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22, Male, USA, Married (Check my Little @PrincessSassyFace), Metal Head, Vape Faggot, Daddy Dom, et cetera. 18+ followers only, blog content will be NSFW at times and I don't want little kids crying about it. I'm pretty approachable, so send a message or whatever if you want.
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vulgariuminc-blog · 8 years ago
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If you're becoming a daddy dom, here are a few tips for your DD/lg relationship
I’m writing this post because I know there are a lot of new daddies. I am a little and I have been in DD/lg relationships before. But my current daddy is a newbie to the whole dynamic. So this post is just a few things that you can do for your little!
1. Hold her hand while crossing the street, watching a scary movie or…just because.
2. Leave loving notes all over the place to surprise and delight your littles’ heart.
3. Brush her hair, help her bathe (bubble baths preferably), treat her stuffed animals like living creatures and talk with them.
4. Know all her stuffies’ names.
5. Punish misbehavior with time outs, spankings and occasionally make her write out an apology or things like “I won’t sneak a cookie before dinner” (50 times is good).
6. Take her to fun places that appeal to her inner little. Places like the zoo, a kids movie, build-a-bear, the swings at the park, an aquarium, or of course, the Disney store.
7. Reward good behavior with treats and kind words of encouragement.
8. Never lose your temper just because you are having a “bad day”.
9. Know all of her favorite foods, allergies, and all of her favorite things; whether it be color, hair bows, dress, or stuffies.
10. Bedtime routines. If you’re going to do something, make sure (if circumstances allow) that you do it everyday without fail. If you stop doing something you always did before, it makes the little feel as though they’ve done something wrong to lose that treat. Examples: brushing her hair, reading her a story, or just tucking her in at night.
11. A good Daddy Dom does not make idle threats. If you threaten a consequence for a certain behavior you are looking to change, and do not carry through, not only will the little not learn to break the habit, but they will take your threats with a grain of salt. Also, it may make the little feel unimportant if a consequence is not followed through with.
12. Always spend time reassuring your little of your love after a consequence. They need this assurance, and the knowledge that you still love and care for them. Aftercare is incredibly important. After all…this relationship is built upon trust.
13. Send your little a text message (or many) throughout the day if you must be apart. It warms their little heart!
14. Surprise her with a new stuffie from time to time. Maybe if they are down or are sick. Flowers and a stuffie is sure to brighten her/his day.
15. Watch a Disney movie of her choosing with her. And it doesn’t hurt to know her favorite one…and all the songs from it. Mine is Tarzan or Wreck it Ralph… in fact… they’re all my favourite.
16. All boo-boos, whether scratches, bruises and scrapes need to be looked after by her Daddy. Nothing makes a little feel safer and totally cared for than having a feel-better kiss, or their Daddy getting them a cool band-aid (Hello Kitty works well). Be sure to lavish them with lots of TLC!
17. If your little makes you something: no matter how big or small, you should always make them feel like their creation is cherished. Hang it up, save a pic on your phone so they see you like it and plan to look back at it…anything at all. Nothing is sadder than a pretty picture, colored with love and care, that is left sitting and collecting dust, and then forgotten.
18. If your little is in a playful, youthful mood (and you are not), do not roll your eyes, get mad or yell. Simply and calmly tell them that Daddy is not feeling playful right now. Everyone can’t be fun and playful all the time. Littles understand that…even if upset about it at times. So tell them, and that way no one’s feelings get hurt, or feels like they did something wrong.
19. Aid the age play dynamic. Do such things as carrying, lifting, and reaching high places for your little. It helps them feel as though they are seen as vulnerable and protected. Also, asking things like, “Are you sure you don’t need Daddy’s help putting that straw in the juice box?”, or “Maybe I should do that, it’s a big job, too big for you.” It keeps the little feeling happy and loved.
20. Ask your little to sit on your lap from time to time. It’s an instant smile and a blush trigger. Other things also work like tying their shoes, brushing their hair or buckling their seatbelt.
These are all simple and spontaneous things that you can do to make your little beam with pride from the attention given to them.
Have a magical, sparkly day! From - Daddy’s Princess.
