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your bed is probably as happy to see you as you are to see it. ‘here comes the warmth slab’ it thinks

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Flower crowns and cows

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A scrimblo and her bimbinis,,,

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this account is pro mspec lesbians and gays btw

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Here’s some positivity for affection between headmates!

It can be hard to get along with headmates sometimes, especially if you don’t seem eye to eye or struggle to find common ground. This post is for headmates who take the time to show kindness to each other!

💗 Shoutout to system caretakers, soothers, uplifters, and other headmates whose roles are cheering up the system when they’re down!

💖 Shoutout to headmates who are best friends, family, or are in romantic or queerplatonic relationships!

💕 Shoutout to headmates who like to give or receive hugs and kisses, headpats, belly rubs, ear scritches, back rubs, and other forms of physical affection!

💗 Shoutout headmates who always have a kind word to say, are attuned to their system’s emotions, and try to say nice things to cheer up their sysmates!

💖 Shoutout to headmates who don’t like physical contact but find other ways to help their system feel safe, secure, and loved!

💕 Shoutout to systems who share affection in the headspace and in the real world!

Affection between headmates can be a great way to bond and grow closer to each other as a system. If you want to start showing affection to some of your headmates but aren’t sure where to start, here’s some ideas!

- wrap the body up in a soft blanket

- do a chore or task that another headmate is supposed to do that they’ve been dreading

- leave a little sweet note somewhere for a different headmate to find

- spend time talking with your headmates, or set aside time to do one of your headmates’ favorite activities

- get creative! Find ways unique to your system to show your affection and spread kindness and cheer to your headmates

Please remember to respect each other’s boundaries and ask permission to be affectionate! Kindness and respect can go a long way in bringing a system together. 💖

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happy new year friends

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Tbh if I were a right winger looking to torpedo queer spaces, the no kink at pride people would be the torpedo. Sanitizing our community, or segments thereof, confines us to mediocrity imo

Exactly, and I have no doubt they've already started doing this.

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You’re early.

I missed you.

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the first of 14 epic cwilbur design portraits >:) this design is by katie @wolfhotels !

gonna try to get 2 out a day going forward >:) all are coloured so it’s just gonna be experimental rendering on each!

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Some origins sketches!!

One of my fav series are back no way

I like Scott’s skins sm

Siblings

the baby bug man™️

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sits here making the minecraft damage noise every few seconds

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i’m so excited for when i figure out how to make a side blog on the mobile website, bc i have a ton of shit i want to reblog to it. i’m currently using my likes as a save/reblog later type thing. for when i make this side blog

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FYCK YOU people who think hanukkah is the 'main jewish holiday' because it's near christmas.

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why are we tryna gatekeep who and how one can use the term queerplatonic, my good god. why cant we just let the involved parties label their own relationship pls.

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hi mutuals! In case no one has told you today: you are capable of unimaginable violence 💜 💫 🤗

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"it's okay to live with your parents as an adult if you're disabled" "it's okay if it's a cultural thing" "it's okay if you're trying to save mon-" shh. listen. it is okay for any reason. you don't need to have a justification. if your parents are alright with it and you're alright with it you can just do it. peace and love on planet earth etc etc

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The Pangender Flag

Definition: A person who feels that they are all genders. Their gender may switch from one to another, fluctuate in between, be simultaneous, or a mix of those.

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