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I really love this. I tell people that all of the time. I have many talents but mind reading isn't one of them. I need you to tell me what you are thinking or feeling so I can correct whatever the issue is.

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Someone want to explain what is "mammalian instinct"? Mammals have multiple instincts - parental, social (group behavior), diving reflex and nesting. Which one kicks in for Megsy? The woman is not intelligent at all and just throws words together because she thinks they sound intelligent. Talk about foolish and embarrassing.

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The cutest thing ever!

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Harry's comment about Mary Tillman and how he respected her and then he drags up Diana was the most awful thing he could have done, in my eyes. But he didn't stop there...oh no. He made those vets stand on stage as his props to protect him. Harry is disgusting. Let him cry. No one feels bad for him.

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Harold and Meagain at the ESPYs. Didn't even appear on the red carpet due to backlash. I'd hardly say this was a happy occasion for them. Tillman's mother's statement must have been a damning blow to their egos. These two grifters really are being called out right and left by everything and everyone. I was listening to Sirius XM and the topic of Harry and this award came up. The announcer was begging the listeners to keep in mind the award was for Invictus and not so much for Harry. Folks, it is bad. These two are being slammed. Both of them looked unhappy and appear to have lost weight. I'm sure their silly plans haven't worked as well as they had planned and serious trouble is in their future. Anyone else sick to death about his insistence on bringing up (AKA dining out on) Princess Diana? I'm sorry I ever heard about her. All Harry is now known for is "I'm Princess Diana's son and she died when I was 12 and I had to walk behind her casket and I haven't moved on". Goodness, that's all we hear....much like ILBW's class project about dishwashing soap. They are both still 12!

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I didn't watch the debate. I just couldn't bear it. What I'm reading and the few clips I've seen have me appalled. These are our choices? Does anyone else feel like our voices have been cut out? Who actually decided on these two? By the time the primaries came to our state, the decision was finished. Why?

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Catherine returns and TW puts out raspberry jam and dog biscuits.

The choice of raspberry isn't accidental. The term raspberry means more than the fruit. It also describes the action of sticking out your tongue and making that annoying sound. Notice there are only 2 jars? In the States, strawberry and grape are the two top flavors. Raspberry is third but now that it is summer time, it is peach season.

Dog biscuits? I have no words.

So, so predictable and today, a total bust. Catherine's return is even being carried on my local station.

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I don't know Princess Catherine and will never meet her but her return, even if for a day, is such solace in a world filled with such chaos. I wish I knew why I feel this way but I do. And here we are.

The Princess of Wales has issued a moving personal message thanking people for their support during her ongoing cancer battle, revealing she will attend Trooping the Colour with her children || 14 JUNE 2024

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This weekend I watched one of my favorite movies "On the Basis of Sex" which is about the first case which the late Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsberg tried. It concerned the tax law at the time where a caregiver's credit could be given only if the caregiver was a woman. Her client was an unmarried man who cared for his mother. The movie really highlights how women's rights in the US during the late 60s and 70s were still so oppressive. I didn't know that women couldn't open a credit card unless their husband agreed and signed her up for one. That changed in 1975. Women couldn't work OT in Oregon. Females in the military had to serve longer than men for their retirement packages. Columbia University finally started admitting women in 1981. Most Ivy league schools had separate schools for women with a more "appropriate" (whatever that means) curriculum. The ERA (Equal Rights Amendment) was never ratified. The Pill could only be prescribed to married women, at first, because to prescribe it to single women would encourage prostitution and promiscuity. Those laws were struck down in 1972...52 years ago. I remember when teachers had to quit teaching when they became pregnant and began to show because it showed they were having sex and children might be led astray. I remember in 1st grade an announcement came on one afternoon and it was decided that girls could start wearing pants to school. I was so happy! It meant I didn't freeze in the winter and didn't have to worry about some stupid boy flipping up my dress to try and see my underwear. I always wore shorts underneath my skirt for protection. Why should girls have to wear such items? Maybe that's why I don't like to wear dresses to this day. To me, they were and still are a sign of oppression. Some jobs required that women quit working when they got married.

