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FINDING YOUR PERFECT MATCH: THE NON-NEGOTIABLES IN LOVE

out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing by rumi (poetry) | musical spotlight: for us by v |

“out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field. i’ll meet you there.”

when looking for a long-term partner, understanding your non-negotiables — the qualities, values and traits that are absolutely essential for you in a relationship and partner — is crucial for forming a healthy, fulfilling connection. these non-negotiables help define your emotional and relational boundaries in identifying what you need in a partnership. through this, you ensure that you’re not compromising on things that are vital to your happiness and growth. without a clear vision, it’s easy to get swept up in surface-level attraction, chemistry, or external pressures, which can lead you to settle for less than what you deserve. by abiding by your values, you can avoid unwanted heartache and confusion, and make more intentional choices about who to invest your time and energy in.

in today’s society, especially with the astrological influences of pluto in aquarius and the rahu-ketu transit in 1H aquarius and 7H leo, depending on your values, finding a life partner, may become more challenging. these placements may bring an energy that will place more focus on casual dating, individuality, and collective experiences, which might lead to less depth in romantic relationships. in such a time, being clear about your non-negotiables can help you stay grounded and avoid misalignment in your dating life. by analyzing your birth chart, especially the areas connected to your spouse or long-term partnerships — 7H, VENUS, JUNO and the BRIEDE and GROOM persona charts — can give valuable insights. these influences can help you identify and understand the kind of partner and relationship dynamics that will most likely resonate with you on a deep, meaningful level.

☆ 7H ⇢ the seventh house governs your partnerships, both romantic and business-related. the sign ruling your 7H, along with any planets positioned here provides insights into the type of partner you are most likely to attract and the romantic dynamics you might experience.

☆ VENUS ⇢ venus, associated with taurus and libra, embodies themes of love, beauty, relationships, and personal values, as well as our connections to pleasure and aesthetics. by looking at this chart, you’ll be able to get an idea on how you may express love and attraction, as well as what you may value in your romantic partners.

☆ JUNO ⇢ juno is an asteroid that represents commitment, marriage and long-term partnership. your juno persona chart illustrates your ideal version of a partnership and the qualities you seek in a significant other. it also highlights an overview of your ‘future spouse,' representing the ideal version of a life partner for you.

☆ BRIEDE + GROOM ⇢ the briede and groom persona charts reveal your concept of an ideal spouse and illuminates what you truly seek in a partner. depending on your role –whether you identify with the bride or groom persona– these charts can give a deeper understanding into how you approach commitment and marriage. they also shed light on your underlying desires for these significant life stages, helping you realize the purpose of marriage in your life and how it may support your personal growth.

“when the soul lies down in that grass, the world is too full to talk about.”

ultimately, understanding your non-negotiables in dating and relationships is about knowing yourself and honoring your needs. it’s about investing in relationships that align with your core values and desires, rather than settling for something temporary. by truly understanding yourself, you set the foundation for success in a way that brings fulfillment to all aspects of your life. this way of thinking not only helps you in finding your person but also fosters a deep connection that can withstand the tests of time. by setting firm boundaries for yourself and future partnerships, you make a promise to never settle for less. you affirm that you are never 'too much,' and you are truly worthy of the love and partnership that will support you in becoming the best version of yourself.

“the love you seek, is seeking you.”

listed below are a few categories and questions i came across, along with some i added myself, that are worth considering when exploring your core values and needs. by reflecting on key questions related to these placements in your birth chart, you can see what truly matters to you. at the same time, you can gain insight into the dynamics your partner may bring attention to. all in all, this understanding will support and guide you toward the partnership you desire.

CONFLICT AND COMMUNICATION (3H)

☆ when we disagree, what’s the best way for us to resolve things?

☆ if someone wrongs you, how do you prefer they apologize?

☆ what is your preferred way of communication?

FAMILY AND FRIENDS (4H + 11H)

☆ what’s your relationship with your family like, and how much involvement do you expect from them?

