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Royal Mothers + Piggybacks 🤍

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Traits I’ve Noticed in Confident People 

Disciplined - if a target is set, it is achieved 

Speaking - Can speak multiple languages. Can express thoughts clearly even if vocabulary is limited. The listener understands their point. 

Strong extroversion socially - can approach and talk to new people with ease, but also make them feel comfortable. Good at following up, asking questions and inserting little stories about themselves without exposing too much 

Strong general knowledge / industry knowledge. They know what they’re talking about 

Hard to please but not arrogant about it. They won’t readily accept a fact or opinion, even if the majority agrees - they’ll debate with it, think over it, play the devil’s advocate

Good posture

Strong set of principles and self control. There’s no shame in wanting to say, help someone, choose not to drink socially, buy a coffee for a poor person on the street; they don’t hesitate to do good deeds 

Hygienic. Clean, groomed, well dressed, well maintained. 

Observant and proactive at the same time. Can pick up on body language relatively easily - can sense discomfort or unease in someone and do something about it. 

Have a strong sense of self identity. Can be opinionated but open to challenges. 

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BTS photo of Jonathan Bailey and Simone Ashley on the set of Bridgerton s2

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A soft life requires HARD WORK!!!!

You should pamper and take care of yourselves. HOWEVER, You need more than a pretty face these days y'all to get ahead in life. You see women who are in business, law, and Healthcare. They had to bust their behinds to get where they are now. Endless nights staying up to studying, not worried about men 24/7, dreaming about what will be on the other side to motivate themselves. Some of y'all want to be babied. Yes, not every woman thinks the same and wants to be a rich housewife. How do you think women become rich housewives? Networking, Education, volunteering, Hobbies, etc.

Some of these girlies on tumblr are selling a fantasy and I'll let them have it but this is not a Wattpad fanfiction. WAKE UP and get up and do something!!!

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Hello, hope you are doing well.

I know this may seem strange but I wanted to ask your advice on something.

I recently started to implement what you teach on your blog and found it really inspiring and was pleased that it was helping me reach a better version of myself. On that note,I am currently trying to move countries to pursue a better education and experience elsewhere.this process is tedious and I have no one to help me with it.furthermore, due to financial troubles, things aren't really looking up(even tho I have stellar grades and have been the number 2 in my entire university).so ,I am coming to a realization that this dream might not work at all.and that is crushing me on the inside.

my question is ,how can I still level up and still get opportunities where I am ,if where I am is limiting me ?(Can't move currently and surrounded by people who don't match my ambition and keep sabotaging my internships)

Sorry this is long

Have a good day/night.thank you

Hey lovely,

First off, I get where you’re at right now, and I’m proud of you for reaching out. Being surrounded by people who don’t understand your ambition—or even sabotage it—is exhausting. But let me remind you, elite women like us don’t fold under pressure. We turn challenges into stepping stones.

Here’s what you need to keep in mind:

1. Stay in Your High-Agency Mindset

Right now, you’re feeling the frustration because you’re high-agency in a low-agency environment. Trust me, your situation is temporary. The fact that you’re #2 at your university and aiming for a better life is proof you’re already at a level most people around you can’t comprehend. They don’t get it, and that’s okay. Not everyone has that queen mindset, and it’s their choice to stay dusty if they want to.

2. You’re Your Own Resource

Being high-value isn’t just about money; it’s about a mindset. While financial hurdles feel like a mountain, keep in mind that you’re resourceful enough to overcome them. Your grades and ambition are already assets—use them to find scholarships, mentors, and communities that align with your drive. Don’t get caught up on what you lack; focus on what you’re building.

3. Build Your Own Circle of Elite Minds

You’re surrounded by low-agency dusties who can’t see beyond their limitations—that’s fine. You don’t need their approval or understanding. Start connecting with people who share your values and vision, even if it’s online. Queens don’t waste their energy trying to bring everyone else up to their level; they surround themselves with others who are already there.

