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40 Tips For Becoming More Disciplined 📌💡🚀📝

Know what you want to achieve soon and in the future. This helps you know where to go and stay motivated.

Do the most important things first to save time and energy.

Have a daily plan that includes work, rest, exercise, and learning.

Make big tasks smaller so they're not scary, and you can see progress.

Use methods like the Pomodoro Technique (working for a while, then resting) or blocking time to get more done.

Notice when you're avoiding work and make yourself start.

Control yourself from getting distracted or doing things just for fun.

Say no politely when you can't do more things without getting stressed.

Stay healthy by eating well, exercising, and sleeping enough.

Keep learning by reading, taking classes, or trying new things.

Check how you're doing with your goals and change plans if needed.

Tell a friend or mentor your goals so they can help you stay on track.

Keep your spaces tidy to help you focus better.

Learning discipline takes time, and it's okay if things don't go perfectly.

Think good thoughts about yourself instead of bad ones.

Imagine doing well to get motivated.

Mistakes are chances to learn, not reasons to give up.

Be happy about even small successes to stay positive.

Listen to advice from others to get better.

Be ready to change your plans but keep your main goals.

Try mindfulness to concentrate, be calm, and know yourself better.

Write about your progress and plans in a journal.

Turn off things like social media when you work or study.

Think about things you're thankful for to stay happy.

Do quick tasks right away instead of waiting.

Spend time with people who help you and make you want to be better.

Let others do tasks that you don't need to do, so you can focus.

Get better at handling problems without giving up.

Picture doing well to stay motivated.

Drink water to think clearly and stay healthy.

Have a special place to work or study to help you focus.

Wait for bigger rewards instead of quick ones.

Keep things simple, both around you and in your mind, so you can concentrate.

Listen to advice without feeling bad about yourself.

Use apps and tools to manage your tasks and time.

Reading helps you learn and think better.

Decide what's good enough for you and stick to it.

Believe you can get smarter and better with practice.

Do creative things to stay imaginative and interested.

Listen carefully to others to be better at talking and understanding.

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i dont think whites understand how being white makes literally everything easier.

it effects everything.

being trans is easier when youre white.

being gay is easier when youre white.

being disabled is easier when youre white.

being a woman is easier when youre white.

being autistic is easier when youre white.

being an immigrant is easier when youre white.

oppression is eased when you are white, as you get extra privileges, and your whiteness is seen as a positive characteristic that in some ways counter-balances your other forms of being a minority. whiteness controls everything.

you are automatically way more innocent in your own oppression as a gay, trans, disabled person because of your whiteness.

never forget this.

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Amazigh Jewish women in Morocco, 1930s.

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Mothers in Wait, by Palestinian artist Nabil Anani.

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عندما تتحرر فلسطين، اتمنى أن يرسم أحد الفنانين حنظلة و هو رجل بالغ يواجهنا بابتسامة عريضة تزين وجهه

When Palestine is free, I really hope that an artist will illustrate Handala as a grown man facing us with a loving smile on his face.

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the funny thing about people in the oppressor class is that they are so ignorant and entitled they genuinely believe that the oppressed are privileged in some way

a white person will complain about how “black people have all the jobs and they have a special privilege now because everyone hates the poor white man”

a man will say that he wishes he were a woman so “I can just cook and clean and let my guy bring home the bacon and stay with kids and not go to war and be given free drinks at the club”

and a straight person will say “you gays are so lucky that everything caters to you nowadays, I get so bullied for being straight because it’s ‘vanilla’”

they say this with no critical analysis of the nature of these systems in the first place, and they show they have no actual grasp on the real lived experiences that these people go through everyday. they’ll bring up shallow, niche scenarios that they themselves or a friend of a friend witnessed and run with that to the point of delusion saying “see? I told you these guys weren’t oppressed! It was us all along!”

racism still abounds in even more degrading levels today (blackness and “Asian girl” are now a porn categories that are accepted as morally okay, we’ve seen black kids shot for no reason and the white shooter gets more funding for the court case than the victims family), misogyny has reached astronomical heights on the internet alone (don’t even get me started on how lockdowns had women getting murdered by their husbands in faster rates and how predatory behavior in younger boys has become more prevalent, abortion rights are almost nonexistent nowadays), and gay people are still getting murdered brutally, in fact their rights are being revoked and in other countries, the judicial punishment is getting harsher.

you’re so privileged you don’t even know what privilege means because you’ve never had to fight for it and never lived without it

these people are so inhuman to you that you think their suffering is fun and you want the “experience” of it

fuck off sincerely

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SATURNIAN ENERGY

I'm really exited for this post, since it hits close to home! Other than being a Capricorn sun, my moon is also ruled by Saturn and Saturn is the second master in my 1 House. So, me and Saturn have known each other for some time and established a love-hate relationship. It can be quite hard with prominent Saturn placements, but you have to learn from your mistakes and accept many life challenges, because they will mold you into a resilient individual in my eyes.

⬛ Saturn, the last planet one's naked eye can reach in the night. In ancient Rome Saturn was the God of generation, time, abundance and wealth, also being called "the God of time".

