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Please take a look at this video and all others on my account! I am wanting to become a strong Transgender advocate for all adults, teens and children! @everett95 Instagram.com/Lbryant95

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Hello! My name is E.C. Miller and I run a small online store called “ThreadyToGo” and the money is going towards a chest binder and my eventual top surgery, so ever dollar and cent helps me out! I ship internationally for a low price, all of the prices of items are converted to your currency and since pride’s coming up it’s the perfect time to look into a bracelet/pin of your own! I also have blind bags and bulk orders!

Also till the end of pride month all bracelets are 20% off with code “PRIDETIME”, so this makes it a perfect time to buy from me! 

Note: Genderfluid, Agender, Demiboy, Demigirl, Demigender, Androgyne and Neutrois are available 

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Note:  Agender, Androgyne and Neutrois is available

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All of the bracelets are available, inexpensive, cute and in the process helping a non-binary person!

Also on top of that, custom orders are available! So Everyone can find something here!

And in honour of pride I’m now selling handmade soft pins that are now for pre-order (20 available at the moment), they do not count for the sale as they are for pre-order but the money foes go to the same place!

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If you are interested please contact me at @apeskyhedgehog or check out the store here. 

I hope you have a great day!

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Is it bad that I'm a trans boy, but I still like dresses?

there’s nothing wrong with that!

clothes arent gendered. youre still 100% a boy no matter what clothes you like, no matter what hairstyle you like, etc!

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So I'm currently a girl who wants to be a guy. And I'm new to this whole thing so do you have any advice?

heyo!

okay, so you might be dealing with dysphoria. whether it be socially (you get uncomfortable being called she/her), or with your body (chest/bottom dysphoria)!

a tip i have for social dysphoria is to try and refer to yourself with masculine pronouns and see if that works for you! it generally does help quite a bit.

as for top dysphoria, you can try binding! whether it be with a binder, or with a sports bra. do not ever use tape. tape can damage your ribs badly and you may not be able to properly bind ever again. if you’re going to buy a binder, save up for underworks or gc2b. it’ll take a while, but i promise, it’s much, much better

for bottom dysphoria, you could try making a diy packer. theres a few tutorials online, but i just stuff some socks down there and it helps alleviate some of my dysphoria.

you may also want to consider - do you want surgery? do you want hormones? it’s okay to question your gender too! 

also: don’t come out unless it’s safe. it may hurt, being deadnamed and misgendered, but please but your safety over everything else!

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thank you for running this blog. all the trans positivity i see is either neutral, trans women-specific, or nb-specific. i never see any transmasc positivity. when i brought this up in a trans facebook group, people got angry with me and said that transfem people /needed/ the support. trans men need positivity and support too!!

it's like people don't think men in general don't need positivity just because they have privilege over other genders. that's not true!!! everyone needs positivity and support!!!!

you’re welcome!!!

that facebook group’s pretty bad. yes, support for transfeminine people is great but completely tossing aside transmasc positivity? that’s not how you go about it. 

just bcos trans men may be privileged in the sense that they identify as male, that isn’t to say they don’t have problems!! transphobia affects transmasc and transfem people. plus, people can direct “misogyny” at trans men if they’re perceived as girls.

transmasc people are great and deserve love and care!

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I wrote demiboy who uses he pronouns on accident! They use they pronouns, not he!

ohh!! okay!

having an identity that is masc-aligned doesn’t mean you have to use he/him!! they/them is perfectly fine! theres nothing wrong with being a demiboy. your friend is valid for going by they/them.

plus, absolutely no one can dictate what pronouns they should go by except for themself! only they know how they feel, and if they’re a demiboy that uses they/them?

they’re great and as amazing as any other masc-aligned person.

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I have a friend, and I just found out that they were a demi-boy, and I feel really bad because I've refered to them as cis, and said he instead of they. I kind of want to make a print with positivity on it for them. What kind of positivity would you give a demi-boy who uses he pronouns?

heya!

i’d say some good positivity would be that your friend is very valid! being a demiboy doesn’t define your pronouns. you could go by he/him, they/them or he/they

that being said, i don’t know much about your friend but assure them that they’re very valid and great, and their gender identity is completely valid! try to offer support if you can, too

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Can you help validate me? I live with abusive transphobic parents who constantly try to force me to be female and its driving me to depression amd self harm

hey, first of all; please take care of yourself. i know it’s hard, but self-harm, whether it be emotionally or physically is not good for you. i know, i know. it’s not easy to quit. but please, at least, consider it, okay?

okay.