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Things to do when you’re fighting with your Caregiver
TeWhether it’s a big argument, or a small disagreement, no one likes fighting with their CG. This list is going to focus on not only healthy ways to handle arguments, but also self-care tips for when you’re feeling your worst after or during an argument.
During an Argument
Talking
Sometimes, arguments can get overheated and talking turns in to yelling. When this happens, take a deep breath, and pause for a moment. Think out exactly what you want to say, and then make sure you mean it. Say things as calmly as you can, and if you’re struggling with how to say things, use “I feel…” statements. Instead of sounding accusatory, “I feel” statements express your emotions in a non-threatening way. To use them, fill in the blanks in this sentence: “I feel__________when you__________.” If you can’t seem to calm down, or can’t gather your words properly, it’s okay to walk away from it for a while and take a breather.
Body Language
It can seem very scary or threatening when you or the person you’re fighting with is thrashing their arms, or getting in the other’s face. The best forms of body language in an argument are subtle and have a point. Instead of making sudden, quick arm movements, stomping, or getting very close to your partner in a threatening manner; practice being gentle. If you’re argument is about an object or a person/pet, gesture to the object/person/animal slowly, and with meaning. If you’re both heated, keep some distance. If you’re trying to calm your CG, use slow and soft touch. Simple and gentle is key
Control
During arguments, lots of us say and do things we don’t mean to. It’s important to learn how to control yourself, and help your partner to control themselves. The best way to do this is by thinking over everything more than you would normally. If you feel yourself getting upset, take a deep breath, and decide how you want things to go. Don’t deviate. If you decide you’re going to address X, Y, and Z, make sure you address them, and do so with as much self-control as you can. If you are unable to control your words or your actions, WALK AWAY, and if you or your partner are physically violent, please SEEK HELP. If you feel you’re being abused, please, call one of the numbers below or see help from another facility in your area.
1(800)799-7233 National Domestic Violence Hotline
(706)379-3000 S.A.F.E. Services, USA
0808-2000-247 Women’s Aid, UK
1(866)331-8453 Love Is Respect
Text “Go” to 741-741 Crisis Text Line
After an Argument/During a Break from an Argument
Self Care
As much as you might wanna run to your CG and do everything you can to appease them, it’s important that you care about YOU, too. Arguing and fighting is never fun, and it matters just as much how you feel as how they do. Some of my favorite ways to care for myself after an argument are…
~Baths with lots of bubbles
~Watching Happy Movies
~Drinking Hot Tea
~Drawing or Coloring
~Practicing Mindfulness
~Going on Walks
These are only a few of so many! Think of your own and add to my list.
Caring for your Partner
After you’re feeling a little better, you may decide that you want to care for your partner. It can be difficult to do if you’re still arguing, but before you revisit or before you can feel happy again as a couple, you BOTH need to be in a better mindset than before. Some good ways to help care for your partner include…
~Talking with Them About How They Feel
~Rubbing Their Back or Feet
~Eating a Meal with Them
~Snuggling
~Drawing/Coloring/Writing for Them
If you feel like you’re still not ready to comfort them, it’s okay. You have to worry about YOU, first. Don’t abandon your partner, but don’t beat yourself up if you’re not yet able to feel okay enough to devote your time to just them, and don’t feel bad if you need them to care for you, too.
Revisiting an Argument
If you need to revisit the issue that caused your argument, you can take steps to make sure it’s don in a healthy manner. 
Planning
One of the best ways I’ve found to healthily assess issues is to make a mental(or physcial!) agenda. Write down every problem you’re having, and let your CG do the same. It’s not weird or neurotic to list and plan, it can be very helpful.
Managing Emotions
Even a month of planning may not prepare you for addressing the issue at hand, so it’s a good idea to practice deep breathing, thinking before doing, and caring for yourself. You should also ingrain in yourself that you never need to feel bad for having emotions, and as I’ve said before, IT IS ALWAYS OKAY TO WALK AWAY IF YOU NEED TO.
Arguments are a hard part of relationships, but you can get through them healthily.
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vulgariuminc-blog · 8 years ago
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Always, always, ALWAYS take care of your little. Never take a bad day out on them, never neglect them, never ignore them, and never ever ever treat them like they are an annoyance. because it hurts so so much when you do. SOOOOOO insteaaaaad shower them with all of your love and show them just how big of a cutesy they are.
