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𝘙 𝘜 𝘣𝘶𝘮𝘱𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵?

Okay i just found out that i forgot to post this here...

(Lyrics at the beginning's credit: @Noelle from cap cut! I'll delete this if it can't be used im sry)

I just LOVE Hadley's Raoul so much like he's too hot I can't (((i miss the brat summer)

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By the way, you can improve your executive function. You can literally build it like a muscle.

Yes, even if you're neurodivergent. I don't have ADHD, but it is allegedly a thing with ADHD as well. And I am autistic, and after a bunch of nerve damage (severe enough that I was basically housebound for 6 months), I had to completely rebuild my ability to get my brain to Do Things from what felt like nearly scratch.

This is specifically from ADDitude magazine, so written specifically for ADHD (and while focused in large part on kids, also definitely includes adults and adult activities):

Here's a link on this for autism (though as an editor wow did that title need an editor lol):

Resources on this aren't great because they're mainly aimed at neurotypical therapists or parents of neurdivergent children. There's worksheets you can do that help a lot too or thought work you can do to sort of build the neuro-infrastructure for tasks.

But a lot of the stuff is just like. fun. Pulling from both the first article and my own experience:

Play games or video games where you have to make a lot of decisions. Literally go make a ton of picrews or do online dress-up dolls if you like. It helped me.

Art, especially forms of art that require patience, planning ahead, or in contrast improvisation

Listening to longform storytelling without visuals, e.g. just listening regularly to audiobooks or narrative podcasts, etc.

Meditation

Martial arts

Sports in general

Board games like chess or Catan (I actually found a big list of what board games are good for building what executive functioning skills here)

Woodworking

Cooking

If you're bad at time management play games or video games with a bunch of timers

Things can be easier. You do not have to be stuck forever.

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there’s absolutely nothing better than reading a 100k word fanfic, that is until you remember you have a body that is starving, thirsty and incredibly sleep deprived and hasn’t used the bathroom since the sun set 8 hours ago

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Okay I’m trying to track down a fic

I don’t know when it was published, but I definitely read it at least 100 times in high school so that’s going to put us at least around 2014 - it’s a Raoulstine endgame fic, but the details I remember are that Erik takes Christine away from the opera house directly after Don Juan erupts in chaos. He takes her to another town far away where they live in a house together. There’s a market nearby where someone purchases a music box (or statue, something breakable) and they get mad later and smash it. Raoul takes a crew to try and find Christine and there’s like a main guy who’s helping out Raoul and I’m fairly sure Erik ends up killing him when they finally find Christine.

It’s been bugging me to no end because I really love this fic and haven’t read it in a really long time. I also only read it on FF, but it may exist on other platforms as well

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when he says “ily” but raoul de chagny said “free her! do what you will only free her! have you no pity? i love her! does that mean nothing? i love her! show some compassion”

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𝕤𝕞𝕚𝕝𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕥𝕙𝕣𝕠𝕦𝕘𝕙 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕜𝕚𝕤𝕤....𝕚𝕥❜𝕤 𝕤𝕠>>

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I hate having a body, it’s so high maintenance! Shower this, eat that, drink this, sleep that, it’s all very stupid

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Imagine being a grown ass adult and essentially telling your friend that no they can’t go to the same restaurant they and their other friend group are going to

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lines that exist in the poto 1925 shooting script. the "he" in question is raoul, of course

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Christine: hey you guys wanna get some d-e-s-s-e-r-t

Daroga: yeah dude i need me a t-r-e-a-t

Raoul: whatchu guys talking about?

Erik: yeah why did you guys just spell desse-

Christine and Daroga: SHUT UP DON’T SAY IT

Erik: uh why?

Daroga: oh god how do we tell you this

Christine: Raoul can’t spell, so when we talk about something he wants we spell it out loud so he doesn’t get too excited

Erik: he’s a grown man, he can’t handle hearing the word treat?

Raoul: TREAT?

Daroga: NO TREAT

Raoul: TREAT?

Daroga: NO TREAT

Raoul: awww

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friendships end. relationships end. fictional man whos doing even worse than you is forever

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I've always disliked mr beast just based on his content mill vaguely exploitative vibes so it's been kind of wild learning he also does legitimate crimes and workplace violations. it's like disliking an acquaintance because they're kinda annoying and then finding out they kill people too like damn dude you didn't have to do all that i already hated your ass.

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No one understands me. Not like fictional men do

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My OG fandom, The Phantom of the Opera. Saw they were going on tour 2025 and I am SO EXCITED.

Fun fact: I became an artist because of PoTO! I watched the movie when I was 12, then the 25th Anniversary, and was so inspired I decided to draw the phantom. Ive been drawing ever since.