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How do I get this post tattood onto my face. I never thought being in a queer space would be SO acephobic. I just only talk to like 6 people now. Everyone else can fuck off. Cuz I’m fucking sick of it

When it comes to asexual allyship a lot of people wanna have their cake and eat it too (pun unintended). People like a lil 'aces are valid' moment but don't actually unpack compulsory sexuality. People see sexless queer representation and always clock puritanism before they ever clock asexuality. No one's actually reading the ace theory and texts coming out. Everyone keeps doing surprised Pikachu faces whenever a conservative or TERF says they're against asexuality despite the fact ace activists have been saying since day conservatives are not anti sex but anti sexual autonomy. 'Aces are queer' until we actually are. Even ace support posts keep ending with some expectation or condition that asexuality is #valid as long as asexuals still perform a small quota of sex/sexual activity. I'm so over 'Aces still have sex!' 'Aces are hot' Aces are sexy' 'Aces aren't virgin vanilla prude sexless puritans!' disguised as support.

Like no. Sorry. Until you accept that some asexual people's no is permanent, that some asexual's singleness is permanent, that some asexual's childless-ness is permanent, that some asexuals are the 'no' in little to no sexual attraction and i'd say most importantly, that queer sexlessness isn't a biological, social or moral failing, I don't believe you'll ever genuinely support asexuality. (In reverse, I also feel similar about aromanticism and romance).

Like a lot of u haven't gone beyond 'the a isn't for ally' and it shows. I don't want people to support asexuals just because we're soooo hot or because we write the best smut apparently or because we could have hypothetical sex or because we could do hypothetical kink or because our minds are soooo dirty actually or because we'd do romance reallllyyyy well or because we can still have kids or because asexuals hand out water bottles at the orgy or some shit. I want people to support asexuality because no sexuality is deviant and it's basic human decency.

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Happy Halloween 🥹😍

🎃🎃🎃

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THIS THIS THIS

“Heartstopper is too puritanical, real teens don’t act like that, they party, drink, have sex and are wild”

Proceeds to ignore introverted teens.

Proceeds to ignore asexual teens.

Proceeds to ignore alosexual teens who aren’t that interested on sex.

Proceeds to ignore teens who have trauma involving intimacy or substance abuse.

Proceeds to ignore the neurodivergent teens that aren’t comfortable at parties.

Proceeds to ignore the neurotypical teens who also aren’t comfortable at parties.

Proceeds to ignore teens who don’t engage in these activities due to religious reasons.

Proceeds to ignore teens who don’t engage in these activities simply because they don’t want to.

Proceeds to ignore every experience that isn’t yours.

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Since both the boys got to say “fuck” this season 🥹🥹🥹🥹🖕🖕

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Another fav moment from s3. Perfect television was made. 🥹😍

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One of my fav moments from s3. I don’t understand how my expectations can be so SO high and still HS3 exceeded them. It was perfect! 😭😭😭😭

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HAPPY HEARTSTOPPER EVERYONE, EVERYONE

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I really love drawing his face

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Just some Charlie Spring traditional art

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My best 😇

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HEARTSTOPPER | Nick Nelson blossoming🩷💜💙

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“Tale As Old As Time” For splendid 🥹

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Spiderman Charlie is my fav

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Spider-Man art for my moments of discovery fic