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[wunderbud]

Finally

Finally I can speak up.

I have been dreading this for a year.

Hi. I'm Roxy, I've been dating corpserabbit for a few years, broke up with him, got guilted into getting back with him the last year, and kinda well let me explain...

So, long time ago, 2017 ish, I was on Google+ an edgy 17 year old and ran into Daniel, as I was dating another guy at the time we never really got anywhere. Fast forward 2019 we run into eachother again here on Tumblr, our relationship catches up and he reveals he's always had a crush on me. I admit the same and we started dating. Everything was wholesome and fine at first then it got... Nsfw, I admittedly started the nsfw stuff in rp once but from then on he only wanted to do nsfw stuff

and it pushed me away as well as the fact I actually met someone who actually made me so much happier in February we started dating, and didn't want nsfw rp every single time we spoke, to the point where I broke up with him. He basically badmouthed me and called me names.

The only reason I went along with the nsfw rp until April-July is because I felt an obligation, I didn't want to do nsfw with him but I didn't want to be gaslit into doing it.

Around August is where I decided to stop talking to him all together because my current boyfriend, who actually was making me so much happier, and I were getting more serious. To the point where I deleted Tumblr all together and stayed off of it because I didn't want to deal with him.

Part 2 is in a reblog soon.

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Last thing before I leave tumblr again,

Please go follow and support @foxy-glamrock-roxy, they're such a great person and they deserve all the love in the world rn!!

Thank you to everyone who supports me, I appreciate all of you so much

Fuck you daniel, I hope you rot in hell forever for what you did to us

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I agree with you that there was no way to diffuse the situation.

I agree that he's an abuser and what he did to you and the two other people was awful.

I already saw the evidence and have constantly reread it. So yeah the evidence isn't wrong.

You and the others deserve to be treated respectfully.

Yes, we do deserve respect

But that is not what we are getting from him, he is a manipulative individual with no respect for the the three of us

I'm glad you know that what he's done is awful, truly I'm very glad abt that

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I understand that you're upset that I'm calling your friend an abuser, anyone would be upset about that! But it's the truth. Your friend abused me and two other great people. There's an overwhelming amount of evidence to support that fact

Alright, no.

No offense but Daniel didn't drag me into anything, Cris.

I got involved because I wanted to try and diffuse this difficult situation so it doesn't get any worse.

Not because he, as you put it, dragged me into it.

1. Don't call me by my first name, I don't know you.

2. There was no way this was going to be diffused. He's an abuser and deserves what he got. If you can't see that by now, idk what to tell you man

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Alright, no.

No offense but Daniel didn't drag me into anything, Cris.

I got involved because I wanted to try and diffuse this difficult situation so it doesn't get any worse.

Not because he, as you put it, dragged me into it.

1. Don't call me by my first name, I don't know you.

2. There was no way this was going to be diffused. He's an abuser and deserves what he got. If you can't see that by now, idk what to tell you man

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Dan has asked me to post the document he has been working on for two weeks (January 5th, to be exact).

He needs people to hear his side of the story so that his side and the victims' side will be heard and listened to.

He is tired of people talking like they know his side of the story when they really don't.

Not to mention squish any misinformation that anybody tries to spread about this.

Don't shoot me as I am the messenger.

Take the time you need and read it.

Especially you two.

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@foxy-glamrock-roxy

Will not tag the other victim out of respect for their privacy.

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yeah. i know that, i saw your response to my friend. -daniel.

Feel bad for your friend who you dragged into this

Anyway, support victims and remember to do your daily click to support Palestine

Daily click here

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again, fair. -daniel.

Just to be clear on something

I will never accept your apology, you are not remorseful and you clearly haven't changed.

Your document was a pathetic attempt at trying to defend yourself and you wouldn't have changed it if I didn't call you out on it.

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i know

is that all?

because if not

what are the lies and things you would like me to remove from the document?

if i'm allowed to ask that is, will be going to get rid of them. -daniel.

You already made your mistakes by even putting this shit in the document. Why on earth do you think I would help you fix the doc YOU decided to make?

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alright fair

not really no

after i had them post it on here, i didn't touch it ever again. i basically forgot i made the document.

though you bringing it to my attention, yeah i probably should go back and remove that. -daniel

You should've thought about that before you posted it.

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its been a month since i asked my friend to post the document and you're only seeing it now?

but anyways yeah rereading the doc, i should've left out the belittling and the claim that you lied about me weaponizing my self harm.

again i reiterate; i handled this situation immaturely and reacted very poorly to it. -daniel

It's been a month because I wasnt on this app.

So, in the document that you took weeks to write, you decided to keep the insults and blatant lies? Did you not proofread the document you made to defend yourself?

You tried to apologize in a document where you insulted me, belittled me, and tried to claim that I lied about information against you. Did you honestly think I was going to let that slide?