☆ who are your close friends, and how do they reflect on your values?

☆ how would you expect me to relate to your family and friends?

FINANCES (2H + 8H)

☆ what are your views on budgeting, saving, and managing finances?

☆ how do you define wealth, and what are your spending/saving habits?

☆ how do you feel about shared finances? do you currently have any debts?

HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE (5H + 6H)

☆ how would you approach health concerns or medical conditions?

☆ what hobbies do you enjoy and how do you spend your free time?

☆ how would you tackle health issues pertaining to your partner/spouse?

MARRIAGE AND LIFE GOALS (1H + 2H)

☆ what’s your concept of marriage?

☆ what top values do you want to bring into our partnership/marriage?

☆ what do you hope to achieve in the near and long term?

RELIGIOUS AND SPIRITUAL LIFE (9H + 12H)

☆ what role does religion play in your life, and how do you envision us practicing together?

☆ what do you expect from your partner/spouse in terms of religious practice?

☆ how important is religious knowledge and growth to you?

ROLES AND RESPONSIBILITIES (6H + 7H)

☆ what are your expectations when dividing house and partnership responsibilities?

☆ what are your views on “his” and “her” roles?

☆ what is your idea of balance within partnership?

if you've made it this far, i hope you enjoyed this little corner of my world. thank you for reading and please feel free to share your thoughts. always remember to love yourself as if it's your greatest romance.

the pictures featured in this post are from pinterest.

until next time,

artemis x

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FOREIGN SPOUSE INDICATORS

here is a list of placements from both western and vedic astrology that may point to having a foreign spouse. one indication alone isn't usually enough to confirm a foreign spouse, but with the many placements listed, it may point to the idea that your partner may be one with foreign roots. however, remember that free will is always a factor. so, even though, the astrological indicators are there, life choices and circumstances can always influence outcomes!

musical spotlight: II MOST WANTED by beyoncé feat. miley cyrus

WESTERN ASTROLOGY INDICATORS:

these aspects can also be applied to marriage persona charts – juno, briede and groom.

✧.* 7H JUPITER

✧.* 7H RULER IN ASPECT TO JUPITER

✧.* 7H RULER IN SAGITTARIUS

✧.* 7H RULER IN 9H OR 12H -> can still be applied if 9H OR 12H RULER IS IN 7H

✧.* 7H RULER ASPECTS 9H OR 12H NORTH NODE

✧.* JUPITER ASPECTS NORTH NODE

✧.* PISCES OR SAGITTARIUS DSC (RULER -> JUPITER)

✧.* 7H RULER IN ASPECT TO 9H OR 12H RULER

✧.* 5H RULER ASPECTS 9H OR 12H RULER

✧.* 5H RULER IN 9H OR 12H -> the 5H also signifies romance and devotion. with the 5H ruler in 9H/12H, there may be a strong sense of alignment with a spouse who comes from a different cultural background. the connection could deepen your desire for a harmonious union with them, potentially leading to marriage

✧.* 9H VENUS

✧.* 9H JUPITER

✧.* DSC RULER IN THE 9H

✧.* 12H JUPITER (women)

✧.* ASTEROID GROOM/BRIEDE IN 9H, 11H OR 12H

✧.* ASTEROID GROOM/BRIEDE IN SAGITTARIUS

✧.* 7H RULER IS PISCES (TRADITIONAL RULER -> JUPITER)

✧.* 7H RULER IN 5H

✧.* 12H VENUS

✧.* 12H MERCURY -> this placement indicates that your partner may speak a language that is different from your own or one that you consider as 'foreign'

VEDIC ASTROLOGY INDICATORS:

these aspects can also be applied to the navamsa (D9) chart as it also focuses on married life. while many of the western indicators can be applied, gemini moon on twitter shared additional indications from the rashi (D1) and navamsa (D9) chart that may suggest the possibility of a foreign spouse.

