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🍼 I get where ppl are coming from when they say “you dont want *thing* it isnt cute or quirky it is suffering” like yes I’m aware, however atypical dysphoria is not something I chose to have. I understand when I do end up transitioning fully to some of my transids I probably will be suffering to some degree but that to me sounds better than the dysphoria. I’m aware what these things entail because I have done my research as well as most radqueer people have done, I know what is going to happen and I know how I’m going to feel and I would rather feel like that than dysphoric I rather have that experience than dysphoria.

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I want to let everyone who's transitioning into their transIDs know that there is hope that you'll pass. 💙

I didn't think there was any hope for me at first. But I'm OTY transage, and everyone I talk to offline assumes I'm a young teenager at first.

I'm permasick, and I just learned that I have a serious illness.

I'm translatina, and my high school principal thought I was Latina for the entire time he knew me. Once, someone asked if I was in this country legally (which is both affirming and extremely annoying).

I also identify as transclass, upper-middle to lower, which a lot of people both inside and outside the transID community don't like, and I understand why. But I have so little money that I can't afford to pay my rent right now.

Transition is possible for so many transIDs. It's possible for you too. Don't give up hope! 💖

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Fucking wild to be teaching about Rosa Parks at the same time as a trans woman in Florida does an act of civil disobedience to use a women's restroom in the state capitol

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A reminder that

Pedophilia ≠ Child Sexual Abuse

Zoophilia ≠ Bestiality

Pedophilia and Zoophilia are the attractions

Abuse and Bestiality are the actions

Stop misusing these words

Not every para is a predator

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I love you nonsexual TransHarm fellas

I love you TransHarm fellas that feel disconnected from your community

I love you TransHarm fellas who feel disconnected from your community *because* you are nonsexual

I love you TransHarm people who have uncommon ID's

I love you TransHarm people who are also TransHarmless/TransUnharmed

I love you TransHarm people who want to get violent or violated but feel the way people do it aren't enough

I love you TransHarm people who feel like they can't get violent or violated because people will act negatively about it

I love you unvoiced TransHarm people

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hey, anti-rq anti-transid questioning here. thanks 4 replying to my inbox, took me a bit to read it all .. :] i understood a majority of it and am still working on understanding some other bits, im a little slow.

i made a blog for my whole questioning stuff a couple hours ago and started collecting transids . it was a lot of fun ngl. i started to try to scroll through transid community and radqueer community tags to try to get a better understanding of the definition of radqueer and transid, kind of just taking all the definitions i can get and trying to get a summarized answer .

i mean so far it literally looks like on the outside things that would probably shock you at first but kind of just scrolling deeper and deeper i could relate to posts- even though its hard for us sometimes to relate to others- but what i see is just. good faithed things and almost an equivalent in the good faithed community like pro endos are, but im getting there. im getting a grasp on it. things i dont understand, a lot of things i dont relate to, but its not my problem and its not hurting anybody. like ive seen a lot of necrophilies under one of the tags i was scrolling and i didnt really get their posts nor see the attractiveness of it but it was that weird sense of .. theyre also a paraphile, like us, they just like different stuff, so we dont relate, but we can see the kind of community. i mean i think thats a good way to explain it man, trying to explain feelings is really difficult im like 89% sure none of this makes sense

this blog name might change soon but its highly unpersonalized for maximum privacy . maybe our viewpoints will change ? idk. not rushing things and taking my time so i can think about stuff. gotta consult it with the rest of our system too.

thanks 4 not turning me away .. :]

-@nneverknowme

Of course. I am so glad you've decided to explore. It's important we look inside and understand things instead of blindly hating them. I hope you enjoy your time within the community and find people who will accept you and care for you as you are. Once again, I am always here if you need me. My inbox and messages are always open for anyone who needs my advice or assistance.

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TRACE compliments!

