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if sam had a nickel everytime his brother died and he was trying to cope and live with it but then his brother came back and shamed him for it excessively and brutally to the point where it drove sam to loathe himself and think so low of himself that he wanted so badly to die and covered that up with the image that he was sacrificing himself, he'd have two nickels which isn't a lot but it's weird that it's happened twice

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i know it’s just bad writing, but i’m still so obsessed with making sense of the the difference in sam’s attitude about how people have treated him in 4x21 compared to how he remembers it in 13x03. like thinking about sam’s hurt indignation when ruby says “i had no idea dean would do that to you,” about the forced detox and him saying “yeah, you and me both” in that way, and then around nine years later he says to dean about that whole arc “you saved me,” and he says to jack, “my family helped me through that.” like, just younger sam still having it in him to feel something, anything negative about being treated poorly and unfairly versus older sam looking back on being hurt and mistreated and thinking, i was being helped, i was being saved… it makes me so !!!!!!!! 

i mean, think about the sheer volume of guilt and blame that was shoved down sam’s throat in the year that followed the events of 4x21 over season five that would have altered his perception of himself and what happened to him, such that at the end of the season he’s thinking that he’s the least of anybody that he knows, even as he gears up to sacrifice everything - his life, his body, his eternal soul - to save them all. like, the way he internalized all of that shame and that blame and it became self-loathing and over time it just built up inside him – because it’s not like he stops being blamed for this, dean brought it up again in 8.23 and it got brought up in s9 too and not once did he get absolution from any character about it –  and so of course he looks back and thinks, i was a monster and i didn’t deserve to be treated any better than how i was treated, he looks back and he thinks, they helped me, they saved me, even when they trapped me in a cell and said they didn’t care if i lived or died.

but then when you also take into account seasons 8 and 9 - in season 8, sam thinks his brother is dead and tries to move on healthily and build his own life and he just gets dragged through the mud for it by dean and by others, he’s made to feel so bad for it that by the end of the season he feels like he’s better off dead because he let his brother down so many times - and just for trying to deal with grief and trauma in the only way he felt he could? and yet he feels so bad for it he said he never forgave himself even three years later and still apologizes. and then in season 9, sam’s last great stand against being mistreated by dean, not one single person validates his anger at dean either, including dean himself who acts like it’s unfair? later in season 9 and then in season 10, dean spits sam’s words (that he wouldn’t “save” dean in the same way) back at sam and sam is basically made to believe (see his convo with charlie in 10.18) that his anger at dean was unwarranted, that dean did the right thing, that by extension any negative response to mistreatment is unfair. 

so after all that blame, all that guilt, just clearly being internalized and coming out in sudden bursts of desperation and despair like 8.23 - and more importantly, after season 9, being made to feel like he really has no right to object to being mistreated (and that’s been a recurring theme anyway, with sam getting shit for wanting to leave an abusive childhood behind, the way that sam so gamely takes punches from dean and says you satisfied instead of getting angry at being hurt, sam’s almost pathological ability to forgive those who wronged him, sam supporting lucifer’s injured body with his own to save him in service of a greater good in season 11, sam not being angry at god for being a deadbeat despite keeping faith for so long), being made to think that he was in the wrong for being angry about something as awful as having your body violated like that without your consent…..

then you have season 13 sam, who just has all of this inside him that’s built up and calcified over the years, and the blows to his self-worth and his autonomy have just kept coming and coming and coming and coming and that young man in season 4 who was shocked and hurt that his brother would do something like that is just gone, the young man who would be upset that someone would lie to him and hurt him like that is dead. and he’s replaced by someone whose experiences have forced him into this place of kindness and forgiveness that stems from the most awful self-loathing and self-blame and lack of self-worth, that sense of forgiveness that, uncovered, is really just an open invitation to hurt him because he no longer has the ability to think he deserves to be treated well or kindly or honestly or in a way that’s respectful to his autonomy. and so i can’t believe dean would do that to me becomes dean helped me, dean saved me and it just shatters me whenever i think about it 

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ok i keep remembering a part in spn s9 where sam keeps telling dean that they solved a case like this before or that they solved a certain case, and dean being confused because no they didn't, and then them realizing that it was because gadreel locked him in his mind and made him solve fake cases in his head,, and now i just want to ask was that Real in the show or was it a fic. i cant remember. also if it's not real im gonna file a lawsuit against the writers because wtf it's so logic

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i just realized that in the first episode there was the woman in white and both mary and jess were in white when they died so basically there were three dead women in white in that episode

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Tag and reblog a character you are indifference/neutral for (meaning you don't resonate with their stans or antis)?

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He sweetheart glad I found your blog. I have been reblogging a lot from it.

aw thank you! so glad someone's enjoying hahah<333

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@lorewhoresam lmfao look

thelorewhore and @lorewhoresam? a match made in heaven

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surprise, fellow kids. I bet you thought you’d seen the last of thelorewhore

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I’m thinking about getting a hamster and naming it after #sastiel. Sound off in the replies if this is a bad idea.

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If there’s one thing I learned since I signed up on 12/29/2020 6:18:37 PM, it’s that #anti dean winchester takes up too much of my time.

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Cunty sam stan -ism seem to be contagious

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ok spn blogs type in “supernatural” “dean winchester” “sam winchester” and “castiel” in your tags and add the first suggestion that isn’t just their names i am curious

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King of reacting

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reblog and put in the tags something you love about the person you reblogged from, or a creation of theirs that you like or a good memory you have of them, just anything sweet you might think that they should know <3

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