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One shouldn’t be afraid of the humans, but of what is inhuman in them.

Ivo Andrić (via purplebuddhaproject)

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My message for the man i love

You my love deserve more. You deserve the best. You do things better than the rest. You are the strongest man i will ever kiss. The strongest man ill ever miss. I know you do your best in everything so i made you my everything. My love is yours and i pray to God that you keep it safe. But even if you don’t ill still pray to God that you’d come back. Because i don’t want to search and wander around this world to find a man better than you because you re the best man ill ever have and i wont let you go. I will keep you warm and comfty through rainy days and cold nights. I will give you my shade if there’s too much sunlight. Because even from the start God made Eve to take care of Adam. And so am i to support you and be your madam. You deserve the care You deserve more than just a pair You deserve trust You deserve more than the last crust You deserve a woman A woman willing to accept you A woman willing to risk just to be with you. A woman willing to be strong just as strong as you are. For when you are weak she can give you her strength. You deserve more than care. You deserve love.

i love you mark

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A Message to Women:

you deserve better than to be called “pretty” you deserve better than to get upset and go online to act petty. you deserve better than to be on “hold”. you deserve better than to hold onto someone who’s already let go. you deserve better than to be held in convenience.

you deserve better than to keep your relationship “lowkey” because.. “someone might see” and someone “might ask questions” and someone might wonder why someone like you would rather hang around a boy who wont commit when someone like them is ready to love you. is ready to learn you.

ready to show you - who you are. paint you a picture of you through his eyes and convince you that you are indeed art.

show you the way he’s mesmerized the way your broken heart still beats the way it flutters when whole eyes and yours meet the way it silences to express its beat. show you how much he realizes you need healing from this hurting. i know you. i know something about what you’ve been through. i know some days feel like heavy weights and hearts with protection that you’ve failed to break through and i know what it’s like to put heart break on hold for the love of your life who forgot relationships take two. i know he forgot to say “i love you, too” i know he forgot to stay faithful. i know you forgot about the time you promised yourself you’d do better but every time you try to leave something keeps pulling you back - telling you this is the best you’ll ever have in life. so you stay the night. - - - every night he misses you after remembering your head and how good it works. and how good it feels to know no matter how bad it gets - you’ll always come back. I know you. and he does too. we know the way your stomach drops at the thought of him loving someone better. so he knows you wont search for better and I know you deserve better. I know you deserve better than to have your spirit bruised. I know you deserve someone who empowers you. I know just how beautiful you could be if only you could see your own value. I know you. you’re a collection of paradox’s you’re a compilation of food for thought you’re a woman - before all things. you’re more a lover than a fighter - after all it seems.. you’re special. and I know you know you deserve better than to settle.

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Some people say, “Never let them see you cry.” I say, if you’re so mad you could just cry, then cry. It terrifies everyone.

Tina Fey (via purplebuddhaproject)

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Wisdom cannot be imparted. Wisdom that a wise man attempts to impart always sounds like foolishness to someone else … Knowledge can be communicated, but not wisdom. One can find it, live it, do wonders through it, but one cannot communicate and teach it.

Hermann Hesse (via psych-facts)

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I’m so upset by society. I’m angry at the world we live in and I’m angry at what people have to go through everyday and I’m angry at the amount of ignorance there is in this world. I tell myself over and over again that I will make a change. I will grow up and get the right job and work hard to make a difference in this world. and anyone that says I can’t, just fucking watch me.

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have you ever feel like you are an old person trapped in a young body?