I love you TransArab

I love you TransArgentino

I love you TransArmenian

I love you Transarmenian

I love you TransAsian

I love you TransAustralian

I love you TransAustrian

I love you TransBelarusian

I love you TransBrazilian

I love you TransBelgian

I love you TransChilean

I love you TransBlack

I love you TransWhite

I'm just so lazy to put u all, but OH MY FUCKING GWAD, YOU'RE ALL SOOO FUCKING COOL, KEEP IT UP BUDDIES.

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i think i forgot to post this um. go my MAPgical girl (ﾉ´ヮ`)ﾉ*: ･ﾟ

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srry if you dont want us interacting. we're anti radqueer and anti transid but sometimes we think joining the rq and transid community seems fun.

we've seen it from the outside, and we've seen some rqs enable abusive behavior so we've been repulsed by it... but idk lately im kind of just looking at it and like. im just like okay well it cant be that bad.

i just dont want to identify with a term thats associated with harmful ideology. what is even the true definition of radqueer ??!! like, a even updated definition..? theres got to be.

idk why i feel so attracted to the rq and transid community today. we're usually so repulsed but. yet again idk. i personally even want to experiment with transids.

like now im just thinking about it its just like. when i think of identity. im just like "who the fuck cares". i have anarchist views and want to uplift and support others completely while being against anything abusive and unhealthy and is the radqueer community really like that? i mean, are we just seeing it from the outside?

if we join the radqueer and transid community will others turn on us? could we identify with transids ??? we just dont want to identify with anything that means supporting ableism, abuse, etc. thats all we want but maybe we're just looking at the bad parts of the radqueer and transid community

auughghhhhh i dont iknow i dont knowwww 😭

Hello. Do not worry, I have no interaction limitations. I invite all people to my blog to discuss and debate with me. I will go through your ask point by point.

If I miss anything, if any of my information is wrong, if I misspell anything, or otherwise there are any errors in my text or demeanor, do forgive me, It has been a long day and I am very tired. You can always send a follow up ask or send me a direct message to follow up.

Answers are under the cut.

“i just dont want to identify with a term thats associated with harmful ideology. what is even the true definition of radqueer ??!! like, a even updated definition..? theres got to be.”

There is an updated definition. Actually, there are many. Radqueer, after it's initial coining, had a recoin, and many have made things like pre and post radqueer to go along with it. However, the general basis of radqueers ideology is “live and let live”, which speaks for itself. All people, nonpeople, people-ish creatures, and so on, are all equal and accepted as non-normative as they are.

According to https://radqueeredu.carrd.co/#meaning , the definition of radqueer is: “Radqueer, often broken down to Radical Queerness, is a blanket term that covers a list of ideologies while technically being an ideology in itself. While there is seemingly a lot of debate surrounding the label itself and its exact meaning, it is generally agreed that the basis of the radqueer ideology is acceptance of all queer identities to a radical extent. This includes accepting and supporting controversial queer identities such as; mspec monos (ex: bi/pan/omni lesbians/gays), overlapping or contradictory labels(ex: lesboys/turigirls), trans-identities including non-gendertransids (ex: transrace, transage, etc.), paraphilias and parasexualities. The ideology also includes support for non-queer related subjects such as; non-traumagenic systems, freedom in fiction (ex: pro/com/darkship,dark fiction, etc.), non-humanism (ex: therians, otherkins, etc.), bodily autonomy. Generally speaking, and to sum this all up, radqueer means "live and let live" to it's fullest extent in terms of personal identity! Due to this radical acceptance, there has been a decently sized community built around this ideology and different branches of it, known as the Radqueer Community.”

Here is (to my knowledge) the original coining post of the term Radqueer. https://archive.ph/jiYnS . Unfortunately, I am currently unable to find the flag and coining post for the New Radqueer flag and term, but if I find it, I will reblog this post with it.

“like now im just thinking about it its just like. when i think of identity. im just like "who the fuck cares". i have anarchist views and want to uplift and support others completely while being against anything abusive and unhealthy and is the radqueer community really like that? i mean, are we just seeing it from the outside?”

