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Metalviking & Human Pincushion caught on camera 📍💜🎸 #metal #viking #humanpincushion #alternativecouple #gothicgirl #metalhead #piercing #tattoos #bluehair #dutch #mixedrace #photography #photoediting #2yearstogether #recording #sneakingup

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Right! ♡💜❤.

Just be happy that still many young people want to express themself this way and that gothculture is still growing. If people keep up the elitist attitude, you will hear the exact same complaints, but with different years. "Ugh, those 2020-goths are so lame! Us 2010-goths are soooo much more original and real!". Stop this truely viscious cicle 😱

Don't become the bullies you despiced back in your day!. Let's all eat cookies and drink Monster Energy instead!💜

You want the goth subculture to continue existing? Then accept that not everyone can be an 80s goth and a 90s goth. Those times are past. There will be 2000s goths and 2010s goths and hopefully goths for many, many years to come. And there will always be differences and the scubculture is going to evolve. Stop shitting on current goths just because you you can’t change and are suffocating in your stagnation and elitism.

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Never want to Leaf you baby 🍁❤💟💛💚

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Cutsie autmnpictures with Cuties @jessezh 😊💛❤💟

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Our ( @jessezh and me) lovely little catgirl Mellow showing her Bring The Ball-Skills 😺😸😻

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Our lovely little girl, Mellow! ♡•♡. She once snatched a Sushi from my plate when I was blinking my eyes and almost drank up my Starbucks drink. Crazy Furbaby 😻

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Leaving my Hometown

I never thoughed I would say those words before, but I just did. Im moving away from my beloved city Rotterdam South-Holland, The Netherlands to Sittard Limburg. Its been almost a month now.

My fiancé @jessezh and me have been looking for a place to live for almost a year and finally found something in Sittard (Limburg, Jesse’s birthplace).

Originally we applied for houses in Eindhoven, Brabant, because Jesse was going to study Photography in Venlo. 2 weeks before his first day of school he recived a letter wich said that due to a lack of new appliances his class was canceled. Jesse got three other options: The same school in Rotterdam, Amsterdam or Apeldoorn. He choose to attend the same school in my town and we started looking for houses here in R'Dam. And it was easier for my financial and medical situation at the time.

Hunting for houses in R'Dam was a nightmare. I knew this from my own experience, but I hoped we would have more luck as a couple. Nothing could be further from the truth. When we saw something we liked it was way over our budget, we would only had a chance with an eurgencycertificate, one of the tenants Had to Have a job or other appliers would get chosen over us. People who made more money or couples with kids. Cliché but true. In the worst cases the landlords or organizations said they would contact us for a viewing but never did. I found this frustrating because it gave me a feeling of being shunned. Because of Tietze Syndrome and PDD-NOS I simply can’t work a regular fulltime job and I live on wellfare. The wellfare organization officially deemed me 100% unable to work too. It seemed as if people who are physically and/or mentally unable to work have no right to rent a house, eventhough they have the money and stability to do so.

Because it didnt worked out at all looking for a house in R'Dam and the far distance Jesse had to travel to get to school every day he quit. Not long after he found a fulltime job wich he still have. Eventually we decided to look for a place closer to his work. Hunting for houses in Limburg was way easier and calmer than it was back in South-Holland. When promises were made with homeowners and organizations they kept them. And finally Jesse found a place in the center of his own town a month ago. I was shocked at first because I toughed we’ve had to go trough all kinds of official stuff to arrange it, but it was pretty easy. I’m very happy about it.

He got here earlier to put some stuff into our place. The first week we spent together and at our house. I brought some stuff with me from home to make it more look like a real Lovenest Hihi ^_^. My grandparents even gave us a TV! We don’t have Wi-Fi or Cable yet, but we do have internet on our phones and a PS3 so its fine for now. I don’t miss it either.

For now because of my financial situation and medicine I go back to R'Dam often. Im here for the weeks Jesse has to work his morningshift. When he works at night we are both at our parents houses. For the time being its a 50/50 situation. Its easier for him because its closer to his job. So im here every other week. It is our intention that we both stay permanently. Its a start. By the way, im not scared about medication trouble anymore wich Ive had way to much in R'Dam. There were not enough painkillers so I called to ask if with a prescription from home I could get some at the local pharmacy. They are WAY nicer and way more helpfull here. They even deliverd them at our house.

When we first got here I was almost sure I would be sad about moving away. Im proud to be from R'Dam. On the other hand there was so much negativity in my life when I lived there so its nice to get miles away from it. Sittard is a much smaller place but it has everything you need closeby. Since we live in the Towncenter almost everything is a few steps from out the door and the trainstation is just 6 minutes away. Living here with the man I love the most is also the greatest feeling ever. Its a long road ahead, but I feel very optimistic ♡.

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Edited some pictures of @jessezh & Me. I Love You Soooooo Very Very Much my Darling ♡•♡ 😍😘❤💙💜💖💑💘💏💋👄👣👣😺😻

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@jessezh and me have had a great time celebrating his 26th Birthday in Eindhoven! 😊😍😘💕💕💕 We've seen the movie Logan its awesome! 😸 I Love You Soooo Very Very Much Too Honey 💑💘💏❤💙💜💝💖👄👄💋💋👣👣

My birthday with my Girlfriend 🌹❤️🌹 @aliceraptorreturns

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With my fiancé @jessezh at Hardrock Café Amsterdam during Christmas 😇💑💘💏❤💙💜💖👄👄💋💋

Amsterdam! In love with my sweetheart @aliceraptorreturns

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THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. It may save a life, It may save your life.)

An Article from Neena Susan Thomas

“Through a rapist’s eyes. A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interview…ed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:

1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.

2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.

3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.

4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.

5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.

6] Number three is public restrooms.

7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.

8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.

9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.

10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.

POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:

1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.

2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.

3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and armpit or in the upper inner thigh – HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.

5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.

6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.

7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.

FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.

2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.

5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .

b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.

c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.

If u have compassion reblog this post. ‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.

REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW AT LEAST PEOPLE WILL KNOW WHATS GOING ON IN THIS WORLD. So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.

THIS COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.”

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@jessezh and I have been to the amazing band Lordi’s concert 02.11.2016 in P60 Amstelveen. With support acts Silver Dust & Shiraz Lane. @jessezh and me have had an Amazing time together! ♡•♡ I bought a jacket and a patch and Jesse a T-Shirt (wich I will steal hihi)

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The Halloween pictures of me and my fiancé @jessezh at Rotterdam ♡♡♡ Im sooooo very much in love with my man! ♡♡♡

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Yes!! @jessezh and me will go to Korn in Tilburg!! ♡

Hell Yeay Tickets for my girlfriend and me!! ❤️❤️ KORN 013 Tilburg! @aliceraptorreturns ❤️ LY

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Some furniture ideas for our future home @jessezh? Hihi ♡

I cannot say no to black furniture.

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Rest in peace my lovely little parrot girl Paulie ♡♡♡ 25.05.2002 - 13.10.2015 ♡♡♡ Im glad my dear boyfriend @jessezh come to me today ♡♡♡

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A surprice for my Lovely Fiancé @jessezh