its like you know how people is. you know how stupid humans can be. how cruel they are and how good  nice and beautiful they are. And you are just there. observing. looking at how life is going to be with you. i feel like i'm a human. and old woman trapped in a young girl’s body. I know that no one can ever make me happy except me and my choices. No other person can ever be with me forever. Except me. I will be alone. all of us are alone. and it doesn't scare me anymore. I don't know why but i got used to being alone. I got used to being used. I got used to being talked about. I got used to being broken inside and  it doesn't matter to me anymore because i have faith that ill be okay. I have faith that I will reach my goals in life as long as i fight for it. I am ready to start living. im ready to learn more . more about life rather than the books. rather than the researches. im hungry to know more about how people can be so different from each other. I want to know how people think. How do they see life. Because i know no one will agree with me as exactly as iam explaining right now. because to me truly life is just you. you in this world. you with your family, you with your friends,you with your faith. YOU. that is life. Feeli it. look in the mirror and stare at yourself. look deeper than what you can see. look deeper. think deeper.ask yourself. am i this person? am i really alive? am i really breathing? what am i? how can i be different? how do i live? after all those questions you will be lost. i know you will be lost and its okay. be lost. be eaten by the real you inside. there is another person inside that body. there is a mind that is thinking a heart that is beating. and isnt it amazing to feel alive? to realize that you only have once chance to be you. one shot to be who you want to be. a chance to change yourself. a chance to have faith that you will be happy. that you will always feel the joy.

and one more thing. about happiness. it is not a stage wherein you will choose to suffer today so you can be happy tomorrow.happiness can happen everyday.but so those suffering. It is not when you graduate and you have a job that you will only find happiness. you will never be happy just by finishing your goals. you  can be happy everyday just choose the right choices that you will know you can be happy about someday.

I am telling you this because it makes me happy to think about how beautful and horrible life can be but its always your mind that will keep you from being negative. Your heart can love and your body can move so do the things that you want to do. go sleep with someone you want as long as you trust them and you love them. go treat yourself a little more food as long as its good for you. go and dance nobody should stop you as long as you are willing to learn. go sing as long as you feel the rhythm.  go and love as long as you use your mind and heart at the same time, don't listen to people who says that you should never chase some guy or a girl. go and chase him or chase her as long as you see the possibility of him or her wanting you. and do it only if it makes you happy .if it makes you smile to give him letters if it makes you smile that you message her first if it makes you smile that you follow her and stare at her. if it makes you happy just by giving then there is no problem with that.

with all these nonsense i just want to say that in this life we all got one chance so just DO YOU! nobody should fucking care what you want, nobody should fucking look down at you. nobody should tell you that you are not good enough you are not pretty enough you are not smart enough because every single people in this world is different so stop being so sad about people tell me that i am this and that. just let them be. if they hate you let them hate you. if you are annoyed then leave if you are angry at them then just keep it to yourself until you are ready to confront them in a nice way. never start a fight because that's what losers do. they start the fight. because everything can be done in a nice way. just calm the fuck down about your shitty life and start living 

i think i have said enough.

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When people walk away from you, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you.

- Unknown (via thelovenotebook)

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The actuality of depression that no one seems able to grasp is you have to fight for your own life. You don’t have doctors forcing standard treatments or have an entire support team praying for you. You’re solely responsible for providing the encouragement and care necessary to keep you alive. The times I’ve been at my sickest I had to fight with every last drop of hope I had to get myself out of the grave my mind was digging for me. The disease is what kills you. It corrupts your mind forcing your every thought to scare you enough that suicide seems like your only way out. I wish people could understand that… not only to show the respect those who lost their battle with depression deserve and not view it as an act of selfishness, but also to realize how fucking strong a person living with depression has to be to not slip into that same scenario. Personally, I think that there’s always going to be something better than not being here at all… not to mention the fear of where I’ll end up, there’s far too much unknown, which terrifies me, which is good… Because I know what it feels like to be in the position people are in before they end it all. It’s a feeling I wouldn’t wish upon my worst enemy and I wouldn’t even want to attempt to explain it to you. Because it’s, well, depressing. About as depressing as it can get really

It should not make someone uncomfortable to publicize facts on mental illness.  Like arms and legs, the mind is a part of the body.

- Submitted by Riley Elizabeth

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7 Steps for Maintaining Motivation

1. Grasp that it’s YOUR life, and no-one else’s life.

2. Decide to “live on purpose”.

3. Recognise that achievement has a price tag attached to it – and decide you’ll pay that price.

4. Work on constantly maintaining your focus.

5. Chose a skill or a field and become competent, or an expert, in that area.

6. Find other people who will hold you to your goals – and will believe in, and encourage you, to strive to reach your dreams.

7. Consciously notice the progress you are making, and remind yourself “it’s worth it” as you’re further on the path.

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