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I Want A Truthful Relationship Or Do I?

“I want a truthful relationship” is a statement most people will subscribe to in theory. Yet, in practice, do they have the consistency, discipline, and rawness to maintain a truthful relationship? When back in a corner, most people will self-preserve. Being truthful takes not only being different but going against some instincts. So, Mr. LoveSnob asks, “Do you want a truthful relationship or…

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I Don't Want To Argue

If you find yourself saying, “I don’t want to argue.” You have the wrong idea of what it means to argue. We all should want to argue with the people we Love. Yet, why and how we argue can be why disagreements do not resolve. In this week’s podcast, I explain why “I don’t want to argue” says a lot about your effectiveness in your relationships. The LoveSnobs

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Someone Is Going To Pay!

When sitting and watching a television series, I heard someone say, “if it doesn’t succeed, someone is going to have to pay.” We take this same approach with our relationships. We say, “I have been heartbroken before, so prove you are different.” We don’t factor in the other person in has also been hurt. Maybe not in the same way, but wounded nonetheless. Believing past pain gives us the right to…

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Why Are Accountable Relationships Important?

Why Accountable Relationships Are Important? Close your eyes and imagine a relationship with zero accountability. Do you see commitment? Can you call it a relationship without responsibility? Now, think of being in relationships that require people to be accountable. Do you see purpose and priority? This distinction is an example of why Accountable Relationships are important. Yet, I…

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What Are Accountable Relationships?

What Are Accountable Relationships?

What are Accountable Relationships? Accountable Relationships are relationships governed by choosing to honor agreements. They are primarily Friends, Romantic Partners, and Co-parents. These are all relationships we consciously choose. However, you can have an accountable relationship with a relative, but only when you build a friendship component.   What Is The Difference Between An…

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We Are Committed To Their Habits

In this week’s podcast, I explain how we are committed to a person’s habits, not the person. Whether building a friendship or a romantic partnership, we must understand who they are. Examining their habits is the only way to understand a person’s core. Can we live with a messy person? Do they avoid conflict? Are they very surface thinkers? Watch who they are and not who they say they are. Then…

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The Four Types of Relationships

The Four Types of Relationships

Throughout all our relationships, we are in consistent flux. Defining the terms of our affinities will clarify the bonds. So, what are these four ways to interconnect with each other? The four types of relationships are Transactional, Reciprocal, Necessity, and Convenience. Knowing and understanding them is vital to navigating our connections. So, Let’s further discuss the four relationship…

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Justifying Poor Behaviors In Relationships

Justifying Poor Behaviors In Relationships

Justifying poor behaviors in relationships. Why do we search for the good in people? It’s because all we see is wrong in ourselves. We believe if we forgive them, we can forgive ourselves. Yet, we commit to people who promise to treat us well—calling them friends and partners—and ask ourselves daily what those words mean. Should you be committed still in question? Or should we encourage people to…

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Knowing What To Expect In Your Relationships Is Key

Knowing What To Expect In Your Relationships Is Key

Knowing What To Expect From Your Relationships is Key.   The two most significant mistakes people make in their relationships: Are to expect more than what people promise to give or give more than we said we would provide. Yet, the only part of the relationship someone is responsible for is the agreed-upon terms. So, when reaching agreements, make sure you ask for what you want/need and give what…

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Are You Prioritizing Your Relationships?

Are you prioritizing your relationships? That is the question. If the answer is no, listen to this podcast with the sole purpose of starting to prioritize your relationships. If yes, Aziz may give you new skills to maintain your relationships. Either way, this podcast will provide you with four ways to prioritize the health and accountability of your relationships. So, Listen, Learn, and Apply!…

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Accountable Dating

Accountable Dating is dating solely for a partner in life—no more small talk, grand gestures, or leading with sex. Instead, we are building the foundation for a long-term commitment. Aziz explains how to accomplish your dating goals in this week’s podcast. So, listen closely; by the end, you will be Accountable Dating.

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Do You Know Your Manipulating

Do You Know Your Manipulating

Do You Know Your Manipulating:   We all manipulate because self-preservation is a part of survival. Deciding to be in a long-term relationship with friends, a spouse, or have children means constructing a village. People who walk through life with you. Manipulating them is counterproductive. The LoveSnobs understand some people don’t know they are doing it because it is socially acceptable.…

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First Dates - Four Ways To Build A Strong Foundation

First Dates – Four Ways To Build A Strong Foundation   First Dates are not tricky if you aren’t trying to be tricky. When people say, “be yourself on the first date.” They mean allowing others to get to know you. Tell them who you were, who you are, and who you want to be! Don’t hold back, and don’t second guess yourself. The truth will make your decisions. Here are four ways to start working…

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Four Forms of Relationship Manipulation

Four Forms of Relationship Manipulation

Four Forms of Relationship Manipulation Four Forms of Relationship Manipulation in accountable relationships Relationships take having the mentality that we are in this together. The health of any relationship hinges on our ability to remain on the same page. How do we stay on the same page? Transparent! Our ability to keep our Loved ones informed. Having the ability to make informed decisions…

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Stealing From The Rich Giving To The Poor

“Stealing From The Rich Giving To The Poor.” It is a podcast about Why people mistreat those in their corner yet treat those good who mistreat them. Join the discussion as Aziz list and explain four reasons people adopt this mentality. He adds ways to avoid adopting this mindset as well. Should we be stealing from the rich, giving to the poor? Check Out the Podcast and see. So, listen, Learn, and…

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Personal Relationships Affect The Community

Personal Relationships Affect The Community

Personal Relationships Affect The Community is this week’s podcast discussion.” I invited two Harambee members, Ty (The Founder) and Sha (Public Relations), to discuss how personal relationships affect the community. We will discuss the black community, the importance of a village mentality in the community, what is “community” and how we build community. I hope you enjoy the podcast discussion.…

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Wounds Affect Our Relationships

Wounds will affect our relationships. It’s healthy to have scars when entering new relationships. We all fall before we master anything. Yet, it is unhealthy to carry unhealed wounds into relationships. They infect our connections before they have time to merge. Mahagony joins me to discuss how wounds affect our relationships if we focus on the trauma—more than on healing. I hope you enjoy the…