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You shout “support all mental disorders”, but serial killers are “psychos”

You say you support marginalized disorders, but every instance of abuse or even an argument is “narcissistic abuse”

You reblog that post about stopping ableism, but laugh at someone experiencing a delusion two minutes later because “it’s such a stupid delusion to have, it’s obviously not true”

“Support all mental disorders” until it’s a system with mostly fictives

“Support all mental disorders” until a bipolar person is having a manic episode

“Support all mental disorders” until it’s laughable. Until it doesn’t benefit you anymore. Until someone has an episode in public and you pull out your phone to point, stare, and record.

“Support all mental disorders” until you prove that we’re nothing more than a joke to you, and we never were.

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i don’t think you NTs understand this.

approaching us with an OBV angry tone and saying “YOU NEED TO– x, y, z” will NOT – I REPEAT – NOT encourage us to do x y z. 

ESPECIALLY IF

we have executive disfunction

we are experiencing changes out of our control

we are out of control in general of certain things relating to x y or z

WE WERE ALREADY PLANNING TO DO X Y Z

we are currently depressed or exhausted emotionally or physically

we already have anxiety surrounding x y z

we physically cannot move bc we are (period tw) BLEEDING and in IMMENSE PAIN

AND THEN YOU GO AND GET SARCASTIC ON ME WHEN I RESPOND WITH FRUSTRATION AND BLUNT HONESTY BECAUSE OF YOUR INITIAL APPROACH

DONT FCKING TELL ME “DONT GO O.D.D. ON ME” 

DONT EVER FCKING USE A FCKING MENTAL DISORDER AGAINST ME

AND THEN USE YOUR AUTHORITY CARD TO CALL ME DISRESPECTFUL

AND THEN TELL ME YOU LOVE ME???

DO NOT TREAT ME LIKE THIS

for chrissake. if you can’t learn to teach or encourage without taking your own frustrations or pain out on me, don’t fcking say sh!t.

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Honestly it’s super fucking annoying to see chasers claim that “fujoshi” is a slur, when I’ve had to put up with being called h*/sh*, tr*nny, sp*rg, and r*t*rd by my oppressors for my entire fucking life.

You’re not oppressed for fetishizing gay men. The word “fujoshi” is an insult at worst, and half of y’all use it as a label anyway. You wanna stop being called a fujoshi? Stop being fucking creepy about gay men.

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fuck it *makes all your faves disabled*

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Blog Introduction:

Name: Spergie (if you’re autistic), AK. Pronouns: He/him. Age: 21. Etc: Autistic (professional-DX), discalculic, mentally ill, bisexual arospec transgender (TME), white, atheist. I hate allistics and cis people.

DNI: T(W)ERFs/SWERFs/radfems/tradfems/gender critical/transmisogynists, Nazi/anti-Semitic/white supremacist/racists/fascists/anti-antifa/All Lives Matter/Blue Lives Matter/pro-cop/anti-Black Lives Matter, ableists/Auti$m $peak$ supporters, fujoshis/yaoi fans/chasers, pedos/MAPs/NOMAPs/PEARs/clovergender, zoophiles, DDLG/CGL/littlespace/NSFW agere (SFW agere and systems with little alters are fine), factkin (otherkin/fictionkin/therian are fine), NSFW/kink/fetish blogs, pro-shippers/anti-antis/one of those “fiction doesn’t affect reality” fuckers, LGBTQ+phobic in general (includes aphobics)/intersexists/exclusionists/trumeds/you’re part of the “Drop the T” or “Algae” movements, fatphobic, pro-ED and pro-self harm blogs*, you support YouTubers like PewDiePie/Cryotic/Antoons/GinjaNinjaOwO/Night Mind/Kalvin Garrah/Contrapoints/etc., you support celebrities like William Shatner/Sia/Melanie Martinez/Victor Salva/Johnny Depp/Benedict Cumberbatch/Dahvie Vanity/J.K. Rowling/etc.

*I understand that pro-ED and pro-self harm places outside of Tumblr are often times dedicated to harm reduction, acceptance, and recovery rather than being places where people encourage these behaviors, however, more often than not on Tumblr, pro-ED/self harm blogs often encourage addictive behaviors and purposefully post triggering things.

I know that’s a long list but I’m allowed to have a long list because this is my fucking blog. Go cry about it if you don’t like that you’re included on my DNI. I know my DNI is gonna end up on some butthurt loser’s cringe blog, so by all means, do it.

Ask to follow: Traumacore blogs.

Allistics can follow, but don’t fucking derail my posts about autism, since I know you fuckers just love to do that.

Cis people can also follow, but you’re on thin fucking ice.

BYF: I am pro-self-DX (as long as you’ve done your research), pro-autigender, and pro-allowing oppressed people to hate and/or distrust their oppressors. If any of that offends you, don’t fucking follow me. Thanks.

If I ever reblog from someone on my DNI list, please tell me. Also, if I violate someone else’s DNI, feel free to say something. I won’t violate a DNI on purpose.

I post mostly about relatable autistic, disabled, and mentally ill things, occasional discourse, politics, positivity, general stuff about disabilities/disorders/mental illnesses, posts spreading awareness about the mistreatment of neurodivergent people, stimmy stuff, etc.

If I ever say something out of line, misinterpret tone, or in general just say or do something problematic, feel free to tell me so that I can apologize and do better in the future.

Allistics do not call me aspie, sperg, autist, sped, or the r-slur. Do not use those words in general, they are not for you to use/reclaim.

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Normalize disabled voices

Echolalia, monotone voices, stuttered speech, slurred speech, labored breathing between words and sentences, mechanical AAC voices,  AAC or sign users who consider those to be their voices, selectively mute voices, disorganized speech, speech with vocal tics, speech considered to be of “inappropriate volume”, speech with vocal stims, all disabled voices and the ways they present

Normalize disabled voices

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Fairly okay. It really depends on the circumstances.

To other autistic people, how good are you at masking?

(To avoid confusion, masking means "acting neurotypical", it's not a question about wearing face masks)

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