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Sorry for the TRUE lesbians here, but this is very current in the life of every aroace girl.

[aro-aura]

Im slipping in your asks for a larger audience because i have a question. Can anyone share a part of their culture that is aro-coded?

Any culture is welcome! i just want to feel envious on purpose because the culture I've grown up in is too deep into amatonormative crap. So i wanna see if anyone has a culture that is aro friendly

absolutely!

[aro-aura]

I fucking hate it when people hold romance above friendship I hate it I fucking hate it.

[aro-aura]

An ode to shimmery water surfaces.

[aro-aura]

The aromantic experience of wondering why you don't feel any sort of "deeper" feelings for your romantic partner

[aro-aura]

I swear I'm not projecting, it just makes them more interesting! (Lying)

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i want the second sentence on a shirt.

Do you ever just look at someone and admire their beauty without it being romantic? Like you are so pretty but if you wanted to date me I would scream and cry and throw up

[aro-aura]

Shoutout to my fellow aros from Asia. Where are yall make some noise. Asia is a big chunk of landmass with big ass islands around it like side dishes there can't be only ten Asian aros on tumblr or something 😭😭😭😭

:)

[aro-aura]

being aromatic is understanding how romantic attraction feels like better from other aro people, bc allos either tell you you'll know when you see the one that you have a crush, or start describing a literal panic attack

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@our-arospec-experience

This week is Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week, so I celebrated by making an aromantic pride patch. An aromantic person experiences little to no romantic attraction, i.e. crushes, falling in love. Some may engage in romantic relationships anyway, while others perfer not to. Personally I’m aromantic asexual (aroace), meaning I don’t experience sexual attraction either. I have never dated or been in a romantic/sexual relationship, and never wanted one either. I refer to myself as self-partnered, because single tends to imply that one is looking for a partner.

[aro-aura]

Heyyy you might wanna check out caedromantic and caedsexual :D

New game show of the day!! Is it Aroace or childhood trauma? Let’s (never) find out!!

[aro-aura]

I'm just trying to see something. Not sure if this has been done before?

[aro-aura]

Labels are like jackets

If it doesn't fit you, you don't have to keep it. You can find another, and you don't have to wear an uncomfortable one in the meantime.

You shouldn't try to change yourself to fit what you wear; it's there to help you, not to box you in.

It's okay if you're still looking for the right thing to wear. You'll always be yourself on the inside. You have time.

You don't need one if you don't want it. It's okay to not wear them. They're for helping to explain what you are to yourself and others. They are not for restricting yourself in a different way.

Sometimes you're forced to wear something even when it doesn't fit you. Some people won't tolerate you for who you are. Fuck them!

You choose what you wear! It's yours and it's your right to wear what you want.

Proofread by @moonmerchant

[aro-aura]

i know this is not everyone's experience but if anyone relates i hope someone does

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because all the aros are doomscrolling in tumblr because there is literally no other place to go :')

why are my aroace stuff getting notes all of a sudden, are we all just an aroace hivemind /j

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the issue with shipping aro/ace characters isn't putting them into relationships, it's the fact that no one adds how their sexuality impacts the relationship at large. And how it'll always be different from your average romantic relationship in some way.