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Patriots Vote.

THE BEST WAY TO SAY "I LOVE AMERICA" IS BY VOTING! THINK OF THE COUNTLESS AMERICANS WHO STRUGGLED, FOUGHT, AND DIED SO THAT YOU COULD LIVE IN A DEMOCRACY -- A LAND IN WHICH WE THE PEOPLE HAVE A VOICE.

THE FOUNDERS CREATED A GOVERNMENT IN WHICH YOUR VOICE MATTERS, BECAUSE THEY BELIEVED THAT *YOU* MATTER.

PLEASE, THANK THE MEN AND WOMEN WHO GAVE YOU A VOICE IN HOW YOU ARE GOVERNED, AND WHO, IN MANY CASES, FOUGHT AND DIED TO GIVE YOU THAT VOICE.

THANK THEM FOR THEIR SACRIFICE BY EXERCISING THE RIGHT ON WHICH EVERY OTHER RIGHT YOU HAVE DEPENDS:

THE RIGHT TO VOTE.

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Eppure è pur sempre distante ciò che la notte avvicina…

_ Elle Stew _

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Earth and Moon as seen from Space by Japanese satellite - Himawari-8

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- as for sex appeal, I think that things women do to look better are the best investment of their energy. fitness, taste in flattering clothes, makeup, posture, choice of hairstyle and accessories, and movement.

- beyond that, I'd say a woman's energy and enthusiasm matter. her kindness and caring about others matters, tho it might not matter to all guys. if I sense unkindness in a woman, or her using kindness, enthusiasm, laughter and so on as a way of getting what she wants, that's among the least attractive qualities a woman can have. it's very tempting to be more charming and warm to people when we want something from them. but if someone you're interested in observes you doing this, it's unattractive. it shows that you're okay with manipulating people, so any apparent enthusiasm or charm you show to *anyone* can't be trusted to be real. that's a big red flag.

- but you can wave all sorts of red flags in front of a lot of guys, and if you look pretty enough, they won't notice.

- as for charm, what I find most charming in a woman is her playfulness and humor. think about Audrey Hepburn in Roman Holiday. what makes her endearing is her playfulness, silliness, humor, and ability to find fun and adventure in everyday experiences. but on top of that, I'd say kindness and empathy are extremely charming. Hepburn demonstrates those qualities too. when I see a woman caring about someone when she has nothing to gain, she rises in my estimation. it's the exact opposite of the quality I mentioned earlier, of using charm and laughter to manipulate, which only gives me a sense that a woman is dangerous and to be avoided.

- it seems to me the traits that I just listed, except the ones that have to do with physical attractiveness, are mostly more about a woman's *substance* than the ones listed by the original poster. I suppose I would recommend someone watch Roman Holiday and study Audrey Hepburn very carefully if their goal is to be more charming.

Little things to be more charming ౨ৎ

holding eye contact when speaking to someone. takes some practice but so so worth it <3

don't be shy about your niche interests!! even if people don't fully get it, it makes you interesting!!

remember people's names!!

accept compliments, don't go "oh noo you're too kind I'm so ugly I look awful blah blah blah" when people say something nice to you.

signature pen. Don't question it. every cool girl has a signature pen.

always look out for others, make sure no one feels left out when you hang out with a group, check up on your friends, etc etc

listen closely and think before you speak, that way you won't stumble over your words and appear more collected and calm! :)

"please" and "thank you" ALWAYS.

you don't have to be perfect at something to have fun. I'm terrible at golf (a danger to myself and others) but people don't mind and think it is cute and fun... a win-win for me lmao

dressing up? normal to you. Don't save your cute outfits for "special" days; every day is special and you deserve to look gorgeous. <3

Oh and sit up straight ;)

As always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and tips in the comments! <3

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

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Allie Leggett!

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Manarola, Italy (by Jack Ward)

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Before making any big decision, talk things over, even if doing so is hard. Suicide is the biggest of all decisions, and thus, more than any other decision we make in life, it must be talked over, and with the greatest of care. Sometimes, when we talk, another person can make us aware of the unique beauty we bring to the world--a beauty to which despair will always try to blind us.

I'd appreciate it if as many people as possible could reblog this, you never know it may reach someone who needs to see it.

Much love Holly XXXX