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Trans people who DIY hormones: You don’t have to rely on sketchy information on Tumblr or Reddit regarding your trans health care. Granted, there can be some tidbits that might be useful for the DIY’er that you simply can’t get from medical resources but you absolutely should read and have access to peer-reviewed, medical literature on transgender health care.
This is a guide detailing the use of feminizing hormones, written by the University of California San Fransisco’s gender clinic.
This is the same guide for people who are seeking masculinizing hormones.
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trans girls with facial hair: 👌👀👌👀👌👀👌👀👌👀 good shit go౦ԁ sHit👌 thats ✔ some good👌👌shit right👌👌there 👌👀👌👀👌👀👌👀👌👀 good shit go౦ԁ sHit👌 thats ✔ some good👌👌shit right👌👌there👌👌👌 right✔there ✔✔if i do ƽaү so my self 💯 i say so 💯 thats what im talking about right there right there (chorus: ʳᶦᵍʰᵗ ᵗʰᵉʳᵉ) mMMMMᎷМ💯 👌👌 👌НO0ОଠOOOOOОଠଠOoooᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒᵒ👌 👌👌 👌 💯
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You know who has a great voice?
Every trans girl.
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wallpaper from here :3
look at your phone lock screen. that's your reason to keep goin
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If you think that you may be neurodivergent or disabled and you self diagnose in order to access resources I have one thing to tell you.
Whether you turn out to be neurodivergent or not, you deserve whatever resources or accommodations that will make your life happier, safer, or easier.
Everyone deserves the help they need, whether they have a disability or not. Whether you are self diagnosed or professionally diagnosed. Everyone deserves accommodations, and if you think otherwise that is rooted in ableism. The idea that accommodations are scarce and should be reserved for only the people who need them most is rooted in capitalist systems that shame disabled people for being 'useless' and requiring resources.
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Is it an autistic or an adhd thing where I get tired enough to sleep so I decide to sleep, but I can't sleep if I'm hungry, but I'm already fixated on the idea of sleeping so the need for food is upsetting and angering, and I don't know what to eat so I just sit on the couch angry, wanting to sleep, and not eating?
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where! has! my! passion! gone! I had it abundantly when I was a child, and I must have dropped it along the way, but I cannot figure where!
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Honestly, 90% of the time when I try to do something, it ends up in 3am desk procrastination. The other 10%, I've used this method subconsciously, after meticulously taking everything apart in my head and figuring it out.
I'm glad you made this post because I didn't really know that this was an actual strategy, and not just something you do after you've berated yourself for hours.
I have this problem even with my hobbies/interests, although I'm not sure if a list will help there...?
I was just reading an ADHD post about breaking tasks up into smaller chunks, and I wanted to share something that helped me.
Once upon a time, I was sitting at my desk at 3am, having procrastinated all day, and finally got to the stage where I was so desperate to meet my 9am deadline I made an itemised list of every single thing I had to do, to the level of "1) Open this document. 2) Open this web page. 3) Arrange the windows so you can see both at once... Etc." It took me hours, and I was beating myself up the whole time because I knew I was spending three times as long making the list as I would doing the task, good god, what's wrong with me, this is so stupid...
I finished the list. I went through it step by step. And then I was done.
It was a revelation. It was so incredibly easy, once the list was there.
Since then I've thought: so what if making the list takes three times as long as doing the task? That's what it takes. That's PART OF THE TASK. It's the most important part, because it's the bit that means you can start at all.
Now if I'm struggling I give myself permission to use the most time consuming strategies, to hold my own hand like I'm a two year old, to guide myself through the tiniest of baby steps, because that's a skill I've fought for and it works.
Maybe this is obvious to everyone else. But if there's anyone out there like me, perhaps not yet diagnosed, beating themself up for not being able to just get things done like a normal person, I want to say this: make that list even as the clock ticks down to your deadline. Its not a waste of time. It's part of the task.
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you can be masculine and feminine at the same time. being masculine doesn't make you any less feminine. being feminine doesn't make you any less masculine. there is no inherent morality to any masculinity or femininity you express. you create the meaning behind it by expressing yourself - your joy, your queerness, your health. you are not a reflection of other people's harmful ideas about gender. that's their burden to carry, not yours.
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[jester that just got kicked in the crotch] ah! my jesticles!
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it's okay if you're a trans guy and you don't have, want, or try to look like you have a beard. it's okay if you're a trans guy and you don't pack or don't want to. it's okay if you're a trans guy and you don't really wear men's clothing. it's okay if you're a trans guy and you don't bind. it's okay if you're a trans guy and you don't have a deep voice. it's okay if you're a trans guy and you don't pass. it's okay to be a trans guy and just be for a while.
people push trans guys to get to the end of their transitions way too fast. it's okay to just be pre-t for a while. it's okay to be never-t. it's okay to not get surgeries. it's okay to take it slow and think. it's okay to not rush into changing your name or socially transitioning. it's okay to take it slow
there are lots of ways to be a trans guy. it's okay to take it at your own pace
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Mama didn’t raise a quitter but she did raise a homosexual and and an idiot
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