tinyboything

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the babyre urge to walk around everywhere carrying m blankie in one hand and m stuffie in the other

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Hearing .. “ mama really missed her tiny little baby today . Can mama have some tiny time with her sweet boy ? “

“ where’s my sweet kippy boy ? Mama needs a big warm hug . I missed you so so much today Angel “ and they softly and gently ruffle your hair :(

“ mama has an idea , let’s watch a movie or show hm ? We can grab some warm blankies and stuffie friends . Mama Can get you a drink made in your baba and grab some yummy snacks , how does that sound bubba ? “

“ ah ah . You’re far too tiny to be doing all that by yourself . You can’t take mamas job , what ever will mama do then ? You just be tiny sweetheart and mama will handle the rest ! “

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🫐 🍇 🍓 // hand feeding your little critter :( feeling your hand with some of their bite sized or cut up pieces of their favorite fruits and some of their favorite nuts . Adding little mini chocolate chips . Carefully feeding them little bites at a time .

Their tiny paws holding your hand , eyes sparkling as they go “ ahhh “ opening their mouth for more bites :( 🤍 when they finish their little snack they tilt their head and look up at you . Signing “ more “

“ aw okay sweet pea you can have a little more but you gotta promise to eat your dinner okay ? “

And they nod excitedly .

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tiny who’s headspace is often negatively impacted due to chronic illness and mental illness and just never really feeling great . They struggle to regress , or stay regressed . They also tend to struggle with regressing more often than usual and struggle to be in a big headspace .

Carer who sees and understand this . Who always holds and reassurances them no matter what headspace they may be in. Helping make things easier and helping them take care of themselves . Reminding them that they’re not a burden , they’re not too much , they’re never annoying . That their mama loves taking care of and getting lots of tiny time with their sweet little boy 🤍 💭

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diap changes . . 💭 🧴 ☁️

Tiny baby needing a change . Their carer scooping them up in their arms whispering gentle reassurances . “ oh Angel there is absolutely nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed about okay ? You’re simply a tiny little baby . And sometimes tiny little babies need that extra help or protection ! There’s nothing wrong with that ! “

“ promise mama ? “

“ I pinky promise sweet boy “ they say interlocking their pinkie with yours . Now let’s go get a nice clean pullup okay ?

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Helping your baby who struggles with self love and being kind to themselves . Having your kid repeat words of affirmation , self love back to you each day . and helping them practice self care and compassion with themselves .

Praising them gently when they’re doing a good job with it all . Reminding them how important , loved , special and valid they are and how important , loved , special , and valid they always will be . Helping your kid grow to be so kind and gentle with everyone including themselves : ‘)

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boy gets so cranky n fussy when it’s sleepy . . just a tiny baby . . Tiny babies can’t stay up super late like big kids and carers can :(

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sensitive in nature . Extremely sensitive skin . Sensitive to noises and lights and surroundings . Sensitive to colors and sounds and visuals . Just a true sensitive baby all around ヾ૮´• ๑ •ა

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Tiny baby’s who never really got to feel safe having their own things . Always getting it ripped and taken away . Tiny baby’s who get really defensive and protective over their comfort items and stuff . Tiny baby’s who aren’t very good yet with sharing . . But are trying so very hard to learn how to share . You are so valid ! 🤍 (,,>ᨓ<,,) be patient with them .

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Tiny baby who struggles with abandonment due to past abusive carers / relationships . Always scared they’ll become too much . . Or that their carer will get bored or annoyed . Terrified that their carer will find someone else thats more “ manageable “ afraid of getting yelled at or backed into corners . Afraid of being manipulated and treated like an animal .

Bc of this they tend to act out . They may break rules , or they may have more frequent tantrums / meltdowns. Trying so hard to flee and run away to avoid getting abandoned first .

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Carer who is fully aware of their tinys past and all their trauma . All the fears and anxieties and worries they carry so heavily on them. Carer who loves them so much more than they could ever know . Who is patient and understanding . Who never yells or resorts to getting physical . Who talks and helps their tiny through all the rough moments .

Carer who holds and soothes their kiddo during trauma flashbacks . Intense anxieties . Fears that seems terrifyingly real . Always helping to ground their kid back to them .

