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fangs of fortune as troubled birds part 1/2/3

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fangs of fortune as troubled birds part 1/2/3

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fangs of fortune as troubled birds part 1/2/3

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"Your love language is what you were deprived of as a child" actually no you're allowed to want, prefer and like things without everything tracing back to some dormant unprocessed trauma. You can just say you want to bounce on it without having to explain how as a child you always wanted - but never got - a trampoline.

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English added by me :)

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man. fuck my stupid baka wants and desires.

… 🚬😒💨

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the fangs of fortune end credits are so fun cos everyone is dancing more or less in character

then there's tian jiarui who's just like ᐠ( ᐛ )ᐟ

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Them

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i just think that Jiang Cheng genuinely loves Wei Wuxian a lot! but in their youth, he’s not allowed to love him bc of his parents’ relationship and his status. and after the war he’s not allowed to love him because he’s a nearly powerless leader of a sect that is starting over from scratch and wwx is an outcast. and then he’s not allowed to love him bc wwx is dead (and so is his sister and her husband and his parents and everyone he’s ever loved). and then he’s not allowed to love him bc everyone lauds jc for having killed wwx the first time (noooo that’s the thing he’s sensitive about) (and also sunk cost fallacy a little). and then he’s not allowed to love him bc he’s hated him for so long and wwx has made an enormous sacrifice for him and jc can’t admit that he’s loved wwx enough this whole time to have made the same sacrifice for him. so he’s angry instead.

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✨SPIN THE WHEEL TO GET YOUR CHARACTER✨

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'The Star Chapter: TOGETHER Concept Trailer' Behind The Scenes

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🪽. ݁₊ ⊹ ݁⋆✴︎˚｡⋆

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🌳🐈🪻

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Art by Julia Peng

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I seriously need people to understand that Penelope didn't wait for Odysseus for twenty years because social expectations dictated it, or because she was expected to be a faithful wife even untill she died.

Actually it was exactly the opposite: her father wanted her to remarry, some of the women wanted her to remarry, her son made her understand that if she took another husband and left home he wouldn't stop her. And at a certain point she recounts that before leaving for war Odysseus had told her that if he were to die, she could remarry whoever she liked (making sure first that Telemachus would take the throne without problems).

I need people to understand that Penelope's choice was entirely personal. She didn't remarry because her love for Odysseus had never abandoned her, because she knew that with no one else could she find that complete identity of thought and mind, that homophrosyne that she had with him.

It was not the choice of a woman who was modest and trapped by the expectations of her time. It was the choice of a woman who was freer and more independent than others, who preferred to remain without the protection of a man rather than resign herself to not having HER man.

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