to continue to donate to help her out with funeral costs so that Ewa can put her mother to rest in a dignified manner. Any amount helps, no matter how small.

Read about it HERE

Donate HERE (PayPal) or HERE (Zrzutka Poland)

POLISH POSTERS VERSION 2 (SFS 8Mb both .package and Sims3file formats zipped) DOWNLOAD HERE

Thank you so much! 💜💜💜

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Thank you! This is really adorable! 💜

TS3 Sprinkles Scalloped Chalkboard Border

I made this Sprinkles Scallop Chalkboard Border for personal use (so it’s not 100% perfect) and after seeing that Ewa had posted about her Mother’s passing I decided to release it to the public (since it’s the only new cc I’ve made at this time) with a link to Ewa’s donation link. Ewa is going to continue to need everyone’s love and support. 

   This download is free to the public but my hopes is that maybe someone would donate if they can to Ewa. Even if it’s just a dollar it helps.

You can find the chalkboard I used by Woodymoon HERE as it is not included in the download, the download is just the border. The border comes with two presets; the border with the Donut Stress decal and without (the schedule on the left hand side is not included). Please use the ‘moveobjects on’ cheat to place. It can be found in Paintings for 1$

DONATE TO EWA HERE

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Drink Set - collab with @anzuchansims

＊iced drinks*3 / CAStable / under plant

＊moon milk *a dozen of preset / partially CAStable/ under plant

Download: SFS / MF

This was supposed to be a part of our thank-you gift for @narusasu-simblr who donated recently to Ewa. But while I was preparing for the release and other members working on more cc, the worst news struck us.

None of us had expected this day would come so quick. Atm we are all in deep sorrow for Ewa and her brave mother, Alina. I’m not sure how I’m supposed to write this post, but I don’t know what else I can do for them either.

Ewa still needs our help, maybe even more than ever. She deserves to have a chance to say goodbye to her mother with dignity in a decent way. Let’s help her do that, leaving no regrets. Please, show your kindness and caring for her in words or in actions.  

Learn more about the brave girl Ewa @sims3hasstoppedworking and her fundraiser.

(Forgive me if I made any bad word choice, this post is extremely difficult for me, as a non-English speaker, to write.)

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Thank you so much @maramaja06 💜💜💜

Plaza Principal  &  Plaza Park  (makeover)  are two lots for Island Paradise that I would like to dedicate  to Ewa. 

If you’re not yet aware, Ewa’s mum has terminal cancer and she relies on our donations to afford vital healthcare. Please read her story HERE and consider helping her by making a donation via PayPal or Zrzutka (Poland.) At the very least, reblog her post and send a message of support.  Every single donation, large or small, makes a massive different. Thank you for reading.

With special thanks to @ninjaofthepurplethings for the amazings pics and editing. 

                             12 rabbit holes, no cc, no kidding. 

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Thank you for helping Eve @browniecap  these walls, patterns and rugs are really lovely  ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

Hello Simmers!

I know about Simmers, who need help, so I created a post with some cc.

Please help them, if you can, every little bit helps, even a reblog.

@unsimscribe ‘s   Fundraiser:

https://www.gofundme.com/ve2ut-facing-eviction

@sims3hasstoppedworking  ‘s Fundraiser:

https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/85skVufOG5

@nonsimsical​ ‘s Fundraiser:

https://www.gofundme.com/yersa3-my-family-needs-your-help

@ nonsimsical ‘s PayPal:

https://www.paypal.me/notthatdani

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Credits and download links:

Credit: Google images searching. 

I have found that the Herbs 2 Wallpaper’s image is by Pierre Frey, and his Wallpaper’s link is:

http://www.pierrefrey.com/uk/produit/papiers-peints/609-FP169002-espalier.htm

Download links:

        Herbs Wallpapers:

https://simfileshare.net/download/1128065/

        Rugs:

https://simfileshare.net/download/1128066/

        Wildflower Wallpapers and Patterns:

https://simfileshare.net/download/1062887/

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Thank you! 💜

64 New Hairs

As the fundraisers have reached their goals (for now, Ewa will continue to need our support!) the SOS hairs have been released for the public. The SSFF skins and worlds can still be won by doing the challenges or donating to Ewa!

For Ewa (sims3hasstoppedworking):

https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/85skVufOG5

Follow the link and donate, leave your tumblr name in the comments so I can see who donated what! Then simply IM me and I will send you your gifts!