✧.* 7H NODAL INFLUENCE (RAHU/KETU)

✧.* 7H DK MARS

✧.* MARS CONNECTED TO PISCES (12H) OR SAGITTARIUS (9H)

✧.* DK ASPECTS RAHU (D1)

✧.* DK MARS ASPECTED BY RAHU (D1)

✧.* 7H IN ARDA -> can lead native to do business in foreign lands, which can lead to higher chance of having foreign spouse

✧.* REVATI MOON

✧.* 7H RULED BY RAHU NAKSHATRAS (ARDA, SWATI, and SHATABHISHA)

✧.* DARAKARAKA (DK) CONNECTED TO 9H OR 12H -> in vedic astrology, the DARAKARAKA (DK) represents qualities of one's spouse and can provide insights about them. with DK connected to 9H OR 12H nakshatra, there's an indication that your partner may have connections to foreign cultures, an interest in travel, or even foreign roots

✧.* KETU'S INFLUENCE ON DK -> ketu represents non-traditional or unconventional qualities. its influence on the DK could point to a partner who is 'foreign' or very different from your typical environment

✧.* KETU'S INFLUENCE ON 7H RULER

✧.* 7H RULED BY JUPITER NAKSHATRAS IN D9 CHART (PUNAVARSU, PURVA BHADRAPADA, and VISHAKA)

✧.* VENUS-RAHU ASPECT (HIGHER CHANCE IN MEN'S CHART)

✧.* 7H RULER-RAHU ASPECT

✧.* CONNECTION BETWEEN 5H + 7H + 9H OR ITS RULERS -> native may have inter religion marriage or may marry someone outside own society

✧.* RAHU-JUPITER (HIGHER CHANCE IN WOMEN’S CHART)

✧.* MOON ASPECTING 9H OR 12H RULER

✧.* 9H MOON

✧.* 12H MOON

✧.* 7H RULER ASPECTS 9H MARS

if you've made it this far, i hope you enjoyed this little corner of my world. thank you for reading and please feel free to share your thoughts! always remember to love yourself as if it's your greatest romance.

the pictures featured in this post are from pinterest.

until next time,

artemis x

[the-returnofartemis]

SHE'S ENTERING HER: SOFT LIFE ERA

affirmation: waiting for a sign is no longer my strategy; i am my own sign to begin | musical spotlight: zen by jennie

"nobody gonna move my life, gonna touch my goal, my matter"

you are someone worthy of knowing, accepting, and loving yourself on all levels – mind, body and spirit. as a woman, and more importantly, a human being, you deserve a life that celebrates your growth, autonomy and your journey toward peace, love, joy, passion and fun. you can create your dream life if you believe in yourself and show up every day to take small, meaningful steps. whether it's pursuing a goal, nurturing your relationships, or simply practicing gratitude, every effort counts. don't let fear or limiting beliefs hold you back.

this is a reminder that you are capable of so much more than you might believe. below is a series of questions that you can use as a journal prompt to reflect on your potential. revisit your answers as often as needed to remind yourself of your power to create a life you love and become the best version of yourself.

define your vision ⇢ set smart goals ⇢ take consistent action ⇢ trust yourself

ꕥ what does she like?

ꕥ what does she not like?

ꕥ how does she dress?

ꕥ what does her daily routine entail? (activities, schedule)

ꕥ what does she look like?

ꕥ what are her boundaries?

ꕥ what is her career or profession? (career, job responsibilities)

ꕥ what are her hobbies and interests?

ꕥ what is her ideal lifestyle?

ꕥ how does she handle stress and challenges? (problem-solving approach, coping mechanisms)

ꕥ how does she financially take care of herself?

ꕥ what does she spend her free time doing?

ꕥ how does she navigate conflicts or disagreements? (communication style, conflict resolution)

"nobody gonna touch my soul, gonna match my glow, like i dare you"

ꕥ what does she consume on social media?

ꕥ what are her long-term goals and aspirations? (career ambitions, personal achievements)

ꕥ whom does she inspire to be like?

ꕥ what successes/accomplishments does she have?

ꕥ what are her wellness habits? (health and self-care routines)

ꕥ how is her mental health doing?

