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This is the most powerful call to ratio I've ever seen. It's like she's performing an incantation.

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honestly whenever I see a trans guy doing the "I have a special connection with girlhood because of my officially female childhood" I mostly end up feeling bad for them

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ok! it’s been a really long time but i’m back!

I deleted tumblr for a while to get a better grip on life tbh. It took time and now i haven’t heard much of anything from the sperm donar which is great!

Also another update, i am in a relationship again 🎉

I have a much better feeling about this one. My last one was a mess. Neither of us were perfect and we both were in the wrong in our own ways and i’m sure we can both agree on that now.

I’m still aroace but yk not repulsed by either sex nor romance. It’s just i don’t get attraction from anything sexual or romantic 98% of the time.

But sometimes i get lucky i suppose.

So yeah! that’s an update on me if anyone cares 👽👍

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Yes they are! My father is still up my ass but at least he’s not completely in my life anymore. I’ll be getting therapy soon as well

damn it’s been a long ass time. But i’m here and i’m queer 👍

A lot of shit has happened lately! Uh my life is much better now after getting my abusive father out of my life and i’ve recently come out as aroace 🫶

I’ve also been rekindling my relationship with my brother, whom i haven’t seen since i was REALLY young. So yeah shits been ok. My father still bothers me occasionally but i take it with a grain of salt. Uh i haven’t been in a relationship for a while so that’s cool. It’s actually been way better without having one right now. I mean a relationship would be ok but honestly i find it stressful and extra work put into someone who might not want to put the same work in.

After my relationship. I’ve found it hard to care so much about someone as easily. I’m much more closed off with who i let get close to me and it’s honestly better. I’m more careful and not nearly as reckless.

That’s it really tho. I mean all i need in life is my few closest friends and my plants 🫶

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hi!  I am desperately in need for help. I need my insulin to bring my blood sugar back down. It’s $300 That’s all I need. I’m not asking for a windfall, just a little help, please.

Be blessed 💓🙏🙏💓

            DONATE AND SHARE.

I’m so sorry but i don’t have the money right now! But i’ll spread your message!

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Allo peeps need to understand being aromantic isn't just "Ewww, romance". It's "I will follow you to the ends of the Earth and beyond, regardless of where that would lead me." Platonically, of course."

(But please keep in mind that for some it IS "Ewww, romance" And they don't need to be treated like they're not a part of this community, btw. This is an objective fact, btw. Aros are awesome, btw)

(This post is about QPRs and my experiences being aro, I just wanted to make a silly little post about that, aplatonics are valid and real this post was about me and maybe for people who relate)

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I actually fucking hate my life right now

My dad is still such a bitch and it’s really fucking getting to me. I don’t even know why i’m yapping on tumblr abt this but i just felt like it.

Woke up this morning all productive and feeling great.

Then got a phone call from my dad abt some bullshit. Then all the sudden i’m back in bed. Bedrotting. And i can’t physically get up. It’s like my body is made of concrete.

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This is Money Snake. She only appears every 312 years. 

If you reblog her picture within the next twenty-five seconds you will have good luck and fortune for the rest of your life. 

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Edit because I think this is being misinterpreted: The aroace tag is not colored, it's a petition for Tumblr to color it (sorry for the confusion)

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same thing when i have to lie to some friends i have about just being pan (i used to be) because most will likely make weird faces abt me being aroace and it’s the most embarrassing thing.

As an asexual aromantic woman, when people ask if I like a man, I go, "Naw, I'm not into dudes." It implies I'm a lesbian.

Because it's more acceptable to be a lesbian than asexual.

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damn it’s been a long ass time. But i’m here and i’m queer 👍

A lot of shit has happened lately! Uh my life is much better now after getting my abusive father out of my life and i’ve recently come out as aroace 🫶

I’ve also been rekindling my relationship with my brother, whom i haven’t seen since i was REALLY young. So yeah shits been ok. My father still bothers me occasionally but i take it with a grain of salt. Uh i haven’t been in a relationship for a while so that’s cool. It’s actually been way better without having one right now. I mean a relationship would be ok but honestly i find it stressful and extra work put into someone who might not want to put the same work in.

After my relationship. I’ve found it hard to care so much about someone as easily. I’m much more closed off with who i let get close to me and it’s honestly better. I’m more careful and not nearly as reckless.

That’s it really tho. I mean all i need in life is my few closest friends and my plants 🫶

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I loved painting this one. It was truly a delight to create and I hope that shows 💚

Full process video over on my Patreon!

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hey guys please remember to fucking reblog art ok? it's super fucking disheartening to put so much time and effort into a drawing to have it have a 1:10 reblog:like ratio. it doesn't hurt you and it helps the artist so much

likes don't DO anything they don't help anyone. please for the love of God reblog art

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yep its fucked. Its fucking over. I fucked it up.