you’re not a girl. don’t let them tell you that you are. you’re *not* a girl. you’re a boy, even before you knew it and you always will be.

things like clothes/hair isnt inherently feminine/masculine. is your haircut too “girly”? your clothes too “pretty”? well, you’re a boy no matter what haircut you have. the only thing that defines your gender is what you think/know you are.

i’m sorry you have to deal with your parents, i know what it’s like… maybe in a few years, you’ll be able to move out and transition. hang in there, it’ll be worth it. 💖

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im so here for non-binary people

with dysphoria

without dysphoria

with lots of body hair

with barely any body hair

with full beards

with hair to their knees

with muscles

who are fat

with big boobs

with flat chests

who want to transition in some way

who would like to transition but cant

who dont want to transition

who have a set mind on how theyd like to be seen

whos idea of themself changes daily

who choose a new name for themselves

who change their name a lot

who change their pronouns a lot

with neopronouns

without pronouns

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Not an ask but!!! I love your blog, Sylveon is one of my favourite Pokemon!! Thank you for running this!

💞💞💞

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why is this a blog for only transmasc/masc-aligned nb and not any transfem/fem-aligned? a genuine question

i’m a trans boy. i personally don’t know/aren’t close enough to any trans girls that would run this with me… i don’t understand what trans girls go through, and i don’t want to step out of the line or do anything shitty.

i guess i could do for dfab fem-aligned nb, considering that was what i id-ed as for a year or so! but i’m sure there are other great blogs out there, ran by trans girls that offer advice/positivity for trans girls.

regardless, trans girls are perfect too! 

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I don't know how many asks you've gotten, but some depressed positivity? (If you're to busy I understand! I love your blog and thank you in advance)

youre actually my only ask!! dont worry, and thank u!

depressed trans guys are great!! they have to go through a lot, and i’m proud of them for being who they are. depression isn’t something easy to deal with, like how being trans isn’t easy or fun.

you’re valid, no matter what. people might try to say horrible stuff like “your depression caused you to think you’re a boy!” or “being trans is what made you depressed!” it’s not true, and you shouldn’t believe any of their lies. you’re depressed, and you’re trans. nothing causes the other and it’s not a bad thing!

i’m very proud of any depressed trans boys... it’s really difficult, and i speak from first-hand experience. stuff like “exercise” and “yoga” won’t ever be able to cure depression no matter people say!! but i’m proud of you for managing to survive, and you deserve love and care like anyone else.

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Non dysphoric trans dudes plzzzzz

non-dysphoric trans dudes! ur great and valid! dysphoria doesn’t define whether ur trans or not, and even people who do experience dysphoria still fluctuate! u are completely valid if u dont have dysphoria.

dysphoria is a thing some trans people have, yes. but only you know your gender identity and if you know youre a dude without dysphoria? go for it. you’re valid.

dont let anyone, whether they be truscum or anti-sjws tell u that ur not trans! because you are

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Hypersexual trans boys? We don't get much attention...

hypersexual trans boys? ur amazing! ur not “gross” for being hypersexual, there’s nothing wrong with being hypersexual! especially because it’s not a choice you can simply make!

don’t let anyone tell you that youre bad for being hypersexual, or manipulative. you’re not and those people are either misinformed or just jerks. being hypersexual =/= “bad”. and dont let people use your hypersexuality to try to invalidate u being a boy either!!!

you’re all amazing and theres nothing inherently wrong abt u! ur amazing n ur valid. 

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Some love for us aces?

ace trans guys are amazing!! ur sexual identity isnt “tmi” or “gross”! ur completely valid for not having any sexual attraction; its not required in a relationship anyways! 

sex-positive ace trans guys, sex-neutral ace trans guys and sex-repulsed ace trans guys are all super great and valid!! ur great for being who u are!

don’t let anyone tell you you’re “broken” or “wrong”!! only you know who you can be, and if you’re an ace trans guy? you’re wonderful.

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Positivity for mlm trans guys?

mlm trans guys are great!! ur not wrong for loving other guys. your love isnt “dirty”, isnt a “sin”, isnt something for straight girls to fetishize either.

don’t let anyone tell u that ur a “straight girl”, because you’re not and you never will be. you’re not straight, you’re not a girl. you’re a mlm guy.

ur valid if ur gay, if ur bi, if ur pan, if ur ace, or anything like that. you’re mlm, even if you’re in a relationship with someone who’s not masc-aligned. mlm =/= gay - but even if youre gay, youre still a very valid mlm! 

no one is “more” mlm than anyone else.

mlm trans guys are great, and they deserve all the love and care in the world! they’re valid, and definitely mlm!