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Franz Kafka, 1912

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“slut era” i whisper to myself as i rot in my bed, sick like a frail victorian child

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Something I think people who don’t live with chronic illness don’t understand is that there is a big difference between resting to get better and resting to avoid getting worse.

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There’s no such thing as work-life balance for neurodivergent & chronically ill people.

This is because everything in my life requires work:

maintaining friendships

keeping up with my hygiene

managing bills

making money

remembering my basic needs

sleeping regularly

outputting creatively

All requires some aspect of work for me.

And when everything in your life requires work, your balance goes out the window.

If you're neurodivergent and overwhelmed — I see you.

If you're chronically ill and overwhelmed — I see you.

You're not dysfunctional.

You're not incapable.

You're doing your best.

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what is it with able bodied people saying “get well soon” after you say that you’re chronically ill?? like? i am not gonna? and i once literally responded with “i’m not gonna, it’s chronic, as in permanent.” and they went like “oh well, hope you get better!” like bro 💀

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“I know many people who are suspicious of diagnoses—they think of them as labels that reduce or stigmatize. I knew, already, that a diagnosis was not going to answer all my questions. But I craved a diagnosis because it is a form of understanding.”

Meghan O'Rourke “The Invisible Kingdom: Reimagining Chronic Illness”

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in another life, i find out i am autistic at 12 instead of at 29. i am still bullied, but my parents put me in another school. i get the support i need. i find friends who love me for who i am. my mom and dad don’t yell. instead, they comfort me during my meltdowns. they support me. i grow up knowing who i am, what i am, and i learn how my body works instead of wondering why i can’t speak the language of everyone else around me despite having english as my native language.

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Never thought there’d be a day where I’d be posting this… also it actually never occurred to me that I could post something like this?!?

Anyway… at 29, I find myself to be completely isolated - is it me or is it just life? I truly don’t know.

But if there are any depressed-anxious-neurodivergent folks out there who’d like to be friends, please do drop a comment or a dm or something. A few things about myself:

Forever a bookworm - my sole method of clinging on to the remnants of my sanity

Very much awkward at starting conversations but once I’m comfortable, I have a 101 questions to ask

Binge watch k-dramas and random tv series

I like discussing anything and everything random from food to nature

Currently pursuing my masters degree

Uhh idk what else to say…

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Man I'm getting real sick of this autism shit.

One moment I'm fine, the next moment someone tries to talk to me while I'm typing out a reply and it's just like I'm engulfed in the flames of fury that would put the sun to shame!

AND I GOTTA BE THE ONE TO CALM MYSELF DOWN BUT I DONT WANNA BE CALM I WANNA SCREAM AND THROW SHIT!

But noooo I gotta be DOMESTICATED and DOCILE and CIVIL

FUCK CIVIL I WANNA FUCKING BURN SHIT!!!!

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the autistic urge to d e s t r o y when you are upset

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The desire to join a book club and make new friends and be social vs. Wanting to read what I want, when I want, at the pace that I want, without the pressure of deadlines

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Fernando Pessoa // Anne Sexton

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Poetry is what helps me remember that even in my fragments, I am whole.

- Jennifer Huang

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Meme Monday! Who else can relate? 😂 Honestly, any book I see gets my attention, at least for a few minutes! I need to get better at reading the books I have (at least some of them!) before I get new ones. That probably isn't going to happen any time soon, seeing as I will be going to a bookstore cafe this weekend 😂