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Lady Gaga in ‘Video Phone’ (2009).

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they should make jobs for people that are terrified. in general

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ISSA RAE & EMMA CORRIN | BLACK MIRROR S07E03 “Hotel Reverie” dir. Haolu Wang (2025)

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Angela Bassett at the Variety Power of Law breakfast yesterday ⚖️

📸 John Sciulli

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My mom accidentally joined a grieving support group (long story, she's not grieving tho) and she's missing it this week while visiting me and she's VERY concerned that Lorraine, who very kindly offered to bring a baked good like mom usually would, will NOT bring the correct kind of dessert, she says citrus tarts aren't "griefy" enough

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it wasn't ever normal that you guys were getting coffee for cheaper than people in Brazil and Colombia (the producers) do though, I hope you know that

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i feel like we as a digital society have forgotten the important rules of the internet

Don't feed the trolls

Never give out personal information

Anonymity is the best defense

Don't click suspicious links

Don't click popups and ads

Just because it's written doesn't mean it's true

You are responsible for your own experience

There is porn of everything, act accordingly

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what it feels like losing another mutual to that 911 show where those guys havent even fucked yet

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Angela Bassett for Back Stage West (2002)

📸 Cressandra Thibodeaux

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Anon has felt conflicted between the vacation (new experiences, time with friends/family, etc) and their excitement for their interest/hobby. They're curious how much of a problem this is for other people.

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this is my cat charlie

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i'm not invested in "harry potter was never good" conversations because it doesn't matter if it's good or not. quality does not positively correlate with socio-political praxis. it could be a really good piece of art, but if it's still supporting a vocal proponent of transmisogyny and transphobia, i don't give a shit. harry potter good or bad, who cares, its success is unambiguiously providing financial and social capital for a morally despicable person.

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THE OTHER THING IS. I keep seeing this post that's like "autistic people complain about NTs having it so easy but I don't think they understand that things are hard for everyone". and on one level it's like. yes sure everyone is held to social standards that are difficult if not impossible to conform to, and there are a lot of factors that impact how strictly people have to conform to those standards. but also if you're not autistic I don't think you understand just how overwhelming it is to Have Autism

I've been chronically overwhelmed for as long as I can remember. there is a low level of overwhelm buzzing in the back of my mind 24/7/365. I'm overwhelmed by existing in a world where it is impossible to escape lights and sounds and internal bodily sensations and socialising and whatever else. one thing goes wrong and that level of overwhelm is no longer survivable. many people snap when someone tries to talk to them while they're stressed. can you imagine trying to come across as normal during small talk while also trying to suppress layer upon layer of baseline overwhelm? especially when there are more components of socialising that don't come naturally to you than there are for other people?

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bathena kisses for the soul 🫶 (all based on 8x11)

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like I'm sorry but I will keep posting about this until people stop being cunts and shitheads so I think we'll be here a good while. every time I talk about the colonial framing of australia and how colonialism is at work in modern day understandings of this country I only need to count to ten before every european and usamerican in sight starts spouting complete bullshit. why don't you all take a deep breath and examine why the fuck you're so wedded to the idea of australia you have in your head