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I think it’s important to give yourself grace and acknowledge how you are still learning and unlearning, even when it’s hard. That quality of self-awareness is brave and necessary.

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Grace Kelly in Rear Window

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I refuse to complain.

I have no right to complain, not about my appearance nor about my health.

I have all the tools and knowledge to transform myself into the best possible version and until I tried everything, I simply refuse to complain about anything.

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the most subtle sign of a man that hates you on a subconscious level is sabotage.

he sabotages everything you want to do and MOST times, he makes it look romantic or cute or caring.

eg, the most common is when you are actively trying to loose weight and he is fully aware of that..

yet he brings you food.

do you know that sometimes he doesn't even know what he's doing..he may be doing it genuinely like caring that you shouldn't starve but it's a subconscious reaction .

it's later he realizes himself especially when he meets someone else who is his true reflection or he meets a grown healed version of himself if he's the type committed to growth or inner work.

sometimes we don't mean to genuinely hurt people but the subconscious is very powerful.

it controls 95 percent of our actions.

so the most powerful thing you can do for yourself is to be conscious, ie AWARE..

this is how you take control of your subconscious.

go and see how lots of men in relationships and marriage talk about their partners in private or to their friends.

that's why they don't want you to hang around with them and call it boys nights..lol

a man obsessed with you can't control himself..he will always want you every where with him ..

most times he will be the only one among his friends group who is always with his partner , they would sometimes mock him for it or he will try to Include his partner in boys stuff as he has nothing to hide ..

A man truly in love is an open book..you never need to guess or Google anything 😃😃

a lot of dad jokes is subtle diss .

ladies be careful.

male resentment is so dangerous as men hardly keep certain emotions to themselves..it's women who do that alot.

so when a man silently builds resentment against. it's a scary thing..he will destroy you even after you guys break up.

longevity is not a guarantee that it was a good relationship..

bad people stay together too.

we have seen men leave when after 40 years of marriage to go and start life afresh .

if you notice your man is sabotaging you even in good intentions..

nip it in the bud IMMEDIATELY!

if not..it grows.

i know some of us won't agree with me on this but I know male nature and I am never wrong: the man you have chemistry with will be the one to resent you so much as men resist chemistry with women on a spiritual level.

men need to EARN their way so if it was chemistry that brought or is keeping you both together..

that man will be your biggest nightmare..

ps: it's ok to discard men too after he has served a purpose.. you don't have to marry him or date him.

ladies learn to detach emotions and reserve it for those who have EARNED it .

even your anger should be expensive!

chemistry most times it's built from the place of victimhood.

usually a man you met at a low moment of your life who maybe "healed" or "comforted" you or "covered " your shame or made you feel Worthy or special.

Credit: Pearl notes

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“Discipline is getting up at six A.M. in Hollywood when you’d rather be in New York waking at eleven. Discipline, too, is learning something new and strange or refusing a second piece of cinnamon toast. Discipline is not putting things off until tomorrow. If today is for buying spring clothes, you buy them. If now is the time to take singing lessons, you take them now, not next year. Next year you can take singing lessons, too, but they are next year’s lessons. There’s a time for everything.”

— Grace Kelly on self-discipline (Photoplay - February 1955)

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No synthetic fibers, no teflon, no seed oils, no numbers on ingredient lists, non toxic cleaning supplies, no artificial fragrances, eat organic foods, farmers market visits, daily sunlight, good hydration and plenty hours of rest.

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