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It must be loud, Anna and Elsa's love

I see rather often Anna's love being praised above all others. It should be praised. But not above. There's this notion that the best love, that the strongest one is always loud, always explosive, like the kind of spectacle that looks nothing like what an introvert or neurodivergent person usually does.

The extrovert love, easy to understand, easy to read, that follows the cultural romantic notions is the only love held high. And this is something I hoped people would've seen past, mainly after the stories we got.

Elsa can't be or do what Anna does socially. Not even with her sister. Because Elsa's love language is built in broken cold pieces that do not always stay together but exist nonetheless.

Yes, her love is uncomfortable, it looks distant and so very quiet. Because of this, it looks like little love. Something of no worth. Too different, lacking in bright colors, lacking in the neurotypical language, so it must be set aside as the lesser love.

Ironically enough, Elsa agrees. Her love is the lesser one. Because it's broken, it's pointy, it's difficult to detangle, and takes a little bit more effort to see. She too was raised in a world of loud love. In a world where her natural ways are frowned upon. Her pain and her traumas met the place where she held love and it too affected it beyond recognition.

The first time I watched Frozen I wondered: why haven't Elsa's sacrifice counted as an act of true love? I read some people explaining that it was because it was tainted by fear, but to me, such an explanation never felt right. It put the blame on that child again, it put aside her love as the lesser one, the "not sufficient". I like to believe that the act of true love in the first movie should've been from Anna all along, not from someone else. Anna saved herself, all the while saving her sister. She chose her sister, ALSO making a sacrifice. Both did their best to protect each other, both were scared that the other would hurt at some point, both kinds of love are important.

Elsa does deserve Anna.

Elsa, in all of her different, silent, introspective way to love, deserves every ounce of loud, sparkly, and extroverted love Anna gives her. And Anna agrees.

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How Anna went on training self love with Elsa using words of affirmation

Anna: Hey, Elsa! You are my...

Elsa: LOVE

Anna: cutest thing on the...

Elsa: Earth!

Anna: guardian of my...

Elsa: Heart!

Anna: who can do any-...

Elsa: Thing!

Anna *proud*: 🥰🤩💫💞💓💘

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Ya know, you're right. I see people commenting about how her joy also creates stuff, but beautiful ones and now this lives in my mind rent free because I need to visualize the mechanics of it.

Such sweet but challenging concept.

Elsa's emotions and feelings are so tied up with magic: her suppressed emotions became the eternal winter curse and her child fear turned into a scary mystic wolf. In what would turn her love? Her bliss? Her sadness?(Rain?)

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Elsa loves her personal space

Anna also loves Elsa's personal space

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Sometimes I'd be chatting about Frozen with people and get very weirded out by some stuff they don't know or think to be different than what I thought

It takes me a solid minute to realize that half of the stuff I'm holding as ultimate truth is, actually, PURE personal headcanons and additions that I took so seriously it deleted canon lore from my brain and replaced it with my own shit

It saddens me because in canon Iduna wasn't raised by Gerda, and Gerda isn't Anna and Elsa's Nana, I can't accept it. So I proceed to ignore canon knowingly and wait for the next time when I forget that all of this is my personal fic and fool myself 💙

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Since I rather have my original stuff organized, I leave my reblogs in a specific general purpose blog, you can check it out if you want -- I’m mostly online there since its sole purpose is to be fed reblogged posts. 

Despite being used as a rp-ask-fictional-journal once, I want to expand this blog into my little Frozen corner where i share rambles, opinions, rants, observations, headcanons and so on. 

As a fan, my ships are (they’re 99% Elsa, yes. I don’t have strong feelings about Anna dating anyone, which is ironic since Elsa is the one confirmed uninterested in romance, just bear with me anyways; don’t quote me on the ship names, I usually don’t like them that much and I can’t always remember each):

Elsa x Jack Frost (Jelsa) Elsa x Tadashi Hamada (Tadelsa) Elsa x Hans (Helsa)

Elsa x Fa Mulan Elsa x Merida (Merelsa) Elsa x Honeymaren (Elsamaren) Elsa x Isabela Madrigal (Elsabela)

Iduna x Agnarr

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Rating: General Audiences Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings Relationships: Elsa & Gerda (Disney: Frozen) Characters: Elsa (Disney), Gerda (Disney: Frozen) Additional Tags: Fluff and Angst, Domestic Fluff, Canon Compliant, Canon Universe, Elsa-centric (Disney), Young Elsa (Disney) Summary:

Life, as the Arendelian staff knew, was over, those who stayed in the castle had a mission and a secret, a mission they would be left to carry alone when tragedy stroke taking away their dear Queen and King. Gerda, much like many others, was trying her best to stay on her feet. Caring for a pair of little orphan princesses wasn't on her plans, but neither had Iduna or magic snow been, so she would her best.

