wetookoutallherteeth - Tumblr blog

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we really devolved as a society when we stopped using fully painted pictures on romance novels and started using cheap photoshop instead 

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chappell roan, "red wine supernova"

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I’ve been waiting a year to post this

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Surreal.

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Sooooo ummmmmmm this is something that's probably going to piss a lot of people off, but I feel like I really need to say it.

If you get a message from an account claiming to be a Palestinian fundraiser, it is a bot. It is a scam. You need to report & delete the message and encourage others to do the same.

I know because I get messages on this account DAILY. I have a very high follower count and I'm pretty active and I interact with my followers a lot, and apparently that all adds up to one big bot magnet.

Bots following and messaging this account was a MASSIVE problem before Tumblr fixed its new account policies. I used to spend literally hours blocking and reporting the hundreds of bots that I would get following me each day.

I learned a lot about bots and how to identify them. The easiest way is with no avatar, "untitled" in the blog description (BTW if your avatar is still set to default PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD change it because you run a substantial risk of being accidentally blocked & reported as a bot).

One of the dead give aways of a bot was what I call "word salad" names. Three seemingly random words strung together making no sense, always adjective, adjective or noun, noun. If you reported a lot of these bots, you'd notice the same words kept showing up.

Nowadays, I am bombarded with fundraiser requests and sometimes, they don't even bother to hide the fact that they're a bot. The avatar is default, the blog title is "untitled," and the blog name is a classic randomly-generated word salad.

However MOST of the requests I get come from at least semi-legit looking accounts. There are pictures, a name, a story. Never mind that I've gotten that message three times from different accounts.

Sometimes, they claim to be vetted, but the whole vetting system essentially adds up to "trust me bro." There is no way of guaranteeing that this account isn't just lying about being vetted, claiming to be vetted by a false person, or are using the identity of a real Palestinian to scam people.

Previously, I've seen a lot of people getting attacked for raising questions about these fundraisers and getting attacked for being racist or for harming Palestinian families in danger, like Tumblr isn't a website famous for its scams and the words "The Arkh Project" "All or Nothing" or "Miss Officer and Mr. Truffles" mean nothing to you.

I personally have been scammed by people claiming to be charities on Tumblr before, specifically, The Leelah Project which used the name of a trans teenager who died by suicide to swindle people out of their money.

Luckily, there are actual, respected charities out there you can give money to if you want to help the cause:

Palestinian Children's Relief Fund

Palestine Red Crescent Society

United Nations Relief Works Agency

Islamic Relief

World Central Kitchen

Médecins Sans Frontièrs

One of the hardest things to accept about the situation in Palestine is that realistically, there is very little that your average outsider can do to change it. However, these large, well-respected and trustworthy charities are out there doing the hard work to keep people alive, and should be where the donation money is going

These scam bots feed on people's naïvety and need to believe that they are making a difference, and even worse, feed on the fear that by ignoring them, it somehow makes you a racist doing direct harm to a refugee family, when in fact they are using the suffering of Palestinians to take away money from those in need.

As far as fundraisers that don't send out random asks for donations, I honestly don't know. You'll have to do the work yourself and approach with much caution.

Be careful out there.

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A gay man just told me he gets more dicks than me because he's prettier than me even as a boy, I said I don't like men and he called me a "lesbo". Must be that good old LGB solidarity I hear so much about. A man is a man is a man.

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pornhub: haha we’re “plowing” the streets, gettit! for women’s day watch this video of a woman deepthroating until she vomits. feminism!

you all: wow! chaotic good lol

sniper on the roof: i have the shot

me: take it.

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Long live the lesbians! (x)

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proudly smug4smug I ♥️ dyke arrogance

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#giselepelicot is rewriting the script on sexual shame. Rather than allow her dozens of rapists to be tried in private, she has forced them into the public spotlight so that other women might be safer in future. The shame is theirs, not hers. Gisele Pelicot is a hero.

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GET TO KNOW ME MEME ♡ bands → FLORENCE + THE MACHINE

“Sometimes I find that music is so much more attractive than love. I don’t know… It’s like some kind of euphoria, that love can’t bring to you.”

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Someone should introduce genderists to the fabulous distinction between necessary and sufficient before they continue to whine about lesbians being genital fetishists. 

I am a lesbian. It means that in order for me to be attracted by someone, that someone has to be of the female sex. This is a necessary condition. 

BUT. 

It is in no way a sufficient condition. I can’t be attracted to a woman solely because she is female. I need plenty of other things. 

Just because something is a requisite doesn’t mean one doesn’t look farther than that. And having requisites doesn’t make you a fetishist, it is merely proof that you are human ; everyone has boundaries, and everyone should be able to express them freely.

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one less temptress, one less dagger to sharpen

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Saw this on Pinterest. I don't know the credits (+ the post did not have on OP), if you do please tell me!

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there is NEVER a WRONG or BAD REASON to reject somebody. saying "NO" can NEVER make you a bad person or a bigot. harassing somebody for having sexual boundaries puts you on the side of RAPISTS.

I better not see any "but-" or "well-" or i'll go ballistic on your PRO-RAPIST ANTI-BOUNDARIES ASS

if you can't say "no means no, even if he identifies as a yes" then you're pro rape.

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