withlove-blackgirl

[withlove-blackgirl]

My favourite thing to do is to listen to my favourite artist's album whilst sipping wine and dancing softly. It always turns out to be a very spiritual experience for me.

[withlove-blackgirl]

Life is unscripted!

Do your best, but go with the flow!

Stay grounded though!

Never forget who you are!

Everything will be alright!!!

[withlove-blackgirl]

My toxic trait is that I believe in myself a little bit too much. I am the perfect combination of audacity, self-awareness, and delusion... and I love it for me!!!

[withlove-blackgirl]

Every time I start to lose a bit of myself, the universe sends an old friend to remind me of how amazing I actually am, and it's just soo beautiful to hear all these tales and perceptions. It's always great to know you impacted a few peoples' lives even when it seemed like you were a bit too standoffish and weird. You know what is even greater? Them appreciating that weirdness and understanding it.

[withlove-blackgirl]

I always try to understand other people's actions from their points of view.

Like, I completely comprehend your actions and why you took them.

I can choose, though. I can choose whether or not I want such conduct in my personal space.

Would I allow this person's actions to have an impact on how I live my life? Heck no!

Consequently, I set boundaries, and would never give that person the chance to display such insanity ever again.

[withlove-blackgirl]

I fall in love with anyone who shows me their soul, especially since everyone these days is guarded and fearful of letting themselves go.

I think it's absolutely refreshing to see people who are open to loving and being loved in return.

Life shouldn't have to be that difficult.

Love shouldn't be held back.

So, To all those who are willing to be vulnerable, to love and be loved.

May the force be with you.

[withlove-blackgirl]

My vibe is different.

Everyone knows this.

I know this too.

That's why I'll never settle.

[withlove-blackgirl]

Choose your people and ensure they choose you too!

[withlove-blackgirl]

I have realised that at the end of the day, most things would be okay.

Not everything, but a good number of things.

And that sometimes, you'd put up a great fight to get what you think you deserve, but it just doesn't work out.

And sometimes you'd hold on to something really tight but you'd realise that the reasonable thing to do is let go.

And that's okay.

[withlove-blackgirl]

My super power is my ability to detach from situations that does not serve me.

It doesn't matter how much time, energy and resources I put into something.

When I come to the realisation that it's likely a waste of my effort. I will detach.

[withlove-blackgirl]

I'm the most zen person I know.

Nothing perturbs me.

Do I fully understand life and all it's complexities? or am I just a cold hearted bitch ?

[withlove-blackgirl]

When you meet a fighter, get ready to fight. Do not recite a lullaby to someone who isn't ready to sleep.

[withlove-blackgirl]

When Someone really loves you, treat them gently. Be good to the people who are good to you. It's the least you can do.

[withlove-blackgirl]

You have to chase the things that ignites you, do things that bring you joy, surround yourself with people who bring you back home to yourself-with people who respect and accept you in ways that makes you feel worthy and loved.

You have to do the work to heal yourself, especially when it hurts, so you don't continue to approach your life within the boundary of what is heavy within you.

You have to put yourself out there. You cannot rob yourself of experience or happiness or inspiration because you are scared of how you will be perceived.

You have to be unapologetic in the way you exist. You have to believe that your ideas, and your hope, and your being deserve to take up space.

You have to believe that there is a purpose for your existence, and you must be protective of that purpose. You must guard it jealously, and work towards achieving it.

You've got this.💪🏽

[withlove-blackgirl]

Happiness is in the quiet, ordinary things.

[withlove-blackgirl]

For weeks, I could feel fine, healthy and happy, and then one random morning, it suddenly feels like I'm carrying the weight of the entire world on my shoulders. It's very weird and confusing, especially when you think you are making a shit ton of progress.

[withlove-blackgirl]

I have always been an "I don't give a shit sort of person" and I sincerely do not, but all through my life, I have been surrounded by really intense people, and while I do not always understand the point of that much intensity...

I am very grateful I have these people in my life. They keep me grounded and remind me of things that are truly important.