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if you moralize to people in the global south about piracy youre going to hell btw. no atonement no take backsies. guaranteed hell forever permanently.

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people are gonna listen to me if i put lain iwakura in the background right. am i doing this correctly

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Only day you can reblog this

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TPoH: Update!

Read the new TPoH Update here!

Read TPoH from the start here.

Have you still not got your cute cosy Assok socks, or a dazzling butterfly pin? Head on down to Topatoco town and introduce yourself to my store for books, shirts, stickers and more! Oh, and you can always support me on patreon for little extras

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If you don't know click the link to find out what yours is (I'm not 100% sure how accurate Wikipedia is though)

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BE MAD BE SAD BUT DONT U DARE GIVE UP

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day 6 / ???

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I'm absolutely losing my mind seeing "We need to not treat men and masculinity as inherently evil and worthy of hatred, and not fall back into biological and gender essentialism because that hurts everyone, including trans women" being misinterpreted as "Women need to stop oppressing men", "I think trans women are actually men" or "You specifically who have trauma around men need to get over it because men are the real victims". It's so willfully disingenuous. It makes me sick how willing people are to read in bad faith, especially how willing other trans women are to suddenly start harassing and dogpiling another trans woman.

I am a trans woman too, I understand what it's like to feel unsafe, but it helps no one this cynical attitude that crops up every time someone suggests being kind to men in our lives. "You could save a man you know from falling down the alt-right pipeline" is not the same as "It's your fault that men murder you". "There are people who could be on our side if we don't meet them with immediate hostility" is not the same as "You need to shut up and stop criticizing power structures for the sake of your oppressors' feelings" (I promise there are a lot of people who can be taught about their complicity in oppression without immediately shutting down but you need to work with them). This kind of attitude isn't somehow more informed or correct. It's just lashing out to avoid considering one's own agency.

Making a better, safer world for ourselves requires all kinds of work, but it's always work. It's hard to try to reach out to people who could very realistically harm us, it's work that not all of us can afford to or are able to do and that's fine because we're all just trying to survive. But some of you would rather condescend, tear each other down, and make more enemies before even considering it a possibility.

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the "canon isn't real we make our own rules" to "i am begging you people to revisit the source material" pipeline

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i love how everyone on this website interacts with each other in ways that are so socially impermissible irl. how did we get here

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stop what you’re doing and watch this

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so glad all of us not on tiktok have developed mentally enough for stuff like confessions of a rotten girl to drop bc while i never knew the term fujoshi back in the time stuff like yaoi and things like that was my cozy corner to discovering my gender and sexuality. its kind of awesome even if u DO come out the other end still a straight cis girl. yaoi and yuri is awesome actually