My daughter and granddaughter, fortunately, did not grow up in such a world. They have always known they could go to college, aspire to do what they want, get the proper medication for birth control without having to be "married", and have the vote. I hope we are not moving backwards in this country. I am so afraid but I do have hope. What is it about women and women's bodies which drives this fight for us? Why has it been so difficult for us to just control our own bodies and destinies? Most Americans don't seem to feel the same way about women and women's rights as they did in the 1970s and if my grand daughter's attitude is anything to go one, these young women have loud strong voices and opinions about the rights they have known their whole lives. That gives me hope.

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This year is one of the milestone years - I turn the big 60. I find it fairly liberating, to be honest. I'm nearing the end of my professional career but I'm already looking forward to my next thing to do. Do I go back and teach a couple of years? Do I work freelance and at home on a few projects here and there using my Master's degree which I will earn this year at the age of 60? Do I travel some? Had a fabulous 4 night cruise with the granddaughter to the Caribbean. One of my "bucket list" things. I feel like my life is new and my own again. Don't let a number get to you and stop your dreams. Every day is a gift.

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High functioning anxiety people suffer with the burden of feeling like they always have to be perfect or have to "be on" all of the time. Most of this comes from childhood drama where they learned that this is the only way to get attention or love. Often it is a sign of self esteem issues as well. It takes a lot of work to unlearn this harmful anxiety.

Women With PTSD United

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Narcs will do everything they can to take all of this from you. It is ridiculous that we still have to send out such information to women in this day and time.

The most important thing a woman can have (and so a woman's greatest goal) is freedom. The freedom to a) walk away unscathed b) experience life as she wants and c) her time. These are the 3 pillars to a good life. To achieve this, one must invest in five aspects of life;

Financial freedom. Money is the resource that helps you get other resources. In a capitalist society, money is the currency for life. Your main goal right now should be to build 2 years worth of an emergency fund, nothing else. If you have financial freedom you can walk away . A lot of women are trapped in toxic and abusive households and marriages and neighborhoods and workspaces simply because they don't have enough money to support life if they walk away. You must have enough money to walk away and not feel the burnt of it, and that is two years worth of emergency funds and a lifetime supply of passive income. Use the internet it's 2024 you don't need spoonfeeding. Oh and SET UP AN IRA.

Health. Nothing can replace being healthy nothing. Nothiiiing. You can not have freedom if you're not healthy. Health is a part of independence. You must start viewing your gym, organic foods, supplements, check ups, OBGYN, nutritionists and health scans as investments- and the greatest ones too. Your body is your home and your medium of existence. Invest heavily into it. Do not poison it, do not let random people into it, worship it. Incest in Healthcare, you could easily be one accident away from being dependent on someone- and you need to know you'll get Healthcare whether they chip in or not. Health insurance that covers as much as need covering is self love. Healthy eating is self love. Exercise is self love. HEALTH and HEALTHCARE is self love- don't you ever play with this.

Wordly knowledge. In my home country we have 'village girls' as a term for the little girls from the village that move to the city and get used abused trampled over doormatted left right centre simply because they have no worldly knowledge. Street smarts is smarts. Watch the news. Listen to a wide variety of podcasts. Interact with the world. Travel. Watch movies of every genre available and listen to music. Knowledge is power. You can't get played if you know the game. Gorgeous Gorgeous gorgeous ladies know evolutionary psychology and human nature is the shortcut to life. The more you know the less you suffer. Ignorance is the enemy, and you don't know what you don't know. Keep learning. And learn things that matter.