Keep your head high and don’t stop leveling up. You’re already on your way to an elite life—don’t let anyone tell you otherwise 💕

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Prince William of Wales riding with the Beauford Hunt in Gloucestershire (Photo Courtesy : Shutterstock) | 3 JANUARY 2005

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niall horan x the glass magazine

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Grandma's second rule:

Grandma's second rule was to never parent your partner. She didn't believe in coddling adult men and she refused to allow me to either. She believed in holding men accountable and if a man loved you, he'd prove himself responsible and trustworthy.

She didn't believe in reminding men of dates that were important to her, she'd tell them once and never again:

Grandma's reasoning is that she married Grandpa in 1946, he never once forgot anything important to her, and they lived through a time where there was no technology available. Why should women these days go all out and remind their boyfriends/husbands of their birthdays and what presents they could want and drop hints bigger than Hiroshima when he wouldn't take initiative?

The Prof had an extremely important business meeting in NYC the night I graduated from high school. It was imperative that he be there. So he flew in, sat in my family section, watched me walk, listened to my speech, made sure he gave me a kiss and one of his graduation presents to me, and he ran out of there, caught his flight, went to his meeting, and flew back immediately after on a night flight to celebrate with me later on.

The Prof knows my birthday, I don't remind him or tell him what I'd like, I don't leave clues, he just takes initiative and makes sure that I have a good birthday. If I can remember all of his meetings, his events, and his birthday along with a million other things about him, he can remember my birthday.

She believed that if a man wanted to do something, he would:

And if he didn't want to, he wouldn't. Grandma didn't think that a woman should have to beg and plead to get what she wanted. She'd ask once and leave it at that. If a man didn't want to change for her, he wouldn't. She was completely unwilling to spend her time begging a man to do something that he would only do when he wanted to. She didn't believe in wasting her time and resources on men who didn't value her.

She didn't believe in repeating certain things:

If you tell a man he's hurting you or doing something to you that you don't like and he doesn't listen to you the first time, the next words out of your mouth should be "Did I stutter?". Why stay with someone who refused to respect your boundaries. She believed that accidents happened, yes, but when something became a pattern, it was an inexcusable action. The man you love should never hurt you. She also believed in always remembering that you weren't married until the ink was dry in the papers and to never forget that. It's easier to leave a boyfriend than a husband.

She didn't believe in men being deadbeats:

If a man couldn't take care of his prior responsibilities (and take care of them well) he wasn't marriage material. Men divorce and have good relationships with their children and former spouse all the time, why enter a relationship with a man who's perfectly capable of stepping up to the plate and bring a good parent to his children but decides not to? Grandma didn't believe in dating men who didn't have healthy relationships with their ex-wives and children (barring extenuating circumstances) because what would you do when you ended up in the same place as his former wife? History tends to repeat itself.

Finally, she believed that if he won't, another man will:

There's always a better man out there if the one you're with isn't kind to you. Grandma always told me that youth and beauty shouldn't be wasted on a man who couldn't appreciate those things. There are plenty of men in the world and there's no shame in deciding that you need to leave you relationship for another or continue growing up alone and on your own time.

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JENNIE Mantra, 2024

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Jonathan Bailey as Fiyero during the last part of 'Dancing Through Life' in the library (WICKED Part 1)

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Wild

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The Princess of Wales attended the annual Royal British Legion Festival of Remembrance at the Royal Albert Hall | November 9 2024

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♔ Princess Of Wales June 2024 Challenge

Day 7 - Favourite gif(s) of Catherine with Queen Elizabeth or and Prince Philip

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Everything is energy and your external reality reflects your inner reality (your beliefs, your values, your thoughts).

If you know good men exist out there, that want to provide and lead and protect you, and you focus on that (instead of the wrong men) > you attract those high value men.

If you resent men and see them as toxic, weak, unable to provide, wishy-washy or who just want to use you > you attract exactly those types.

If you think men need to be instructed and taught how to act, need to be coddled and you have to do everything > you will atract boys (because that's not a man) that will use weaponized incompetence on you and make you handle both a job, child-rearing, cleaning the house, cooking and paying the bills.

Shift your mindset, address any limited beliefs, anger or blockages, and watch how your reality shifts to reflect your new beliefs.

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coffee with friends is good, but coffee with friends who show you a new perfect little coffee spot is even better. we sat by the window so we could people-watch over our books