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By batsyhead

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I came across a quote that said: “Just because I don't require much doesn't mean I deserve the bare minimum.” And that hit different.

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You're a blessing, you're gold, won't you hold

Me? 'Cause I don't wanna run, run, run away

No, run, run, run away no more

I like you a little more

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when somebody isn’t right for you, God will continuously cause them to hurt you until you’re strong enough to let them go

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“We cannot change anything unless we accept it.”

— Carl Gustav Jung

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I honestly am torn between fighting for this or slipping away quietly & not looking back.

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“You must tell yourself, ‘No matter how hard it is, or how hard it gets, I’m going to make it.”

— Les Brown

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“When I say, I love you, it’s not because I want you or because I can’t have you. It has nothing to do with me. I love what you are, what you do, how you try. I’ve seen your kindness and your strength. I’ve seen the best and the worst of you. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what you are.”

— Joss Whedon

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"In time, I will shape and make myself whole again. For now, would it be okay if I loved you just as I am? What I once thought was dead and had no use of trying Has been revived and given the breath to start thriving." -Secret Gardens Poetry

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Cygnus Loop

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“I love you the more in that I believe you had liked me for my own sake and for nothing else.”

— John Keats

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I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become. We are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

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“I fell in love with your personality, your looks are just a bonus.”

— Unknown

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one thing I really like about my relationship with my boyfriend is that we can express negative feelings about each other's actions without assigning blame or requiring apology. I mean like for morally neutral things like "it drives me crazy when you leave a wet towel on the floor instead of hanging it up"

cause now like instead of "oh I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to drive you crazy, I'm terrible and unsocialized" or "um well that's dumb, who cares" it's like

"it does? I didn't know that. how come?"

"because it will mildew and I keep tripping over it and I don't know whether you intend to reuse that towel or whether it needs to go in the wash"

"okay so usually if I intend to reuse it I hang it up, and if it needs to go in the wash I drop it on the floor. I guess because I thought I shouldn't put it in the hamper because it would get all the other dirty clothes wet and then THEY might mildew before we do the laundry."

"that's valid. what if we have a specific place to hang wet towels that need to be washed? how about this one hook here"

"perfect!"

no hurt feelings, nobody being made to feel shitty and sloppy on one hand or uptight and bitchy in the other hand. just, we're partners right? let's workshop this