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Thank you to everyone who has donated! 💜

Thank You <3

Yesterday my heart was hurting, thinking that within all this, people may forget about the people behind the fundraisers and what they are fighting for. But you guys showed me there are so many of you with hearts of gold shining out here. In the last 24h, we have gotten over $200 in donations for Ewa and Jelle. Most from people who just wanted to let them know they are not forgotten and still have the support of the community, so they may wake up to some sunshine.

Ewa is almost 600$ overs the goal she set. She will still need more at the end, but that extra I hope, gives her a little breathing room.

Jelle will hopefully be making an update post soon, but she has received a few donation directly to her paypal (to bypass the fundraizer fees I guess?) and so is nearer the 80% than the 64% on the site. I think she is planning on lowering the amount on fundraizer to account for that. But we are so close!

From my side, I have received receipts that total $2650. That is an incredible amount and I cannot say it enough for both Jelle and Ewa, THANK YOU!

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I would like to respectfully ask that anyone who reads this, who has a problem with the CC @gruesim​ is offering as a gift for donating, to please consider the impact publicly, privately and anonymously attacking it can have on the fundraising we are trying to do for Eve.

Every time a negative comment is made about it, a potential donator could be put off. People are donating and asking for gifts furtively, secretly, not wanting to others to know they have asked for a gift because of the toxic environment that has been created around this- instead of being proud of the fact that they have donated and helped out a fellow Simmer. This isn’t right.

To everyone who has donated and not asked for anything in return, to everyone who donated out of the goodness of their heart but also wanted a gift, to everyone who was motivated to donate because of the gifts they would receive- THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH! We DON’T care why you donated, we just appreciate and are grateful for the fact you did!

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!

This is it for now. I have more to tell and show you, but I’m so very tired. I’ll reply to all messages asap and address some simmers’ concerns. I’m forever grateful for all support and help I’ve been getting from you all, but it hurts me so much that some of you think custom content created to help me and my mother is behind a paywall. I said it many times: @gruesim is helping me selflessly, she didn’t gain anything from it. I’m begging you for understanding and  patience. The sad truth is that my fundrising will come to an end at some point. Today I need help but our lives are unpredictible and maybe one day you’ll be forced to ask for it.

Love you all!

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Photo of IV antibiotic (gentamicin) and IV fluids  I took in hospice. Both bottles have my mom’s last name written on it.

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papers from the other hospital (June 27th-29th)

Abnormal murmurs in both lungs. Ultrasound results: liquid (urine) build-up around left kidney. Tumor in the bladder (71x69x63 mm which is almost identical to other results from previous hospital). Liquid in abdominal cavity: 19mm around liver, 16 mm in the lesser pelvis. Liquid in both lungs, 45 mm on the right side.

Replacement of the left nephrostomy tube. Troubles with drainage are mentioned. Second ultrasound shows very similar results to the first one. Below you can see blood work results.

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Papers from our local hospital (June 22nd-27th)

I’m sorry for terrible quality. I took those photos when we were waiting for a private ambulance to go to the ER of another hospital and was in hurry.

Ultrasound mentions liquid in both pleural cavities - 25 mm in the left lung, 60 mm in the right lung. Liquid around liver (25 mm). Tumor in the bladder (70x70x60 mm). All meds she was given are mentioned in above papers (including international aka English names). Urine test showed Enterococcus faecalis.

Bloodwork results from the ER of that hospital. It shows very low levels of basically everything including potassium and iron and that’s why she was given suplemets every day. CRP was still very high.

paper from urologist. He mentioned that left nephrostomy tube was ripped out and they don’t have suitable tubes to fix it. He advised us to go to the other hospital.

