thewalkerintothesunset

[thewalkerintothesunset]

In response to the "trad wife" who slipped into the polyamory tags:

Consider me a "trad wife". I'm a stay at home mom, married for a long time. I take care of the kiddo, the housework, most of the cooking. I bake bread and pies for the holidays, we have cutesy matching outfits for family photos. To an outsider we're a picturesque "normal" family.

My husband and I love each other, we're each other's best friends, partners. We're "satisfied" as you put it but more than that, were extremely happy together. We've built a life together, raise a kiddo, have a lovely home.

We're also non-monogamous and practice polyamory. Not because "I'm not enough," or because "he's not enough". It's not because we're unhappy, or bored, or have a desire to "cheat".

To put it simply, we love love, and we love people. We love intimate relationships. With each other, with friends, with people who are more than friends. We simply chose not to put restrictions when it comes to how other relationships evolve.

I hope you're happy in your monogamous marriage. That's great. Wonderful. Everyone deserves happy, healthy, wonderful relationships.

But to accuse our relationship dynamics of being "toxic" or "unveiled cheating" is pure ignorance on your part. To say it's women's way of having "back up" options, is degrading.

Cheating would imply dishonesty or unfairness. The reality is we're honest, communicate about everything, prevent unfairness and navigate all the same things most relationships do.

My marriage is enough, and we're secure enough in our relationship to not be afraid of how other relationships may evolve. Whether it's simply a friendship, a sexual exploration, or a deeply intimate connection. I love that my husband is a wonderful, loving, funny human being and that others can experience those wonderful parts of him. I'm a loving, creative, sexual, playful, caring person, and I love that I can share those parts of myself with others - freely, without judgment, without fear of losing my husband because of it.

My relationships can grow and evolve freely. The only difference in my monogamous relationships was that I had to deny any deep feelings I may have had for another person - I couldn't express my love for my best friend of 15 years. My monogamous (now ex) husband at the time got angry when I verbally expressed my feelings to him about her. He became jealous, suspicious, and angry any time I talked to my friend. I never cheated on him, and I never have or would cheat on anyone.

I've since realized I want the freedom to tell friends and people I'm close to that I love them, that I think they're beautiful. I want to be able to hug them without being accused of betraying someone's trust. I want to be able to kiss them if it authentically feels right in the moment - to express my love in any way that feels authentic. And I want my (now) husband to have that freedom too, without fear of me resenting him for it.

Monogamy maybe right and wonderful for you. Non-Monogamy and Polyamory are right for me.

You know what they say about assumptions?

[thewalkerintothesunset]

Cringing over some wierdo tradwife acc using the poly tag to assume women are "confused creatures who havent found the right man yet"!!

I hate folk who try to crossover into tags ?? Like go away

Respectfully, not everyones tryna submit to men either- your way has issues too (especially the hyper religious aspect) but its what you want, so idgaf

Like, where did poly=cheater come from?? If anything , with communication and stuff theres no need to worry about it to the extent you would in monogamy (it still exists, its just slightly different) - cheating is about lack of consent and knowledge, not being able to date more than one?? Isnt that?? The opposite??

Also keeps other forms of non monogamy outta the picture , where a couple can be romantically exclusive , or where its even a strictly a sexual thing a couple does together

Like.. I have a dude partner yes , but idgaf about doing this to please him and he doesnt care either, if i wanted to do this on my own i would and do

Im in a triad but that shits rare as it is - theres a lack of rank there (I hope) , and its open instead of closed- neither of em are involved in what i do (i also never went for a triad either, i was down for them dating apart from me)

Also polygamy as opposed to polyamory , is unbalanced and scorned as is + its the wrong terminology lol

blocked em so idr what it exactly said , but it sure ticked me off lmao

[thewalkerintothesunset]

Oh, to be bi , poly and still after a GF..

I think the more free ive been to persue relationships and the more ive been able to relate with someone who also is as gay as i am - the more i realize im happy being non mono.

Then the poly dating pool just made feel like.. god i hate the couples...

I dont wanna deal with unicorn hunting, M/F , closed ass couples who dont realize its kindaaaa unfair to want to be with them and only them , without it being the partners choice to...

Id love to be in a triad again too- it just never seems to be possible to be taken and still have a couple ok with that in general- putting aside the fact that none of the men in these couplets are queer in the slightest .. mainly a straight guy and the woman of the pair is the gay one , or questioning it ...

Aaaa but im just ranting at this point lmao

[thewalkerintothesunset]

yes, i am a needy sub.

but a needy domme sounds so hot. they wouldn't be able to keep their hands to themselves.

always needing to fuck me, grind against me, touching me, hear me moan their name out, needing their mouth on me anywhere.

like i come home from work, exhausted, only to be pinned against a wall, roughly kissing me and touching all over my body. they strip my clothes off and just carry me over to the nearest surface, dropping to their knees and diving into my wet pussy like they're starving.

i would just take it because no matter how tired i am, i'm their good girl, and i'm theirs to use 🤍

[thewalkerintothesunset]

so uh….. the idea of someone fucking me for stress relief…. kinda hot 

[thewalkerintothesunset]

For this blog, call me walker.

This is my adult content and interaction and rant blog, so i can reblog and interact whatever i want without fear.

Main/art blogs for muts/friends only.

The identity stuff :

-diagnosed autistic + selective mute / suspect Borderline

(It was for school when i was in it, so sadly idk how id get those records, id like to get rediagnosed)

-I love looking at new flags/labels!

- 23 , bi (toying with and relate to the omni label but idk the capacity.. but i like the bi community .. idk )

- Im a androgyne, i like my body to a certain extent but love being masc and confusing more than being femme - i go by any pronouns and encourage new ones

-Happily ambiamorus- im in a poly ship however and still am looking!

The personality stuff :

Im a sub leaning switch!

(Into bites/bruises/markings/oral stuff/force feminization/being a masochist/dumbification/being some womans plaything as a sub )

(Like feminization/pegging/light teasing/eating out as a domme)

(Soft limit on blood/knife play)

(Hardest limit on scat, hard limit on pee, dealing with feet)

Dom stuff:

- sub men/masc folk, or mega soft subs/bottoms trigger my dom side

-i love caregiving and being a soft mommy domme - i prefer sfw to nsfw

-big focus on feminization.

Sub stuff:

-Kinda bratty to any men. Takes trust and a actual romantic element/strong bond - i find hard cishet maledoms corny , sorry.

-fully submissive to women and non men/NBs .

-hard limit on calling anyone "daddy"- ill call you anything else.

Interaction stuff:

- Im team "idc who interacts with me if it isnt harmful and incredibly graphic"

- Obvi no minors - i have different cleaner accounts out there

- My only DNI is Allocishet, masculine dom men .

What does this mean?

Are you born a man, straight, and not in the lgbtq+ community, all at once??? Typical hard dom, women must obey type ??

Then this DNI is for you- i dont wanna be mean but this is the only case ill need to liberally block.

(Theres exceptions but i think itll go into a possible sfw caregiver/little blog)

I love pan/bi/omni guys, adore AFABs who id with masculinity or AMABs who id with femme stuff ,fellow androgynes/nbs ,gender voids and wierdos , or newly blossomed guys...

- I am a age regressor of sorts - I go so deep that i consider it a different part of me- and my memories get hazy. Please dont try to trigger my little side unless you end up a caregiver of mine - it goes beyond a kink (but little me is open to nsfw?? I dont get it) and im still learning about it

Asks are open always