ꕥ how does she preferred to be treated by others? (standard expectations from relationships)

ꕥ what music does she listen to?

ꕥ how does she pick herself up when she's down?

ꕥ how do people treat her? (interpersonal relationships, kindness)

ꕥ what are her weekly routines?

ꕥ what values and principles guide her decision-making? (personal ethics)

ꕥ what is love to her? (interpersonal and romantic relationships)

if you’ve made it this far, i hope you enjoyed this little corner of my world. thank you for reading and please feel free to share your thoughts! always remember to love yourself as if it’s your greatest romance.

the pictures featured in this post are from pinterest.

until next time,

artemis x

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THE TENTH HOUSE: ANSWERING THE CALL TO WEALTH

the 10th house (10H) is arguably one of the most important houses in astrology, closely tied to your midheaven (MC), which represents your public image, reputation, and the way you are recognized in the world. it symbolizes your legacy, the energy others associate with you, and the role you naturally embody in society. however, understanding your career path goes beyond than just identifying the sign in your 10th house. to gain a deeper insight, you should also analyze its planetary ruler and the house it occupies, as these factors will give you a better idea about the careers that align with your natural strengths.

below is a guide shared by astrokit, along with some additional insights i’ve added, highlighting careers based on planetary placements in the 10th house, as well as the house placements of its planetary ruler, to help you align with your destined career path!

➶ ➴ if you follow vedic astrology, I recommend analyzing the 10H in the navamsha (D9) and dashamsha (D10) charts alongside the 10H in the rashi (D1) chart. combining insights from all three, along with the nakshatra ruler of the 10H will give a more well-rounded understanding of the career best suited for you.

CAREERS BY PLANETS IN THE 10H

sun: leadership, authority, government, politician, fame, boss, CEO

moon: women, hospitality, nursing, children, restaurants, commerce, mass media, public relations, travel

mercury: media, writer, communications, teacher, editor, author, transportation, craftsmanship, marketing

venus: arts, music, beauty, luxury, jeweler, entertainment, tourism, hotel management, design, graphics, fashion

mars: fitness, sports, entrepreneur, law enforcement, surgeon, doctor, engineer, military, sculptor, carpenter, cook

jupiter: law, teaching, travel, advertising, education, charity

saturn: organizations, metal industry, agriculture, service, labor, construction

north node (rahu): internet, entertainment, pharmaceuticals, research, engineer, innovation, electricity, sales, photography

south node (ketu): religion, spirituality, metaphysics, renunciation, research, charity, astrology, diviniation

uranus: science, electronics, internet, astrology, innovation, inventions, technology, crypto

pluto: research, insurance, surveillance, risk-management, death, investigator

neptune: photographer, movies, entertainment, drugs, poetry, music, liquids, alcohol

CAREERS BY THE 10H RULING PLANET THROUGH THE HOUSES

1H: self-employment, brand ambassador, entrepreneur

2H: banking, finance, investments, assets, consulting, teaching, writing, restaurants, speaking, vocals, dentistry, property, family legacy

3H: communication, marketing, social media, sales, writing, publishing, advertising, blogging, media, authorship, teaching (early education)

4H: asset management, real estate, vehicles, water, family, women, hospitality

5H: movies, films, glamour, stockbroker, education, authority, fame, children, romance, dating, hobbies

6H: health, service, law, labor, food, waiters, doctors, crime, justice, litigation

7H: law, business, commerce, exchange, consulting, public relations, marriage, therapist, designer, interior design, wedding industry, event planning, counselors

8H: insurance, social work, psychology, sex industry, occult, security, espionage, surveillance, taxes, death industry, divorce, research

9H: teaching (university), travel industry, hospitality, law, religion, foreign exchange, wedding industry, event planning

10H: leadership, government, politics, manager, CEO, presidency, public figure

11H: finance, networking, social media, acting, entertainment industry, parties/event planning

12H: charity, social work, hospitals, prisons, travel, foreign lands, mental health industry, artist, musician, import/export

if you’ve made it this far, i hope you enjoyed this little corner of my world. thank you for reading and please feel free to share your thoughts! always remember to love yourself as if it’s your greatest romance.

the pictures featured in this post are from pinterest.

until next time,

artemis x

[the-returnofartemis]

that last look 🤤 right up my alley!