Holding their kiddo in their arms telling them soft reassurances in a gentle tone . “ you are safe here . You will never be made to do things you aren’t comfy with . Mama / dada would never ever hurt you . Nor would we ever think or dream of it . You are the greatest gift in our life . We love you so much . Even when you feel like you’re “ too much “ even when you feel yourself spiraling . Even when you’re head feels loud and scary . We will always love you . So much “

“ you are our kid . And we adore and love and cherish getting to look after you . To teach you thinks and help you learn . To guide you and help you make good choices . To teach you how to be kind to yourself ! To celebrate all your victories ! Big and small ! To lift you up and help you get back up . To wipe your tears . Bandage your ouchies . All of it . We cherish and adore getting to do all of it . Being your parents is such a blessing ! You’re the best kid anyone could ever have . Don’t ever forget that okay sweet boy ? “

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As there's a blocklist going around that targets anyone who supports padded agere and accuses them of being abdl/nsfw, here's a clarification:

I am NOT pro -abdl/ddlg

My blog is not and never will be sexual

And padded agere IS NOT the same as abdl or sexual in any way.

Diapers aren't inherently sexual and neither is someone who isn't (bodily) a baby needing them.

I think that 'blocklist' blog is someone who's young and put themselves on a pedestal as the Ultimate Knowledge Holder on agere. That, or they're a troll.

Padded regressors, you are just as pure and innocent as regressors who don't use diaps. You'll always be welcome on my blog.

While we're at it, I also completely accept any shape and size and ability of regressors: regressors who wear diaps, who need help going potty or taking showers, who can't walk, who need mobility aids, who have speech impairments or difficulties talking, who need feeding tubes, urostromy pouches, external heart monitors, or any other kind of external disability aid- who need service dogs, or emotional support stuffies, who need braces or compression clothing, who stim loudly and unapologetically. Any and all regressors.

Don't let this blocklist blog slow you down. They don't have any valid 'proof' of you being gross, and anybody who follows their blocklist aren't people you want following you anyway.

Stay strong, babies <3

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Reminder that . .

feeling upset / crying easy / crying before talking about big / tough emotions is valid ! 🤍 having a hard time verbally communicating is valid ! 🤍 if you’re shy and quiet or hyper verbal and energetic when playing ! 🤍 you struggle with hyper sexuality due to sexual trauma ! 🤍 you struggle with icky brain thoughts when tiny ! 🤍 your regression isnt always positive and happy ! 🤍

You have meltdowns / shutdowns , you have tantrums , cry , scream , throw things ! 🤍 have a hard time sharing your toys ! 🤍 have a hard time letting people touch your stuff ! 🤍 have a hard time being affectionate ! 🤍 you have accidents , are clumsy , spill stuff and have poor interoception issues or spacial awareness ! 🤍 you struggle with intrusive thoughts , feelings of self harm or suicidal ideation when tiny ! 🤍 it’s okay if you struggle with racing thoughts , intense anxiety at night . Trouble sleeping , nightmares . 🤍

Healing isn’t linear . It’s messy . It’s not always easy ! Sometimes we’ll fall , sometimes we’ll mess up that doesn’t mean our progress isnt valid . Doesn’t mean we aren’t valid ! 🤍

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this is actually me hehe

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tiny baby who struggles with getting bodily cues and signals . Who try so hard to not have accidents but usually end up having one . Feeling rly shy and embarrased :(

Carer who keeps diaps + pullups on hand . Helping clean their baby and getting them into a pullup or diap . Letting their tiny thing pick out ones they like to help make needing to be padded easier : ‘) / vpos

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Carer who runs their baby a warm bath to help with their chronic pain . Hating to see them in pain and getting fussy :( after the bath they lift their little baby out and carry them to their nursery . Laying them down on top of their towel .

Tiny baby staring up at their carer with big sparkling doe eyes . Their carer handing them a rattle stuffie as they shake it gently . Their tiny baby wiggling about and starting to fuss . Soft whines . Carer grabs their vanilla oat baby lotion and gently rubs it on their skin . They hum softly getting their baby changed into a dip and a soft footed pj .

They lift their baby up and watch them scrunch up before holding them close to their chest . Carrying them into the kitchen to make them a warm bottle . Gently bouncing them on their hip to try and ease their whines . “ it’s okay sweet boy , mamas getting you a bottle “

After making their bottle and testing to make sure it’s the right temp they carry them over and cradle them gently in their arms . Placing the bottle to their mouth as the little thing latches on and drinks . The fussiness leaving as they relax and melt into their mamas arms .

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boyre baby and his mama 💭

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“ m scared I’ll eventually be too much mama nd u won’t want to be m mama anymore :( m scared I’ll push you away “ ( tiny )

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“ You could never push me away sweet boy. Mr mama will always always be here for you and with you ! Theres no where else mama would rather be okay ? I love being your mama it is such an honor . You’re the best little boy ever and being your mama makes me so happy “ ( mama )