twentyonepigons-blog-blog

[twentyonepigons-blog-blog]

[twentyonepigons-blog-blog]

7 Childhood Issues that Affect our Later Relationships

1. Threats and fear of abandonment. These can lead to jealousy and feelings of insecurity.

2. Lack of emotional nurturing. This can lead to feelings of emotional deprivation – which can feel like a bottomless pit to fill.

3. Growing up with feelings of entitlement. This can lead to feeling as if you don’t have to live by the same rules as others – as you are special, and a bit superior.

4. Being told that you’re inferior or inadequate. This causes you feel like you’re never good enough.

5. The demand to be perfect, and to always get things right. This can leading to being driven – and incredibly high standards.

6. Being betrayed by those you trusted – so you won’t trust now, and you can’t get close to others, or let them get close to you.

7. Being raised is a way that your needs were denied, not allowed, disregarded, trivialised or ignored. This can lead to a doormat type of personality where other people matter – and your needs never count.

[twentyonepigons-blog-blog]

[twentyonepigons-blog-blog]

My favorite kind of villains are the ones that you can understand. Not agree with, not like, but understand. You’re frightened by their actions in a really visceral way because you realize that, in the wrong circumstances, you might become a monster too.

The scariest type of monsters are the ones that seem human and familiar. 

[twentyonepigons-blog-blog]

WHY IS THERE A GIANT BENEDICT MADE OF CHOCOLATE

[twentyonepigons-blog-blog]

Dear Trans Men

Dear Trans men, 

You’re not less of a man if you cry. You’re not less of a man if you show your emotions. You’re not less of a man for having smaller arms. You’re not less of a man for loving yourself. You’re not less of a man for showing love. You’re not less of a man for treating your partner with respect and showing them how much they mean to you. You’re not less of a man for liking makeup. You’re not less of a man for not having facial or body hair. You’re not less of a man for having a higher pitched voiced. You’re not less of a man for being compassionate. You’re not less of a man for being who you are and displaying that person. You’re not less of a man for expressing your soul, and wanting to be loved. You are not less of a man for anything you do in this life. You are who you are, don’t try and change yourself for other people. Be who you are and trust yourself. 

[twentyonepigons-blog-blog]

hi so i was off tumblr for a while (at least my tumblr account) but i guess im going to start using my one again instead of sometimes using scene-monarch and stealing Nates blog

[twentyonepigons-blog-blog]

hey guys, the krusty krab 2 opens today!

[twentyonepigons-blog-blog]

How long does an owl live?

[twentyonepigons-blog-blog]

Hey!

Before you get all pissy about seeing a “straight couple” kissing at an LGBT+ event, keep in mind that:

one or both of them could be bi and still feel attatched to the LGBTQ+ community

one or both of them could be pan and still feel attatched to the LGBTQ+ community

one or both of them could be transgender and are there because hey that’s what the T stands for

one or both of them could be agender or another form of genderqueer

Thank you!!

[twentyonepigons-blog-blog]

i’m so disgrunkled right now

[twentyonepigons-blog-blog]

travie mccoy is so important travie mccoy ain’t never done a thing to hurt nobody he’s just a cool dude who likes doing his music and his art and chilling out god bless travie mccoy

[twentyonepigons-blog-blog]

It's good to see that my dad is ok

[twentyonepigons-blog-blog]

my parents where on holiday up the coast when cyclone Marcia hit and i was pretty worried about them and the rest of my family then i find this article http://www.news.com.au/technology/environment/mick-burrows-has-his-50th-birthday-party-wrecked-by-cyclone-marcia/story-e6frflp0-1227233492181

good to see my family is alright...

[twentyonepigons-blog-blog]

I AM TOO

my boyfriend stole my phone charger and hid it in his beard„,

[twentyonepigons-blog-blog]

So You Want To Make A Kickass Family History?

Family Echo: Online family tree maker

Relationship Terms: Definitions for relationships between family members

Heraldry Techniques:  Tips on creating a coat of arms

Heraldry Glossary: Terms used in heraldry

Motto Generator: Generator that lets you create various mottos