tohavemycakeandeatittoo
To have my cake and eat it too!
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As a daughter, wife, mother, and friend, I wear many hats, as most women do. Often society tries to put us into appropriate boxes, safe in the knowledge that we are properly labeled. But some of us won't go quietly. We challenge the stereotypes and push the boundaries just by being who we are. My father told me as a young girl that I could do anything I put my mind to... I believed him. So instead of accepting someone else's version of happily-ever-after, I'm creating my own. And in my dreams I do get to have my cake & eat it too!
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 7 years ago
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Summer is here, time for braids, buns, sunglasses and summertime fun🌴🌞🍉🏖🎣🌺🕶
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 7 years ago
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I forgot about this round of shots... perhaps this revelry is why me and my car are tore up today #curtandkateswedding #wehadallthefun #playtodaypaytomorrow
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 7 years ago
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Mother son dance #ilovethem #curtandkateswedding #thosesmiles ❤️❤️❤️ (at Piercy, California)
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 7 years ago
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And then there was this hot mama😍🔥 #iloveher #madra #curtandkateswedding (at Piercy, California)
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 8 years ago
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I came home to this note on the door😂 @dmusic212 is funny... but not free. 😜 (at Home Sweet Home Aka La Casa De Musica)
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 8 years ago
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Happy Mothers Day to all of you beautiful mamas doing the hard work of being there. You're rocking this shit! You haven't offed your off-spring yet so celebrate that shit! Grab a drink, put your feet up and make the spawns wait on you for the day. You deserve it😂😜🎉🍹🍸🍷🍻🍾 (at Home Sweet Home Aka La Casa De Musica)
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 8 years ago
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#newhair #shadowroot #pinkhairdontcare #straight #curly @lilybyrdbrand Hair is a process and #mygirl steph knows how to hook it up! She's never afraid of where my crazy ideas take us. She'll be working weekends at #twomagnolias so hit her up!
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 8 years ago
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#reflections #busted #shamelessselfie #newglassesyo
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 8 years ago
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My favorite players, our team is is always the home team 😉❤️ #sportsmom #baseball #ilovethem #ourteam #theirbiggestfan (at Home Sweet Home Aka La Casa De Musica)
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 8 years ago
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And my favorite smile ❤️ Ending this blessed day with dessert... and her favorite gift of all... they didn't sing... only I did, quietly.😂 #happybirthday #madra #iloveher #dessert (at Cafe Marina and Woodley's Bar)
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 8 years ago
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She loves my #shenanigans , I swear😉 #happybirthday #madra #hottubtime #iloveher (at Cafe Mokka, Finnish Country Sauna & Tubs)
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 8 years ago
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This beautiful lady is 73 years young today🎉🎂❤️😘 #happybirthday #madra #hottubtime (at Cafe Mokka, Finnish Country Sauna & Tubs)
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 8 years ago
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Flower music child walking in the rain ❤️
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 8 years ago
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#morningmotivation #weightlifting #squatsomething PRed for back squats with 6 x 185# 🏋🏼‍♀️ (at Southern Humboldt Fitness)
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 8 years ago
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Nature's art #hikingadventures #hiddenspringscampground #humboldtcounty #redwoods #spiderweb
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 8 years ago
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What a beautiful place we live #humboldtcounty #redwoods #hiddenspringscampground #hikingadventures @lilybyrdbrand #magical
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tohavemycakeandeatittoo · 8 years ago
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So excited to be officially adding this chica to the family. Curtis is a very lucky man😍 @astar951 #kaitlynsbridalshower
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