What people say you should dress like as a Capricorn

Like boooo booo, I'm not wear business casual to the club. Like come on being a Capricorn is more than being a super ambitious girlbosss.

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UPCOMING POSTS

hi, here’s a list of a few upcoming posts that i had in mind to share, along with some that have been requested. the list is not in chronological order, as some make take longer than others. if you have any other requests, please let me know!

these are the posts that will be shared in the upcoming weeks —

OBSERVATION POSTS

astrocartography observations + helpful tips

age gap indicators

career observation (10H)

nakshatras + career observation

solar return observations

CELEBRITY REQUESTS

cha eunwoo future spouse observation

jake (enphyen) as a boyfriend

jjk love languages (bts)

namjoon as a boyfriend (bts)

namjoon’s thoughts on children + love life (bts)

[the-returnofartemis]

THE TENTH HOUSE: ANSWERING THE CALL TO WEALTH

the 10th house (10H) is arguably one of the most important houses in astrology, closely tied to your midheaven (MC), which represents your public image, reputation, and the way you are recognized in the world. it symbolizes your legacy, the energy others associate with you, and the role you naturally embody in society. however, understanding your career path goes beyond than just identifying the sign in your 10th house. to gain a deeper insight, you should also analyze its planetary ruler and the house it occupies, as these factors will give you a better idea about the careers that align with your natural strengths.

below is a guide shared by astrokit, along with some additional insights i’ve added, highlighting careers based on planetary placements in the 10th house, as well as the house placements of its planetary ruler, to help you align with your destined career path!

➶ ➴ if you follow vedic astrology, I recommend analyzing the 10H in the navamsha (D9) and dashamsha (D10) charts alongside the 10H in the rashi (D1) chart. combining insights from all three, along with the nakshatra ruler of the 10H will give a more well-rounded understanding of the career best suited for you.

CAREERS BY PLANETS IN THE 10H

sun: leadership, authority, government, politician, fame, boss, CEO

moon: women, hospitality, nursing, children, restaurants, commerce, mass media, public relations, travel

mercury: media, writer, communications, teacher, editor, author, transportation, craftsmanship, marketing

venus: arts, music, beauty, luxury, jeweler, entertainment, tourism, hotel management, design, graphics, fashion

mars: fitness, sports, entrepreneur, law enforcement, surgeon, doctor, engineer, military, sculptor, carpenter, cook

jupiter: law, teaching, travel, advertising, education, charity

saturn: organizations, metal industry, agriculture, service, labor, construction

north node (rahu): internet, entertainment, pharmaceuticals, research, engineer, innovation, electricity, sales, photography

south node (ketu): religion, spirituality, metaphysics, renunciation, research, charity, astrology, diviniation

uranus: science, electronics, internet, astrology, innovation, inventions, technology, crypto

pluto: research, insurance, surveillance, risk-management, death, investigator

neptune: photographer, movies, entertainment, drugs, poetry, music, liquids, alcohol

CAREERS BY THE 10H RULING PLANET THROUGH THE HOUSES

1H: self-employment, brand ambassador, entrepreneur

2H: banking, finance, investments, assets, consulting, teaching, writing, restaurants, speaking, vocals, dentistry, property, family legacy

3H: communication, marketing, social media, sales, writing, publishing, advertising, blogging, media, authorship, teaching (early education)

4H: asset management, real estate, vehicles, water, family, women, hospitality

5H: movies, films, glamour, stockbroker, education, authority, fame, children, romance, dating, hobbies

6H: health, service, law, labor, food, waiters, doctors, crime, justice, litigation

7H: law, business, commerce, exchange, consulting, public relations, marriage, therapist, designer, interior design, wedding industry, event planning, counselors

