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Apparently @minipuppyofmadness loves Mommy's feet
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"When your collection starts to look like this, it's time to go full time...
Throw out your old underwear and embrace regression."
To see all my NSFW captions and to suport the blog: AllMyLinks🍑
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"Yes baby!! This is the start of it.
Wetting in your sleep is your first step to total incontinence.
Soon you'll find yourself leaking during the day and diapers will become a requirement, not a choice.
Then the only step left is number twos! Let's get some laxatives in you before bed tomorrow!"
To see all my NSFW captions and to suport the blog: AllMyLinks🍑
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This is the look of love and caring, a soft smile and eyes that ease the heart. If I find a mommy some day I hope she looks at me like this <3
Also I didn't make the art :p
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Keeping you in diapers isn't just a novelty to me. It's not some cute, quirky little game we're playing. It's an expression of my dominance, of my authority over you, and your willingness to submit to me. It's not just about the fact that seeing your padded diaper butt beneath your clothes turns me on (which it does). Those diapers I make you wear, they're a constant reminder of our dynamic. Each time you sit down and feel the padding beneath you, whenever you shift your body and hear a crinkle break through the world's silence, I want you to remember that you are mine.
You wear those diapers because you belong to me, because you are Daddy's plaything to dress up however he pleases, even if that means putting you in embarrassing, childish undergarments meant for babies who can't control themselves. It's about never letting you escape the fact that you choose to be pathetic for me, that more than anything, you want to give in to my control and let me turn you into the best little girl you could possibly be.
Your diapers keep you safe in my arms. They wrap you in my love. They keep you from getting too overconfident, when you're forced to face the fact that you've got padded underwear between your legs, there to help keep your pants dry because you're too immature and pathetic to make it to the potty on your own. And each time you wet yourself, you aren't just being a good girl for me, you're letting all those big girl thoughts slip away from you and embracing your childish state.
You don't want to be a big girl anymore, you don't want to make your own decisions. You want me to keep you in diapers 24/7 because you never want to forget who you belong to. You want to always be aware of who you serve, and who grounds you in his dominance. You can't be on your own anymore. You can't go back to being a big girl, forced to face the big, scary adult world by yourself. You just want to belong to your Dada, and to be his good little daughter no matter what.
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Princess moaned through her pacifier as if something was wrong. Daddy immediately unwrapped her onesie to discover that she was wet.. but she was also hiding the fact she was a little bit messy too...not too messy, but enough to make her smell like a toddler after Daddy removed her onesie. Daddy tried to change Princess but she didn't want a change just yet.. She babyishly mumbled through her pacifier that she wanted to play with her toys.. Daddy obliged his smelly little girl, because she had been good lately. Princess went back to playing on the floor and Daddy would change her in a little awhile.
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Messy mornings… 💩
Daddy said he’d change me after breakfast 🍳
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Diaper Discipline Guide
Emma & Henry
My boyfriend of 4 years has always had regressive and sub tendencies while I’ve wanted to talk more control in our relationship. We tried several bdsm activities including smacking and bondage but the occasional nature wasn’t really doing it for me.
After finding out more online about Female Led Relationships I came across DD, initially dismissing it. But the more I read, the better and better the idea appealed to me. After some planning I decided to confront my partner and say I wanted to add an element of control and domination into our relationship, by saying I hadn’t decided how to do it yet we had a long discussion without diapers being mentioned where he agreed in principle to “lifestyle dominance” as long as it could be kept between them and not impact his job, friends, etc.
This guide was invaluable to me to plan the rest and it solidified my decision. It took me two weeks to discreetly buy the required supplies, getting them delivered to our apartment on days he was at work. I decided that I wanted a high initial level of DD where he’d be in diapers 24/7 at home.
I decided to start on a Friday night after work. He’d known that I had been preparing for something and I started the conversation by saying my proposal was weird, reassuring him that it wouldn’t be painful/harmful and nobody else would find out but you wanted him to agree to try it for at least 6 weeks.
Although nervous he also seemed excited by the prospect and agreed. We moved to the bedroom where I told him to get undressed before I diapered him for the first time. There was a lot of objections at this stage but I talked him round and the agreement to try it for 6 weeks was helpful.
To make the shock less I started with a medical diaper which wasn’t too thick and let him wear his normal pjs over it. I left him to explore it on his own while going to make dinner. After dinner it was time to tell him all the rules, the main one was that the toilet at home was now banned and he’d be in diapers whenever he’s at home. I kept the baby elements to a minimum and said he’s have to also wear out the house sometimes but I’d make sure nobody could tell and never when he’s at work or with friends/family. I’m not going to lie and say this didn’t involve an argument, especially when he realised that no toilet meant #2 as well but we got through. We ended up watching a movie which was a good way for him to calm down.
He wet his diaper for the first time after the movie which was funny to watch as he was so nervous it was going to leak everywhere. Even though it wasn’t too wet I did change him straight away and made his change extra special too. That night he slept in a diaper for the first time.