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Update from Eve 💜

I’m terribly sorry for my ridiculously long absence. A lot has been happening since my last update. Things aren’t any better tbh, everything has been getting worse. Thank you for your patience and overwhelming love and support my mom and I keep getting from you all even though I was dead silent. I appreciate it with my whole heart. This update will be extremely long and may trigger those of you who struggle with mental illness, so you may skip last part of this text post (I’ll put trigger warning in right place). Medical papers will be in separate posts. I can’t remember exactly when I made my last post, but last visit from our hospice nurse was on June 10th (Monday). On Tuesday (June 11th) I got a call from full time hospice care and was informed there was a free bed in a single room for my mom available immediately and we have to decide now whether we want it or not. I told hospice worker that I need to discuss it with my mom. And I did. My mom and I decided that it’s the right time and it’s gonna be the best option. I called hospice and told them about our decision. Then I booked an ambulance ride for the next day. My mom has been in the hospice facility since June 12th. She’s in a single room because she has those two nasty bacteria - VRE and ESBL+. Our new doc changed her pain management and some of the other meds - she no longer takes morphine tablets (prolonged or short release) but receives it 24/7 in a pump, gets IV metamizole and was receiving 2 tablets of Lyrica (pregabalin; more about it in a sec). Neoparin dose was changed to 2x60 mg a day instead of 3x40 mg. She takes only one diuretic drug atm and gets IV fluids with vitamins etc. No changes in other drugs like bisoprolol. During the first week of her stay she got very serious renal infection - a lot of sludge and blood clots in urine (especially in the left kidney), shivers to the point that I thought she had seizures, high fever spikes and excessive sweats. They started IV gentamicin and ceftazidime and did bloodwork. CRP was around 200 and HGB was around 6,5 aka serious infection mixed with anemia. She was really pale at the time, literally translucent. Doc decided to transfer her immediately to the nearest hospital (the same she was in February where they couldn’t change her nephrostomy tube because they didn’t have appropriate tubes) so she could get blood transfusion. She successfully got 2 bags of blood and HGB was around 9 which was a good thing. BUT. At some point her left nephrostomy tube was RIPPED OUT. I don’t know who did it - I suspect paramedics who transferred her from ambulance stretcher to hospital bed or one of nurses from nephrology ward where she was admitted. Tube started leaking on Saturday night/Sunday early morning (she was transferred to the hospital on Saturday). My mom and I both let docs know that tube was leaking several times. We were waiting for consultation with urology specialist for FIVE DAYS. For five freaking days no one from the urology ward bothered to come and check and attempt to fix it!!! Of course they weren’t able to put it back in or replace it, because they didn’t have appropriate tubes and our only option there was to puncture the kidney again and we both didn’t agree to do it. My mom and I decided to transfer her to our usual hospital where her kidney issues were treated since the beginning. I had to book private ambulance again. We went to the ER on Thursday (June 27th) morning. She was there to Saturday (June 29th). Ultrasound showed urine build-up in the abdominal cavity around left kidney (except usual fluid build-up around the liver [19 mm layer] and in lesser pelvis [16 mm] caused by probably cancer), heavily swollen pelvicalyceal system and no nephrostomy tube in the kidney. There’s probably tumor in the bladder (the main one has grown into it) - ultrasound showed it and it’s 7x7x6 cm. This is the second time when anything about the bladder situation is mentioned - first time was in February when doc mentioned thickened back wall of bladder. Tube was replaced at night (June 27th/28th) but there was still no urine in a bag for around 12 hours. ER doc tried to flush it with no effect. For next 12 hours around 200 ml of urine eventually drained. She didn’t receive any meds (including painkillers) during her stay in the ER, so I had to stay in the waiting room the entire time and sneak in to give her morphine (thank goodness I didn’t donate it and decided to keep it) and Neoparine shots. ER doc wanted to give her IV Ketonal (ketoprofen)… Ridiculous. She was transferred back to the hospice on Saturday (June 29th) morning where they started IV gentamicin again, because she was off any antibiotics for 2 days. When we were back in hospice, her saturation was 63 or 68% and she has been on oxygen 24/7 since then. She’ll get last dose of antibiotics tomorrow. Dose of 24/7 SC morphine was pumped up in last few days because it wasn’t enough. Now about Lyrica - dose was reduced because it was heavily messing with her brain and did more harm than good. When she was on 2 tablets, she was hallucinating, crying in her sleep and sleeping almost all the time. I thought that the end was very very close but when I discussed it with our doc and my mom started getting only one dose in the evening, she came back to normal - sleeps less, doesn’t have hallucinations and is much more responsive. On Monday (July 8th) we’re going to our usual hospital for scheduled nephrostomy tubes replacement. More medical details like blood work results etc. will be in separate posts with papers included. I don’t have any papers from hospice yet - I’m planning to request a copy of my mom’s medical records when the end is really very close. For now I have several photos of my mom but I WON’T RELEASE THEM PUBLICLY EVER. If you want to see them, please message me. Please, respect me and my mother who’s dying, I’m begging you - remember that you ask for a photo of a terminally ill person. It’s the hardest time ever for her and I hope you understand my decisions. I further discussed funeral issues with my mom and already chose funeral company. My mom’s wish is to be cremated, but she still didn’t decide if she wants any church service. Funeral home says there’s 70% chance that my mom can be buried in my grandmother’s grave if she’s cremated after passing away. Cost of funeral would be around 7-8k PLN including paying for even being allowed to bury next person in the same plot, keeping burial plot for next 20 years, cremation, urn etc. (Not including church service which is 900 PLN as funeral home worker said); funeral allowance in Poland is 4k. I’ll show you details in the next few days.TRIGGER WARNING HERE. You can stop reading here if you don’t like reading about mental illness and you’re not interested what I’ve been dealing with.Long story short, I’m in a dip shit emotionally and mentally. I’ve been struggling with mental breakdowns for many, many months but in a last few it was more and more unbearable. I’ve been suicidal since at least February. I’ve never mentioned it publicly and avoided to speak about it privately as well. Everyone always says I need to be strong and I kept telling it myself but I can’t do it anymore. I’m not strong. I don’t want to live anymore. I don’t have the strength to live. I didn’t end it all yet just because I don’t want my mom to deal with my funeral. I don’t want to make her troubles. I talked to the psychologist who works in hospice and she booked a psychiatrist appointment for me. I wouldn’t be able to do it myself so she did it for me. It was a private appointment. Otherwise I’d have to wait for months. I think I wouldn’t be there in a few months.  Psych I had an appointment with used to work in our hospice and is also palliative care specialist and worked with cancer patients. I got meds but I don’t have any hope for the future. That’s all I wanted to say. Thank you so much for being patient with me. I’m overwhelmed and extremely grateful for your help. I’m nothing without you and I’ll never be able to pay you back. You have so much love and care to give, it’s amazing. I’ll give you more details about my expenses in upcoming updates, I promise. I’ll try to be more consistent with letting you know what’s going on. It’s just extremely hard for me to start every new day. I’m sorry I’m bothering you with my own issues.