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vulgariuminc-blog · 8 years ago
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Dirty Talk with Littles
CG: I'm gonna buy you those crayons
Me: *groans* With the built in pencil sharpener?
CG: Oh yeah, the Crayola ultimate collection with carrying case AND sharpener!
Me: *moans* Tell me about all the colors!
CG: Macaroni and cheese yellow! Mango pink! Purple mountains majesty!
Me: *screams*
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@princesssassyface they stole your idea
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🌋🎆🎇 V A P E N A T I O N 🚭🌎💨
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Northlane / In Hearts Wake - Equinox EP  [546 | 600] Green Splatter.
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The Amity Affliction ❤
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Will you miss me when I’m gone?
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However You Want It Said by Beartooth
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Burnout / Beartooth
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Beartooth ❤
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Beartooth // Aggressive
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vulgariuminc-blog · 8 years ago
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Stay away from doms that use attention depravation as a punishment. Stay away from doms who try to keep you in little space all the time. Stay away from doms that only care about you while you’re in little space. Stay away from doms that won’t let you leave. Stay away from doms that won’t let you safe word. Stay away from doms who believe an okay punishment is not allowed to safe word. Stay away from doms that push you to uncomfortable limits. Stay away from doms who won’t acknowledge or respect your limits. Stay away from doms who say you can only be little if you’re X, Y, or Z. Stay away from doms who don’t believe boys can be littles. Stay away from doms that are manipulative. Stay away from doms that make you do things you’re not okay with. Stay away from doms who hit you without consent.
Don’t let other people belittle you. There are so many people out there that say they are a Daddy/Mommy/CG but are toxic individuals. Red flags may not show up right away but always be careful and break away from anyone unsafe. Be careful out there xx
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vulgariuminc-blog · 8 years ago
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Schecter has like... never put out a bass that wasn't sexy as fuck
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Schecter Diamond Series Stiletto Studio-5 Black Transparent 5 String Bass w/ Hardshell Case - $799 - for sale on REVERB.com
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Shecter ❤❤
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Schecter Stiletto Sam Bettley Signature Bass guitar. Seymour Duncan!
Rare to come across in the UK it seems! Sam Bettley of Asking Alexandria released a signature bass with Schecter last year, it’s the first Schecter I’ve seen to sport a Seymour Duncan MM pickup, and boy does this thing not only look awesome, it thunders too. So here’s the spec taken from Schecter:
Guitar Colours: Satin Black w/Red Wood Grain (SBK/RED) Dexterity: Right Handed Country of Origin: South Korea Construction: 6 Bolt-on Body Material: Swamp Ash Top Contour: Flat Top Binding: Red 1-ply Neck Material: Maple Fretboard Material: Ebony Inlays: Red ‘Pence’ Scale: 34” (863mm) Frets: 22 Narrow X-Jumbo Fretboard Radius: 12” (305mm) Neck Shape: ‘C’ Thickness: @ 1st Fret- .826” (21mm)/ @ 12th Fret- .905” (23mm) Nut Width: 1.653” (42mm) Nut: Graph Tech XL Black Tusq Truss Rod: 2-Way Adjustable Rod w/ 5/32” (4mm) Allen Nut Bridge Pickup: Seymour Duncan MM SMB-4D Controls: Volume/ Active Seymour Duncan 2-Band 'STC-2S-B0’ EQ Battery Compartment: 9-volt Clip-in Battery Compartment Hardware Color: Black Bridge: Schecter Custom Bass String Thru (or Top Load) Tuners: Grover Bass 144 Series Knobs: Metal Knurled w/ Set Screw Strings:Ernie Ball 4 String Super Long #2849 (.045-.105)
This really is an awesome bass, nice low action and plays beautifully, the ebony board just makes playing the nice slim satin neck addictive. The electronics really do bring out that proper growl and low end you find in a lot of Stingray basses, but I’ve also played melodic solo’s on this and it just sings, right amount of treble control and right amount of bass. Simple.
Unfortunately however financial situations change and needs amust. This bass is in brand new condition apart from a slight dint on the top of the headstock (pictured) which is not at all noticeable. I’m open to trades. Please don’t hesitate to drop me an email and make me a cash offer.
Available for collection in Staffordshire England for £450
Cheers!
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