Over the first weekend he did get more used to wearing and I allowed him to use the toilet for a bm on Saturday. Sunday however I decided to fully enforce the rules and he messed himself for the first time. I didn’t change him this time and he took a shower. There was a lot of protests again but I said it was none-negotiable. The smell did seem to be the biggest thing that bothered him so I bought some Devrom tablets which had been recommended, it took a few days for them to arrive and a few more of taking them but now his messy diapers hardly smell and the protests have stopped. I’d actually recommend you use these from day 1 to make the transition easier.
The first week was tough but we got through it and I’m happy to say we’re now 7 months in to him being in DD. Over that time I’ve moved to thicker abdl diapers, he wears onesies regularly around the house and the toilet has remained unused by him with only a few exceptions.
We both work mainly from home so I’ve gotten used to checking and changing his diaper but thick diapers + devrom has meant he generally only needs a change after waking up, sometime in the early afternoon and before bed. I’ll also let him change himself if I’m busy or cba.
The best news is after an initial rocky patch, our relationship feels stronger than ever! He proposed to me 5 months in and I can’t see his DD ending any time soon. I’ve increased elements overtime and now the toilet is banned even when out of the house together. Public wearing did take him a while to get used to but actually it’s easy.
I’m sure DD is not for everyone and is much more involved and hard work than other lifestyle changes but for creating a caring bond between you and your partner I’ve found it to be great!
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I got caught using the potty without permission and got put in a thick diaper 🫣
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It's Saturday night. All your friends are out. Partying. Drinking. Some of them will probably even get lucky, hm?
But not you, little one. You'll be lucky if I change that diaper before bedtime, won't you?
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Being denied changes is so hot.
Maybe it's because "Those diapers can hold a whole lot more. I'll change you when it's full."
Or because "Mommy is a bit busy right now, go play, and I'll see if you need to be changed later."
Or because you've been mouthing off and "I think you should try being more grateful to the person who has to change all your nasty diapers."
Or because she's still trying to potty train you and "This is what happens when we don't listen to our body. Maybe sitting in a wet diaper will show you why you need to get up and go potty."
Or just because she says so.
Or just because she put something extra in your bottle and knows your about to go again in a few minutes.
Or because of how cute you look when you're waddling around in a full diaper.
But no matter why, your warm diaper is going to grow cold long before she changes you, and you'll just have to live with sitting in a soggy, clammy diaper. Maybe you should just be grateful to mommy for putting lots of baby powder on you so you don't get a rash.
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You need to put your girlfriend back in diapers, hm? She's been having too many accidents? It's for her own good? I know, I get it. Well, before you take away her pull-ups and panties, you'd better know what new responsibilities you're signing up for...
constant diaper changes. She may be a big girl, but she still hasn't got a handle on the tapes yet (maybe next year...), so you're in charge of every single change. Morning, noon, and night. Whether you’re in the middle of dinner or halfway through a movie, you’ll have to drop everything to keep her clean and dry. Your babygirl is going to need her diaper changed 3-4 times a day, at minimum. If she has a messy accident, you need to take care of her immediately. That's a lot of cleaning and wiping and powdering and taping and adjusting. She needs your help to stay dry, and you need to be able to handle this big responsibility.
supplies. You and your girlfriend don't get to go places anymore without you packing a bag. That includes her diapers, her wipes, any baby powder you use for her, creams, a change of clothes, a changing pad, and any toys or stuffed animals she uses for distraction. You're in charge of making sure your house is stocked with enough diapers that you never run out. Traveling abroad? That means an extra suitcase just for her protection, or calling ahead and shipping to the hotel. If you forget, and run low on diapers– or worse, she leaks and you didn't bring her a change– disaster! She trusts you to keep her safe and protected, and going without diapers isn't an option for her baby bladder anymore.
frequent checks. You need to get in the habit of checking her all the time. She comes over to cuddle you in the morning? Diaper check. About to leave for an errand and putting her shoes on? Diaper check. You're alone in an elevator while you're out together? Diaper check. Quick moment in the car, before heading into your friend's house? Check. She's going to blush, or squirm, or get upset, or worried someone will see. She might whine and insist she’s dry or that she doesn’t need a change. Just be gentle and say, "Thank you for telling me!", but check her anyway. That means a gentle touch near her princess parts, slipping a hand under the waistband, or gently pulling the back of her diaper to peek inside. You need to make sure you're alone and private enough that she's not too embarrassed. If she tries to squirm away, be firm: she needs to be checked, and it's for her own good. It needs to become automatic, just like a parent and their child. You need to be sensitive that she might be embarrassed– she's not a baby anymore– but it still needs to be done, routinely.
structure. Your daily life now revolves around her schedule— wakeup, meals, diaper checks, changes, naps, bath, bedtime. Everything is going be a little bit more complicated and requires more planning when she's in diapers all the time. You need to be consistent, as her sense of security and stability will depend on these rituals.