Social capital. Most women get trapped because they have no social capital to leave. It's actually a tactic men use to isolate you and become your only social capital so you're dependent on them. We sometimes forget we are a social species, human beings will literally DIE in absence of community, there are enough disturbing psychological experiments to prove this. The greatest human need is friendship and community. You MUST have a wideeeeeeeeee community. I can not explain enough how harmful it is to only have one source of community, no matter how big. If your friends at school are your only friends you get trapped in people pleasing because if they dump you you're ALONE, which is literally death level. You don't understand, if you don't kill yourself in absence of community your body will kill itself so you can't bring yourself to eat or sleep or leave the room and you fall sick and you body attacks itself inside out- simply because your boyfriend dumped you and he's your only community. I know you know the pain of losing your friend or loved one, whether to death or altercation, and if you didn't have enough social capital to pull you out you either considered suicide or couldn't bring yourself to eat and threw up everytime you did - your body seeking death because the sustainer of life is community. Make a LOT of friends in a lot of different places. Stay AWAY from people that try to isolate you and learn to have acquaintances and maintain your friendships- then you can easily walk away any time.

Hobbies and interests. The sheer number of women with no creative hobbies or interests they partake in is worrying. Ladies the feminine CREATES. Not having a creative outlet is like a fish having no fins? You'll feel dead inside. You'll feel caged and depressed. You're manifesting autoimmune diseases love, I. And no its not expensive and yes you do have time. We are not discussing this, get a creative hobby. This instant. No no no, phone down, go get one. And yes you do have one, you're a woman. Creativity is the science of your existence, to CREATE. If you don't, Bible you will get depressed. So misaligned.so out of order. You will hate life, and you can not experience a life you hate, love.

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A cosplay on Prince George cooking or Princess Catherine baking cookies, I'd say. However, we still don't see his face and she just doesn't look into the activity. I just cannot get over how she reads these blogs and instantly responds.

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After I just posted article saying the children “dolls” wont be involved….😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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Haven't posted in awhile but I noticed this interesting detail on the Montecito jam label. If you look at the bottom of the number 7, it really looks like the number is UNDER the line. To me, this reeks of the number being a stamp and not handwritten as well as the printer printed the labels in the wrong order. I loved the description of the jam as providing purpose. Who needs this prentitious jam which is being produced to line Megain's pockets? Go help a dog shelter. Purchase items from a homeless shelter's Amazon wish list. Pay it forward...don't pay the Harkles.

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I think something else should be added here. Women's magazines...remember those? They start off with can this marriage be saved story. Of course this the first thing out of the box and when you read it you should start analyzing your marriage/relationship and wonder if there is something more/different/better you should be doing. NEVER EVER do you see this crap in a man's magazine. No, those show him the women which he pants and lusts over with nary thought in his head about his relationship or wife.

Next come the articles on exercise (gotta stay in shape because it's up to you to keep your man interested!), the latest makeup and clothing which will cost a good chunk of change (Don't forget about the fights over budgets which will ensue should a woman change everything in a month!) and just when a woman finally realizes that NOTHING in the magazine is uplifting, empowering or positive, the magazine ends with the best chocolate cake recipe so a woman can bake it and eat it to self-soothe her inferior feeling self esteem she develops trying to live up to something which doesn't exist....the myth of the happy housewife.

For those who have overactive guilt complexes like me…

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Amen to both!

Mental Crop Rotation

When farmers grow the same crop too many years in a row, it can leave their soil depleted of minerals and other nutrients that are vital to the health of their fields.

To avoid this, farmers will often alternate the crops that they grow because some plants will use up different minerals (such as nitrogen) while other plants replenish those minerals. This process is known as “crop rotation.”

So the next time you find that you need to step away from a project to work on something else for a while, don’t beat yourself up for “quitting” that project. Give yourself permission to practice “mental crop rotation” to maintain a healthy brain field.

Because I’ve found that when that unnecessary guilt and pressure are removed from the process, a good mental crop rotation can help you feel more energized and invigorated than ever once you’re ready to rotate back to that project.