Getting into Elsa's bedroom to check on her at night, she finds the little one in need of solace and steps up.

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I sure miss writing for my girls, it seems like FOREVER

Still, I am glad to see new fics being posted and updated on Ao3, I hope we can keep it

I shall do my due diligence to keep it alive too

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i’ma let y’all in on a little secret: i am the worst because i forget everything so bet ur ass if u messaged me and i didn’t reply, i read it, mentally replied and then minimized it, thinking i actually typed it out and sent it and thought u guys just didn’t reply back until i check like 24 hours later

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Just something silly XD

Btw, hope you like

Vago

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Fire!Anna headcanon: Bruni starts to follow Anna everywhere and she doesen't really understands why. One day they're in the garden and Bruni starts shooting fire then looks at Anna expectantly. Anna is like: "that's cool little guy but what do you expect me to do?" Bruni makes a noise as if to say: "you try!!" Anna: "ok ok I'll try but it's not like I have powers! Mh...how does Elsa do it?" She stretches her arm and a fireball shoots out of her palm. Bruni jumps excited, Anna is like "oh shit"

that is both cute, awesome and hilarious!

also, i imagined Bruni and Anna accuse of each other like this…

after someone (elsa most likely) discover that the garden is on fire

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ooc: just moved my rp/headcanon blogs to an indie account so I can follow everyone and have a clean dash. my main is now fairxstofall (my Evil Queen indie roleplay).

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Hey Gerda, can I go play now? Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee pleaseee pleaaseee!!!?

In the name of Odin, yes! Leave. Go! Go, child, leave me be. I need silence. I need one minute of silenc- ANNA, get down from this handrail! The steps aren’t there for aesthetic!

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"She started to avoid me too" the nursemaid confessed, unable to hide how it hurt her too "But I have no time for that, my Queen. Elsa needs my care and I'll give her. I must say I am yet to find out a good way to deal with it. I just do what I have to do. She cries sometimes, but I can't back down," she couldn't stare in the eyes of her Queen as she spoke "I think she's becoming paranoid. And this is very dangerous".

(askfrozengerda) Darling! I need a break. It's the third time Agnarr has gotten into my nerves this week and I do not care if he wears a crown, I will riot! What does he means Elsa needs to stay in the room? That child already looks like a walking ghost, she needs sunlight!

“Calm down, Gerda.” Iduna put her hands on her maid/friend’s shoulder to help her calm down. “Everything will be okay. I don’t like it either, but we’ll talk about it. Agnarr’s just overreacting a little bit because of the accident. We all need to calm down and think about what to do next. And don’t worry about Elsa, I’ll go out wit her later, no matter what Agnarr said. Okay?”

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*Gerda stares at her and raises an eyebrow* I beg your perdon, little lady?

what a great birthday. thank you all for the birthday wishes. Now its time for rest, Mama says. (but it really isn’t. Anna and I are gonna play later!) Goodnight!

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“Gerda,” Elsa said trying to smile for her old nursemaid’s sake. The closest thing she had to a mother since her own had been lost at sea a few years previous.

“How is everything, is Anna ready?”

“Don’t do this, I know what you’re doing“ the woman stated pretending to put something in place before turning to the young Queen, after years living running up and down, the nursemaid just couldn’t stand still for too long anymore “You don’t need to behave like that, you can be as miserable as you want so I can help you,“ she said in a funny tone, however, she was probably being serious.

“Your sister is more than ready, she actually made her way to the town as soon as the gates were opened. Can you believe this girl? Poor thing, I hope she’s having fun. I hope you have fun“.

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Gerda held her own hands together as she watched the young Queen give her orders to open the gates. She'd seen a little redhead running around the castle excited like a child during the holiday season, and despite that sighting warmed her heart, she couldn’t feel at ease. “Is there anything I can do for you, your Majesty?” the woman asked, looking tired from the sleepless night.

“Tell the guards to open up the gates.”