In my heart,Saturn is the strict father of the planets. His energy is very dark, ancient, wise, patient with a sprinkle of misery and a good coming of age tale. He seems like he wants to step on you, make your eyes tear up...but he knows why he's doing such. He has witnessed all of this sorrow and wants patient thinkers above all. No daydreamers nor hot-headed individuals in his books.

⬛Many times Saturn breeds lonely individuals. One's who's life path is better without extra baggage.

⬛He really inbodies authority, maturity, boundaries, responsibility, discipline, wisdom, patience, karma, higher thinking and challenges.

⬛ It can be seen as the "boring" planet, since it's energy is so mature, but nevertheless Saturnian energy is extremely powerful.

⬛The lesson is very simple...there is no negotiating with Saturn. No crybabying, no remorse. His cruelty is a lesson to be seen in a positive light. The faster you change your habits, except rough times and be thankful for them...Saturn will charish you with light and knowledge! Also having many Saturn placements means anyone who will double cross you, will get their karma. So not all is dark, not all is bad, not all is ploting against you.

⬛ Saturn rules feminine Capricorn and masculine Aquarius, even though Aquarius is also ruled by Uranus, but I like looking at the duality of the two signs.

⬛ Capricorns are traditional in a sense. They are the grounded grandmother of the signs. With years of downfall and a gaurded attitude they can seem cold hearted. That is farthest from the truth, they are just extremely picky with people they surround themselves. The love language they speak is gift giving/receiving, even though I look at Capricorns as the sugar daddies of the zodiac. They are so in infatuated with working hard to spoil their loved one's. Yes, they are hard working most of the time, yes they can be lonely wolves, yes they can be man/woman eaters. The biggest issue I see with Capricorns is how they perceive themselves as unworthy most of the times, even though they are highly independent. Another note to my fellow sea goats is to not be so vengeful and prideful. Not everything is money and assests, enjoy your family, friends and partner.

⬛ On the other side we have the dizzy Aquarius. The non traditional air sign, clawing away their emotions to seem aloof and careless. But deep inside they really care, but mask it with their amazing sarcasm and humor. Aquarian energy is very humanitarian. They unlike Capricorn have a collective energy. They mold themselves to fit into any group setting. The chameleons of the zodiac. Always trying new things, traveling, meeting new people. They really never stop to think deep, that's where the issue lays.

⬛ So the difference in Saturn's teaching for both the signs are:

〰️Capricorns should release themselves from tradition and try new things to climb higher. They should stop being so stubborn and try to listen.

〰️Aqurians should try more traditional aspects, try solitude for a change. They need more patience.

That's why I've seen a lot of bitterness between the two signs, they are fallen sisters, but always butt heads. It is hard for a serious earth sign to communicate his deep feelings to an intellectual air sign and vice versa. They are so alike, but also so different!

⬛ Also Saturn rules the 10th house or the MC, meaning Medium Coeli or so called your "Midheaven". It rests at the top of your chart and represents career choice, publicity, the workplace, your public persona, status, reputation and sense of responsibility.

Some observations about Saturn placements/aspects:

〰️ Having Saturn in any house means that wisdom in that department will come later in life. For example if you have Saturn in your 7th house, marriage will come a bit later in life. You will have nasty relationships, but at the end you will never settle down with a dusty partner, knowing damn well how that goes. Another example is Saturn in the 1st house, you can struggle a lot with self acceptance and confidence, but it will all get better after maturing. The Last example is Saturn in the 9th house, you maybe will not succeed in greater education at an early age, or you might not travel long distance until your 30s/40s.

〰️ Saturn hard aspects (square, opposition) any planets means the same thing. They are challenges you need to conquer. Ex. Mercury square Saturn, this can mean you have a hard time communicating with yourself and others. Also writing can be quite difficult for you at times. Don't worry, it will come with age and some practice :)

〰️ Saturn in the 1st house can mean you always had to pick yourself up as a child. Too independent, lost a lot of fun years because of it. Also, if Jupiter or Saturn or both are in the 1st house, this means you have a lot of masculine energy. Embrace it, be a father figure to yourself or to others.

〰️ Cap Venuses can be very tricky. Bringing Saturian energy into a house ruled by Venus, the fiery planet of love and romance can be difficult. They need a long time to find their true lovers. Can be very cold and bossy towards partners. But a little secret, since Caps are very dominant, Cap Venuses like a dominant partner at times, passionately dominate. No degrading kinks and such. They love thigh touching and back rubs. You have to be extremely smart or a businessman. No rusty dusty partners over here. Also buy them a gift, doesn't have to be expensive, just very thoughtful.

〰️ Saturn in the 12th house can bring a lot of challenges into your spiritual life.

〰️ Capricorn Mars, especially men are so attractive to me. They are kind of intimidating in a way, but take action so calm. They know what/how to do it. Just a little bit of advice, try to be the listener sometimes!

〰️ Cap in the 10 house means business, and l a lot of it. They don't mess around with anybody that's lower than them. They also have ideas that they think about for years, trying to perfect them.

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A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking, because her trust is not in the branch but in her own wings. Always believe in yourself.

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Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.