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Gonna be honest, I feel like you wouldn't have accepted his apology regardless if it was good or not. No offense.

You're right, I wouldn't have even if it was good, but I would have appreciated the fact that he's grown as a person

Apologizing to me and then going on to belittle me and claim that I "wouldn't move on with my life" is not only a retraction of that apology, it just confirms it even more for me that he hasn't learned a thing.

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And one more thing, claiming that I lied about you weaponizing your self harm is such bullshit and here are the screenshots to prove you did exactly that:

Dan has asked me to post the document he has been working on for two weeks (January 5th, to be exact).

He needs people to hear his side of the story so that his side and the victims' side will be heard and listened to.

He is tired of people talking like they know his side of the story when they really don't.

Not to mention squish any misinformation that anybody tries to spread about this.

Don't shoot me as I am the messenger.

Take the time you need and read it.

Especially you two.

@wunderbud

@foxy-glamrock-roxy

Will not tag the other victim out of respect for their privacy.

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Dragging this out because I refused to move on?

You fucking ABUSED me and TWO OTHER PEOPLE. I came out because I was sick and tired of seeing you be praised while being a bastard behind the scenes. I came out because I finally had the courage to speak up, knowing that I deserve better than you, so do the other victims. You don't deserve a platform.

None of us deserved what you did to us.

When I came out, you said that if you harmed or killed yourself, it would be my fault and I called you out on that shit. What the fuck is wrong with you?

When I asked you if you had done this to more people, you said no, that I was the only one. That was a fucking lie. All you've ever done is lie to try and get away from any consequences.

Trying to insult me and bring me down in this document won't change the fact that youre an awful person. You're not sorry you did it, you're sorry you got caught.

I don't accept your apology, you're insane if you ever think I will.

Dan has asked me to post the document he has been working on for two weeks (January 5th, to be exact).

He needs people to hear his side of the story so that his side and the victims' side will be heard and listened to.

He is tired of people talking like they know his side of the story when they really don't.

Not to mention squish any misinformation that anybody tries to spread about this.

Don't shoot me as I am the messenger.

Take the time you need and read it.

Especially you two.

@wunderbud

@foxy-glamrock-roxy

Will not tag the other victim out of respect for their privacy.

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Abusers should rot in hell <3

Including my own

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And no, I won't "get over it".

I'm not a hateful or vindictive person as you've said, my bluntness is not hateful. I'm finally speaking up for myself, it's comments like these that made me hesitate for so long on coming out. I am not alone in these feelings, either.

About the corpserabbit thing, me and him had been friends for about 2 years at this point, and when I went to see how he was doing because it had been awhile since we talked I found out he deactivated, now this whole thing hurts me in two ways: first of all he was my only friend in the entire world, and I talked to him about personal stuff, and second because I can't hardly believe this actually happened, whenever we talked he was always so sweet and supportive, he never said anything inappropriate while we were friends, not saying he didn't do it, just explaining why it's so hard for me to accept, also I tried to encourage his art, so more mixed feelings about encouragement there, but because I'm a very concerned person, is he ok? Or has something else happened?

Hey there, I've seen you in my comment sections telling me about your experiences with him. I'm very glad to be able to hear your experiences with him!

BUT..

You need to understand that even if you had a positive experience with him, it won't mean that everyone else had a positive experience with him. I've seen in your comments that you believe I'm attacking him, I am not. He was weaponizing his self harm to try and get me to stop talking about him. He claims that I'm responsible for anything he does to himself, I am not responsible for him, nor will I ever be. I spoke up because of my own damage and the damage of two other people who were victims of him. That is all there is to it.

I don't know what happened to him, nor do I care really.

[wunderbud]

About the corpserabbit thing, me and him had been friends for about 2 years at this point, and when I went to see how he was doing because it had been awhile since we talked I found out he deactivated, now this whole thing hurts me in two ways: first of all he was my only friend in the entire world, and I talked to him about personal stuff, and second because I can't hardly believe this actually happened, whenever we talked he was always so sweet and supportive, he never said anything inappropriate while we were friends, not saying he didn't do it, just explaining why it's so hard for me to accept, also I tried to encourage his art, so more mixed feelings about encouragement there, but because I'm a very concerned person, is he ok? Or has something else happened?

Hey there, I've seen you in my comment sections telling me about your experiences with him. I'm very glad to be able to hear your experiences with him!

BUT..

You need to understand that even if you had a positive experience with him, it won't mean that everyone else had a positive experience with him. I've seen in your comments that you believe I'm attacking him, I am not. He was weaponizing his self harm to try and get me to stop talking about him. He claims that I'm responsible for anything he does to himself, I am not responsible for him, nor will I ever be. I spoke up because of my own damage and the damage of two other people who were victims of him. That is all there is to it.

I don't know what happened to him, nor do I care really.