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Thank you @ninjaofthepurplethings for connoisseurs of fine art  ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

Here is a tiny painting set. I love the mid-century modern look of these images by Julianne Brion so I wanted to have them in my Sims 3 game.

They are §3 and found in Miscellaneous -> Wall Decor.

As always I want to bring attention to @sims3hasstoppedworking (Eve’s) situation. She is caring for her terminally ill mother on her own in Poland, where the health care system is harsh and uncaring and Eve has health problems of her own. Eve has reached her target, but this was just an estimate on her part of what she might need to look after her mum. Eve still needs help in order to pay for her mum’s burial plot and funeral.

Read about it HERE

Donate HERE

Thank you! 💜

Julianne Brion Pin Ups (SFS 1.6Mb Sims3Pack and package formats) DOWNLOAD HERE.

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Thank you Frankie 💜💜💜

For Jelle and Ewa

To help out @nonsimsical and her family I have decided to share some of my unreleased skins for anyone who can donate. And also Ewa, whose mom is battling cancer! These skins WILL be free at some point or part of the SSFF challenges, but as I have not yet finished playing with these characters I am not making them public yet. But for each 7 dollars you can donate to help out either Jelle or Ewa, you can pick a skin for the above or those in the second post! There are also other gifts you can get:

7 dollars/skin gets you an unreleased skin

5 dollars/skin gets you one of the SSFF skins

20 dollars gets you the world Dreamer’s Bay or Mirth

20 dollars gets you the pre-release of my ethnic braids/dreads hairstyles

Jelle’s Fundraiser:

https://www.gofundme.com/yersa3-my-family-needs-your-help

Jelle’s Paypal:

paypal.me/notthatdani

The post to reblog if you can:

https://nonsimsical.tumblr.com/post/184736605581/nonsimsical-nonsimsical-hello-simblr-family

Ewa’s fundraiser: https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/85skVufOG5

For Ewa, please leave a comment with your donation that states your tumblr username. For Jelle, please just screenshot your receipt!  And then just message me on IM and say which gifts you would like :D

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Thank you Frankie 💜💜💜

For Jelle and Ewa

To help out @nonsimsical and her family I have decided to share some of my unreleased skins for anyone who can donate. And also Ewa, whose mom is battling cancer! These skins WILL be free at some point or part of the SSFF challenges, but as I have not yet finished playing with these characters I am not making them public yet. But for each 7 dollars you can donate to help out either Jelle or Ewa, you can pick a skin for the above or those in the second post! There are also other gifts you can get:

7 dollars/skin gets you an unreleased skin

5 dollars/skin gets you one of the SSFF skins

20 dollars gets you the world Dreamer’s Bay or Mirth

20 dollars gets you the pre-release of my ethnic braids/dreads hairstyles

Jelle’s Fundraiser:

https://www.gofundme.com/yersa3-my-family-needs-your-help

Jelle’s Paypal:

paypal.me/notthatdani

The post to reblog if you can:

https://nonsimsical.tumblr.com/post/184736605581/nonsimsical-nonsimsical-hello-simblr-family

Ewa’s fundraiser: https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/85skVufOG5

For Ewa, please leave a comment with your donation that states your tumblr username. For Jelle, please just screenshot your receipt!  And then just message me on IM and say which gifts you would like :D