8H: insurance, social work, psychology, sex industry, occult, security, espionage, surveillance, taxes, death industry, divorce, research

9H: teaching (university), travel industry, hospitality, law, religion, foreign exchange, wedding industry, event planning

10H: leadership, government, politics, manager, CEO, presidency, public figure

11H: finance, networking, social media, acting, entertainment industry, parties/event planning

12H: charity, social work, hospitals, prisons, travel, foreign lands, mental health industry, artist, musician, import/export

if you’ve made it this far, i hope you enjoyed this little corner of my world. thank you for reading and please feel free to share your thoughts! always remember to love yourself as if it’s your greatest romance.

the pictures featured in this post are from pinterest.

until next time,

artemis x

[the-returnofartemis]

SHE'S ENTERING HER: SOFT LIFE ERA

affirmation: waiting for a sign is no longer my strategy; i am my own sign to begin | musical spotlight: zen by jennie

"nobody gonna move my life, gonna touch my goal, my matter"

you are someone worthy of knowing, accepting, and loving yourself on all levels – mind, body and spirit. as a woman, and more importantly, a human being, you deserve a life that celebrates your growth, autonomy and your journey toward peace, love, joy, passion and fun. you can create your dream life if you believe in yourself and show up every day to take small, meaningful steps. whether it's pursuing a goal, nurturing your relationships, or simply practicing gratitude, every effort counts. don't let fear or limiting beliefs hold you back.

this is a reminder that you are capable of so much more than you might believe. below is a series of questions that you can use as a journal prompt to reflect on your potential. revisit your answers as often as needed to remind yourself of your power to create a life you love and become the best version of yourself.

define your vision ⇢ set smart goals ⇢ take consistent action ⇢ trust yourself

ꕥ what does she like?

ꕥ what does she not like?

ꕥ how does she dress?

ꕥ what does her daily routine entail? (activities, schedule)

ꕥ what does she look like?

ꕥ what are her boundaries?

ꕥ what is her career or profession? (career, job responsibilities)

ꕥ what are her hobbies and interests?

ꕥ what is her ideal lifestyle?

ꕥ how does she handle stress and challenges? (problem-solving approach, coping mechanisms)

ꕥ how does she financially take care of herself?

ꕥ what does she spend her free time doing?

ꕥ how does she navigate conflicts or disagreements? (communication style, conflict resolution)

"nobody gonna touch my soul, gonna match my glow, like i dare you"

ꕥ what does she consume on social media?

ꕥ what are her long-term goals and aspirations? (career ambitions, personal achievements)

ꕥ whom does she inspire to be like?

ꕥ what successes/accomplishments does she have?

ꕥ what are her wellness habits? (health and self-care routines)

ꕥ how is her mental health doing?

ꕥ how does she preferred to be treated by others? (standard expectations from relationships)

ꕥ what music does she listen to?

ꕥ how does she pick herself up when she's down?

ꕥ how do people treat her? (interpersonal relationships, kindness)

ꕥ what are her weekly routines?

ꕥ what values and principles guide her decision-making? (personal ethics)

ꕥ what is love to her? (interpersonal and romantic relationships)

if you’ve made it this far, i hope you enjoyed this little corner of my world. thank you for reading and please feel free to share your thoughts! always remember to love yourself as if it’s your greatest romance.

the pictures featured in this post are from pinterest.

until next time,

artemis x

[the-returnofartemis]

FINDING YOUR PERFECT MATCH: THE NON-NEGOTIABLES IN LOVE

out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing by rumi (poetry) | musical spotlight: for us by v |

“out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field. i’ll meet you there.”

when looking for a long-term partner, understanding your non-negotiables — the qualities, values and traits that are absolutely essential for you in a relationship and partner — is crucial for forming a healthy, fulfilling connection. these non-negotiables help define your emotional and relational boundaries in identifying what you need in a partnership. through this, you ensure that you’re not compromising on things that are vital to your happiness and growth. without a clear vision, it’s easy to get swept up in surface-level attraction, chemistry, or external pressures, which can lead you to settle for less than what you deserve. by abiding by your values, you can avoid unwanted heartache and confusion, and make more intentional choices about who to invest your time and energy in.