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Never apologize for burning too brightly or collapsing into yourself every night. That is how galaxies are made.

Tyler Kent White

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La vengansita

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and maybe i am a little bit in love with all of my friends. how could i not be when they place their whole heart in my hands and trust me to carry it safely home? lazy days spent in comfortable silence, tearful nights spent giving each other a reason to live. the exhilaration of learning your little quirks melting into a future where i know you better than the lines on my open palms. mutual understanding to be forever gentle with one another. inside jokes that follow me long after you've gone, reminding me to slow down and laugh a little more. your eyes are the lens through which i can see the world with love. your embrace is the shelter under which i find strength to continue on.

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" اي واحد يلتجى للقانون ضد بشر كيفو فهوا جبان ولا مصطك، و اي واحد ما ينجمش يتلهى بروحو ما غير هالقانون راهو الزوز.

كيما واحد مدغور يقول لي دغرو : كان نعيش ورأس ميمتي ما نڨتلك و كان نموت هاك حشيتو و مسامحك .. هذا هو قانون الشرف يا ملاهط"

نعجة الرب - ٱومرتا

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روحت ليلة متوحشني، نزرب بش نكمل المشوار و نسكر باب بيتي، نلوج على اي حجة بش نركش معيا، و مش لازم حجة .. سكر الباب و طفي التليفون و قوي فالموزيكا .. لا بدل .. حط موزيكا background بش نسمع��ي كي نحكي .. اس بركا عندي ليا البوم ينيك .. تحطت المزيكا و تلفتت لجونتة ن��د فيها .. مديدة تعدات و انا ندور فيها بكل ما عندي من حب و تركيز .. نتكيفو لولة فالشباك و نتفرج فالمطر .. الموزيكا برسمي تنيك و اللعبة تنيك اكثر .. بديت نتخرم و راسي رزن .. نقصت شوية فالموزيكا و ترميت فالفرش .. الشباك قعد محلول .. نيك امو .. نرجع نحل معيا موضوع وراء موضوع، نفس وراء نفس .. ما فقتش بروحي كي دورت الثانية و الثالثة .. الكلام في جرت بعضو، مرة نتبسملي و مرة نتنبز من كلمة معوجة .. اما لكل كلامي و فماش علاه نوجعني .. ايجا يا روحي نتفكر كيف كنا محلانا مبعضنا و شنية لي بعدنا .. بعدت عليا و معادش عارفني، حتى كي نغزر لمراية منعقلش الوجه لي نشوف فيه .. وينك ؟ ويني ؟ لحضة قبل ويني البريكية ؟ تشعل الثالثة بعد ما ماتو لي قبلها و انا معيا نهدر و معيا نسمع و منجاوبش .. فكرتني في حاجات فيبالي ضاعوا من مخي .. تفكرت اما النهار لمنيك و كيفو برشا ايامات .. تفكرت وجايع لين حاسيتهم على جلدي .. و كلام يشوي رجع يرن في راسي .. رجعت اكا الطفل الصغير لي منجمش يقول ولا يفعل .. عاودت رجعت خايف .. يديا ترعش حطت الجونتة على جنب و تخبيت بكلي تحت الغطاء .. في دقائق عشت كل لحضة ضعف تعديت بيها و كل وجيعة رضرضتلي عظامي .. البرد حسيتو بين ضلوعي يتسرسب .. ياخي علاه أنا هكا تي ماو اي فات مات و تعدينا كل شي .. اما مازالت توجع .. و شبيني نلوم في روحي .. ماكنتش نعرف .. ماهيش غلطتي .. خرجت من تحت الغطاء نلوج على سيڨارو ما فقت كان بوجهي يقطر دموع .. سنين مبكيتش تسيبو في ليلة .. شعلت السيڨارو و تفكرت معاه كيفاه كبرت و انا نطيح و نقوم .. كي نوار الجبل حتى كي تردمو يعاود يطلع .. و تبسمت .. و التبسيمة زادت كي تفكرت قداه من مرة نرجع من بلايص ظلام دحسة .. برسمي صحيتني .. و قداش زدت حبيتني .. و توا نرجع لجونتة يزي ما خليتها وحدها ....

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From what I came to learn lately is that am temporary in the life of others and they are just passing too .. i know that an already established fact but what changed is the way i look at it. If am just passing through in someone's life i wanna be a good memory, a helping hand and an inspiration. Life is already hard enough as it is and i want to make it a bit tolerable for the people i meet along the way .. even if I don't really bring that much change i wanna do my best so when you remember me, you do it with a smile on your face

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Sure, people make mistakes. However, only people who take accountability for their actions and try to do BETTER deserve forgiveness. Those who push the blame onto others, deny their wrong doings, or simply throw their hands up and say “well that’s just who I am!” are people who don’t deserve that forgiveness. You can’t just run around saying “people make mistakes” and guilt those who’ve been hurt by what you’ve done into feeling like they’re wrong for still being upset. Take accountability, apologize, do better. Don’t expect forgiveness just because you want it. And don’t expect people to just “move on” when YOU fuck up. It’s not “cancel culture” it’s not “social justice”, it’s being held accountable for your actions.