the looks, the questions. Your babygirl is naturally going to be sensitive to prying eyes, looks from strangers, questions from friends, etc. Even if they never see her diapers, or don't notice you taking her by the hand to the family restroom, there are going to be awkward moments, or questions why she isn't going to the bathroom with the other girls. It's your job to shield her from any and all unwanted public attention, and keep her safe. That includes tucking her shirt in if you see the waistband creeping up, or excusing yourself discreetly to take care of her. She's going to feel vulnerable and embarrassed about her secret, so you need to take extra care to make sure nobody finds out. And, if they find out or start asking questions, you need to remain very calm, act normal, like it's no big deal at all. Be prepared to explain her "issues" in a very adult way to her friends, acquaintances, or the shopkeepers who need an explanation to unlock the spare room in the back. Ultimately, that'll help them understand why she needs your help in the bathroom, or why you need a few extra trash bags and access to an outdoor trash can...
diaper change tetris: Ever tried changing a diaper in a cramped public restroom, or your car’s backseat, or a train compartment, without anyone noticing? What about changing someone who isn't baby-sized anymore? Get ready. You’ll need to develop expert-level stealth skills to manage checks and changes when you’re on the go. The goal? No one even realizes what you’re doing with her.
leaks. She's going to leak at some point, it can't be helped. And I don't care how grown-up she's acting: most girls get pretty fussy and upset when they're suddenly leaking in their pants or have a big wet spot on their leggings. You need to be prepared for this; you can't go anywhere without a change of clothes for her. You need a lot of patience and caring during these leaky times, but you need to be firm: she needs to be changed, and she can't stay in wet clothes. That includes cleaning up after her, whether it's your couch, your bed, or– heaven forbid!– other people's furniture. You need to calmly explain the situation and offer to help out on her behalf. Vinegar and baking soda are your friends!
nighttime fiascos. Sometimes, you wake up in a puddle, too. Surprise! It's 2am, and her diaper leaked. It's the hour of Daddy Mode. No going back to sleep, no "dealing with it in the morning." She's wet, uncomfortable, the sheets are soaked, and you're her superhero. She's gonna need help cleaning her up, changing her, soothing her, and cuddling her back to sleep.
laundry mountain. Anyone who wets the bed can attest: you go through a lot of loads of laundry. Even if she's in diapers full-time, her clothes are going to need extra attention so she doesn't smell. Your job is to take it in stride. Be proactive about her laundry, so she doesn't ever get upset she can't wear her favorite jeans because she leaked on them last weekend. diaper rash. This one is a real concern, especially as she stays in diapers for longer periods. It's best to be proactive, and vigilant if you see any signs. She's not going to like that you're applying creams to her butt– it's not very fun– but it's for her own good. If she gets a bad rash, airing out, giving her a warm bath, etc. all help. You have to treat her rash just like you'd treat a baby's rash. mixed signals: As she loses control, she won’t always tell you when she’s wet— sometimes, she might not even realize it herself. You’ll have to read her body language— squirming in her seat, the way she hesitates before standing, or the wide, spaced out, teary eyes she gets when she starts wetting herself. Recognizing her signs and stepping in before she’s too uncomfortable is key. accidents on the changing table: This is rare, but it becomes a bigger issue as she continues to lose control. It might happen when you’re least prepared—halfway through a change, when she's just naked on the changing mat. You're busy wiping her, and you haven't put a fresh one under her. She's staring off into space, legs lifted, and doesn't even realize she's leaking. It’s your job to stay calm, wipe her down, and reassure her that it’s okay... even if she’s mortified. Those moments will test your patience, but she's clearly not at fault– it's just an accident! I recommend a spare, disposable changing pad along with her regular one, for just this occasion.
surprise messes. I don't care whether she's used to messing, or she hasn't had a messy accident in "forever 🙄" When she's in diapers full-time, it's always a possibility. Diapers are much harder to take off than pull-ups, and when she's taped up, she might delay asking to take her to the bathroom– it's "so embarrassing" to ask you to help her, especially in public– until it's too late. I've seen it happen. That's why you must always be prepared. A messy diaper needs to be treated with love and sympathy and *lots* of care. No scolding, no exasperated sighs, no frustration– even if cleaning her up temporarily derails your plans. She is going to feel very, very vulnerable, and you need to bring your A game to this delicate situation.
immaturity and fussiness. It's just part of being back in diapers– she's going to get fussy. She's going to get upset or cry at something little, she's going to get sensitive when you bring up her diapers in public, she's going to talk back sometimes, she's going to be a little clingy. Sometimes it's unavoidable. Obviously, you're going to be loving, and caring, and sweet with her, but a few tantrums or fussing is just part of having a babygirl. It's not her fault. She's looking to you for comfort, reassurance, and structure. Wouldn't you be a little fussy sometimes too if you were still in diapers at her age?
bonding: This level of care and intimacy isn’t temporary. It’s a bond that deepens with every change, every accident, and every time she looks to you for comfort. It’s about becoming everything she needs—physically, emotionally, and in every intimate detail of her life. Life is long, but be very sensitive of that bond she has with you, and she'll always be your babygirl.
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