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The ease of nudity in Finland is something I'm super jealous of, I think it also promotes people being comfortable in their own body, if body's aren't so sexualized and taboo. The only bodies i really saw were in movies, and indeed kids changing on the beach or baby's in diapers. I'm not even from the USA, the Netherlands, so close yet so different!
I think you're right - while I have of course met Finns who are deeply uncomfortable in their own bodies and unhappy about being seen, the absolutely constant, default, "this is considered healthy actually" cultural background radiation of "nudity is always a precursor to sex! nudity is always a precursor to sex!" in many other places does really do a special kind of damage to people's psyche.
I always think of one of my co-workers at a husky farm near Inari, who told me apropos of nothing while we were clearing out dog shit together that he thought the reason Americans are "like that" ("like what, Veikka" got the response "you know what I mean") is because "they never see their grandma's tits." His logic was that "in Finland, you go to the sauna with your grandma from when you're a baby, and you see her naked, and this is years and years before you ever see any porn, so you know before you see any of it that it's temporary and fake. And when you get a girlfriend later, you know it's only a matter of time before her tits look like that too, you accept this. And Americans don't know that! They don't! They look at porn, and then they get a wife, and then they're surprised and bitter when she gets old - it's true!"
Like, to be clear, I think Veikka's analysis might have been missing more than a bit of nuance, this is the same guy whose motto was "Driving 600km south to Rovaniemi to get therapy is expensive, chopping wood till you don't care about it anymore is free", but I do occasionally still look at some British or American take online and think to myself, in his voice, "they've never seen their grandma's tits"
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tumblr discourse after 13 years on this fucking website
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i appreciate the content warnings and understand their importance but i can’t help but giggle a little bit when i click on a fnaf fic and half the chapters have child death warnings in their notes. sir this is the Child Death Game i think i know what i’m signing up for
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it’s crazy that we have to pretend people are oppressed for being skinny now or everyone gets mad at you and says “woooowwww it’s all body positivity until it’s a skinny person”. does anyone else think this. just saw someone saying they’re making a “skinny positive community” and everyone is hyping her . is this real life
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No joke this vine has a better understanding of transmisogyny than 40% of this website
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Songs by the band Leevi and the Leavings, in no specific order:
Man getting drunk alone makes an unwelcome midnight phone call to a woman he hasn't seen for years/decades. She still doesn't want him.
I have purchased a new pair of fancy fashionable trousers and now everyone can see how fashionable I am.
Country boy fell in love with a city girl, and rides to the city to try to find her. People are laughing at his horse.
This sweet, adorable little baby girl looks remarkably like the man living in the apartment downstairs but let's ignore that for now.
No time for romance, look at how many cool home appliances we have now.
1980s rural LGBT youth who has no words for who and what they are, and is only painfully aware of their own ambiguous, undefined queerness, can no longer stand the oppressive, small-minded judgement of their hometown and must leave it all behind.
I am drunk on Christmas.
Everyone in this office wants me carnally.
Big muscle mommy does whatever she wants with me.
A couple buys the house of their dreams, only to discover that the house is rotting and there are no jobs around, and their dream life is devoured in the grinding jaws of poverty.
I am going back to North Karelia, to drink beer in sweatpants while watching the sun rise.
This dude keeps crashing his car because he wants to be a rally driver.
Overcome by hopelessness of their financial situation, a married couple decides to commit double-suicide and take their kids with them.
I am a normal man who wears normal pants.
I regret not telling that spectacularly fat woman how badly I wanted to fuck her.
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Songs by the band Leevi and the Leavings, in no specific order:
Man getting drunk alone makes an unwelcome midnight phone call to a woman he hasn't seen for years/decades. She still doesn't want him.
I have purchased a new pair of fancy fashionable trousers and now everyone can see how fashionable I am.
Country boy fell in love with a city girl, and rides to the city to try to find her. People are laughing at his horse.
This sweet, adorable little baby girl looks remarkably like the man living in the apartment downstairs but let's ignore that for now.
No time for romance, look at how many cool home appliances we have now.
1980s rural LGBT youth who has no words for who and what they are, and is only painfully aware of their own ambiguous, undefined queerness, can no longer stand the oppressive, small-minded judgement of their hometown and must leave it all behind.
I am drunk on Christmas.
Everyone in this office wants me carnally.
Big muscle mommy does whatever she wants with me.
A couple buys the house of their dreams, only to discover that the house is rotting and there are no jobs around, and their dream life is devoured in the grinding jaws of poverty.
I am going back to North Karelia, to drink beer in sweatpants while watching the sun rise.
This dude keeps crashing his car because he wants to be a rally driver.
Overcome by hopelessness of their financial situation, a married couple decides to commit double-suicide and take their kids with them.
I am a normal man who wears normal pants.
I regret not telling that spectacularly fat woman how badly I wanted to fuck her.
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