That ideology is the basis of radqueer itself. As I stated before, it is live and let live. It is based upon an anarchist view of identity and how it affects society as a whole. Conabuse (consensual abuse) is a thing in the community, but one could compare that to kink within pride. A foundational item that we must accept as simply the way of nature when identity is put up for self interpretation. In short, it is just the way life goes. Where there is identity there is the identity between partners, whether romantic, platonic, or simply transactional. As it is stated in the name, it is completely consensual.

“if we join the radqueer and transid community will others turn on us? could we identify with transids ??? we just dont want to identify with anything that means supporting ableism, abuse, etc. thats all we want but maybe we're just looking at the bad parts of the radqueer and transid community”

In truth? Maybe. People are cruel and can turn on one another for simple things. That shouldn't stop you. The Radqueer Community fights against ableism, sexism, transphobia, bigotry of all kinds. We fight for identity, for self reflection, for the equality of all people. It is a community of kindness. Yes, I concede, we have had our fair share of bad apples, but I have never seen that rot slip into the core of what we have. We all understand one thing. It is to fight for freedom for all. I will say, anti-radqueers lie. They lie often. It is common I see stereotypes and misinformation spread around like factual statements. You want the truth? Ask the community yourself and see what you find. Do not rely on a third party for your opinions.

My belief? I love the radqueer community. I do my volunteer work in its name and I take pride and joy in my transidentites. From those who are Transracial, to ones who are Objectum, to TransHarmed/TransHarmful identifers, to the Conabuse partakers, to those who are Necros, to those who are simply far from the norm in their own unlabeled ways, we all deserve the joy of being able to identify how it is we please. With no harm done to us or those around us, we are as entitled to joy as all others.

I wish you well. Have a lovely day.

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hello uh ive recently been questioning for myself whether or not i believe transabled ppl are valid. Can you explain what it is and how ppl that are transabled feel abt being it

Hello. Transabled is desiring to have a disability (mental or physical) despite your body not having said disability, not being diagnosed with said disability, or otherwise believing yourself to somehow not have that disability in your current state. There are many ways that one could identify as TransAbled. You could be autistic but not have a diagnosis for it and thus say you are TransAutistic until further notice, you could have BIID and believe you should have an amputation despite not “needing” one, you could have general dysphoria over something like your eyesight or your ability to speak and thus believe you should not have it, and so on.

The way that people feel about their identity is very personal and varies from person to person but with a community as large as the Transid community, it is often people are able to find pride and happiness with their identity. Not all the time, of course, many feel guilty for having such an identity due to the social stigma surrounding disability, but with time and discussion, many people can find it within themselves to accept themselves and their identity.

Thank you for asking. Have a wonderful day.

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People unironically calling shit "narcissistic abuse" feels the same as when people call people "pedophiles" instead of sex offenders.

Even funnier is that a lot of "narcissistic abuse" truthers genuinely believe they're above narcissists. Sounds pretty narcissistic!

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absolutely HUGE news ,, we have finished our first video essay !! it is not very long , just a bit over seven minutes , so its easily digestible .

have a sneakpeak via the thumbnail ~

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You Are Not Alone! 🗺️

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Stickers available to print/ship

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Free to use printable resources stickers!

One with and without the QR code

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MAP Facts Infographic

Made by me! ^_^

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If you're a single issue feminist and you want to raise your son to respect women but you also use authoritarian parenting, you're pretty much guaranteeing that your son will be sexist. You're pretty much guaranteeing that your son will think being sexist is siding with the resistance, which is a common piece of propaganda that sexists use.

If you deny any struggles that he has and you expect him to care about women's struggles, you're pretty much guaranteeing that he will see feminism as women getting special treatment.

If you demand that he respect women and also demand that he respect authority, and if you call it "disrespect" when he yells at you in direct response to you yelling at him first, then you're pretty much guaranteeing that he won't take complaints of "disrespect" seriously.

If you rule with an iron fist and make him afraid of you, you're pretty much guaranteeing that he won't respect anyone who can't make him afraid of them, and the vast majority of women who he disrespects are not going to be able to make him afraid.

If you want him to question society's harmful attitudes against women, you also have to raise him to question society's harmful attitudes that benefit you. This includes society's harmful attitudes against children.