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This should go without saying but just because a system has a lot of alters it doesn't mean they're faking

"They have 2K fragments!!!"

And!? 😭

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Yeah a lot of people get weird about systems with high alter or fragment counts it's like

Mind ur own damn business???

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Treating littles like little kids isn't weird like, u say they're a little right?

Yeah I wonder y they treat a LITTLE like a little kid

Do u know?

Hmmm nahhhh me neither

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I think honestly if they're like not in ur system then like maybe don't cause like idk that's a little weird imo

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staying connected to source can be good, i think. obviously not for everyone, cater your needs to you and all, but like. Literally who tf cares if that dream smp or wtv introject wants to stay source connected

Been saying 😭😭😭

Like why do u care so much???

If they're source connected u can't do anything abt it leave them alone

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If a system doesn't like doubles, or twins or wtv u wanna call it

Don't try and change their mins that's fucking weird

YOU'RE weird if you do that

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Agreed cause why are you trying to change a system's mind about something like that?

If it bothers you so much just don't interact with them

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My hot take:

It's okay if you want to refer to your own alters/parts/headmates/etc as personalities as long as they're okay with it, it's okay to refer to yourself as a personality if that's what you feel the most comfortable with -🎸 Anon

Yes Exactly!!!!

Whatever your system is okay with is what others should call you as!!!

"I'm a personality" Awesome!

"I'm just a part" Awesome!

"I'm my own person" Awesome!!!

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Just bcs an alter's source is problematic doesn't mean that they're automatically exempt from being allowed to be source attached

Everyone says "Whatever an alter is is whatever they are" with source attachment/detachment until the alter has a problematic source

- 🌬 anon

Second hot take in the first day? On a roll

This is true tho, u can't js say "oh source separation/attachment is up to the alter!"

And then switch up if their source is problematic

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Just because you find something offensive doesn't mean other people will

"Oh well only RAMCOA survivors like me should be allowed to have number names"

A lot of RAMCOA survivors dgaf???

And it's also much more dangerous and it's easier for people to target RAMCOA survivors like that???

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Ooo this one is hot and I agree

I actually see a lot of systems saying that it's completely dangerous for just them to have number names

Ion really get y people think number names are super sensitive like that, a lot of places around the world have kids with number names like Fourth, yeah it's a place like 1st 2nd 3rd but it still has the number four in it, and yeah it's different from just 4 but still my point stands that other cultures do have number/podium place names

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My personal hottake

The way a system talks about themselves should never js be discarded and ignored.

"So my parts were talking to each other and..."

"Yeah so their alters were like fucking around lmao"

"U mean, their parts?"

"Yeah their alters, parts, same difference"

It's not the same thing, if a system calls their alters

Parts

Alters

Headmates

Etc

Do the same

Don't discard it, as they use that terminology for a reason

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