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Chai tea bag + lil but of brown sugar + apple cider packet + 16 oz. mug of hot but not quite boiling water

it will not Fix You but like. maybe. maybe.

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I rambled about this in tags on another post but I can’t emphasize enough how only focusing on large-scale issues WILL lead to hopelessness & burnout. Activism must include small-scale, achievable works. If you don’t have something you can get your hands around and look at directly, despair will eat you alive.

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advice i think we should tell children is that when adults say stuff like ‘now that i’m an adult i get really excited about stuff like coffee tables and bathrooms and rugs etc’ they don’t mean ‘and now i don’t care about blorbo and squimbus from my childhood tv shows anymore’ bc your average adult still loves all the same pop culture stuff they always did; they just have a greater appreciation for the mundane as well. growing up just means you can enjoy life twice as much now. you can get really excited about a new stuffed animal AND about a new kitchen sponge. peace and love

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One of the things which I think should be most shocking to people who have no experience with Homeless shelters is how often they have policies which *actively make it harder for their residents to find or keep a job*.

What happens if you have a strict curfew but the bus back from your new job only comes once every hour? Better hope you don't leave work even five minutes late, otherwise you ain't getting to sleep indoors tonight! Hope that doesn't impair you at work tomorrow!

Also, better not try to get any swing or night shift work!

This is so obviously stupid and counterproductive that I think those of us who have never had first-hand knowledge of being homeless can't imagine that this kind of stuff is *normal* in American shelters.

Like legitimately they seem designed to keep people homeless.

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please know that there's no limit to the amount of boops i'm happy to receive. if you think even for a second that i'll get annoyed if you boop me "too many times" you are wrong and i'm gonna need you to boop me again

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The next Tumblr addition should be the ability to set traps for mutuals. Like you mark a post as being a trap for so-and-so, and when they reblog they get a little pop up of a box propped up with a stick falling and the words "Haha! @phaeton-flier knew you would reblog that!"

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important info for anyone who doesn't know. you can boop the cat on the counter on desktop. it will boop you back. with a little meowing pop up. enjoy!

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the scam allegations against ahmed 90-ghost have reached reddit btw

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mutuals opt in to boops for me please please please

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Reblog if its ok to spam you with boops

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"But what if they're just SAYING it's fine but actually they're LYING because they need ME to be the one to realize that-" Honey if they're literally lying to your face in response to your attempts to communicate how is that in any way your fault or responsibility

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Keep Yourself Safe

I’m so tickled by this. Lol. Lmao even.

For people who can’t see it or can’t tell for some reason, the letter K, Y and S are bolded in the ask.

This is maybe the funniest way anybody could send hate btw.

Because like, clearly this clown wants to send me hate mail about my opinions about lesbianism, but they don’t even have the backbone or— more likely— the skill to do it properly. Come on, man. I made it so easy. You don’t have to show your real face and I’m almost certain I have media attachments turned on for anon. Which means you could have sent me anything. And you chose the coward’s way out. They sent me a message that without the context of the bold text, and even with it, just kinda reads like a nice anon telling me to have a good day. And I will. Every day. Being a cis man who is a lesbian. Die mad about it.

Anyway, if this was meant to hurt my feelings, it didn’t. If anything, I got really hype. I’ve been on tumblr for almost 13 years and never gotten hate mail. This is fun. 1/10 — bad hate mail. Do better.

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Lesbians, what is your gender?

Woman (cis)

Woman (trans)

Man (cis)

Man (trans)

Lesbian

Butch

Femme

Transmasc

Transfem

None/agender/genderless

Nonbinary (other)

I am not a lesbian/show results

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do yall ever have that thing where it's about time to go to bed but you can't be bothered to put the work in to get ready for bed so you just stay up too late