in today’s society, especially with the astrological influences of pluto in aquarius and the rahu-ketu transit in 1H aquarius and 7H leo, depending on your values, finding a life partner, may become more challenging. these placements may bring an energy that will place more focus on casual dating, individuality, and collective experiences, which might lead to less depth in romantic relationships. in such a time, being clear about your non-negotiables can help you stay grounded and avoid misalignment in your dating life. by analyzing your birth chart, especially the areas connected to your spouse or long-term partnerships — 7H, VENUS, JUNO and the BRIEDE and GROOM persona charts — can give valuable insights. these influences can help you identify and understand the kind of partner and relationship dynamics that will most likely resonate with you on a deep, meaningful level.

☆ 7H ⇢ the seventh house governs your partnerships, both romantic and business-related. the sign ruling your 7H, along with any planets positioned here provides insights into the type of partner you are most likely to attract and the romantic dynamics you might experience.

☆ VENUS ⇢ venus, associated with taurus and libra, embodies themes of love, beauty, relationships, and personal values, as well as our connections to pleasure and aesthetics. by looking at this chart, you’ll be able to get an idea on how you may express love and attraction, as well as what you may value in your romantic partners.

☆ JUNO ⇢ juno is an asteroid that represents commitment, marriage and long-term partnership. your juno persona chart illustrates your ideal version of a partnership and the qualities you seek in a significant other. it also highlights an overview of your ‘future spouse,' representing the ideal version of a life partner for you.

☆ BRIEDE + GROOM ⇢ the briede and groom persona charts reveal your concept of an ideal spouse and illuminates what you truly seek in a partner. depending on your role –whether you identify with the bride or groom persona– these charts can give a deeper understanding into how you approach commitment and marriage. they also shed light on your underlying desires for these significant life stages, helping you realize the purpose of marriage in your life and how it may support your personal growth.

“when the soul lies down in that grass, the world is too full to talk about.”

ultimately, understanding your non-negotiables in dating and relationships is about knowing yourself and honoring your needs. it’s about investing in relationships that align with your core values and desires, rather than settling for something temporary. by truly understanding yourself, you set the foundation for success in a way that brings fulfillment to all aspects of your life. this way of thinking not only helps you in finding your person but also fosters a deep connection that can withstand the tests of time. by setting firm boundaries for yourself and future partnerships, you make a promise to never settle for less. you affirm that you are never 'too much,' and you are truly worthy of the love and partnership that will support you in becoming the best version of yourself.

“the love you seek, is seeking you.”

listed below are a few categories and questions i came across, along with some i added myself, that are worth considering when exploring your core values and needs. by reflecting on key questions related to these placements in your birth chart, you can see what truly matters to you. at the same time, you can gain insight into the dynamics your partner may bring attention to. all in all, this understanding will support and guide you toward the partnership you desire.

CONFLICT AND COMMUNICATION (3H)

☆ when we disagree, what’s the best way for us to resolve things?

☆ if someone wrongs you, how do you prefer they apologize?

☆ what is your preferred way of communication?

FAMILY AND FRIENDS (4H + 11H)

☆ what’s your relationship with your family like, and how much involvement do you expect from them?

☆ who are your close friends, and how do they reflect on your values?

☆ how would you expect me to relate to your family and friends?

FINANCES (2H + 8H)

☆ what are your views on budgeting, saving, and managing finances?

☆ how do you define wealth, and what are your spending/saving habits?

☆ how do you feel about shared finances? do you currently have any debts?

HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE (5H + 6H)

☆ how would you approach health concerns or medical conditions?

☆ what hobbies do you enjoy and how do you spend your free time?

☆ how would you tackle health issues pertaining to your partner/spouse?

MARRIAGE AND LIFE GOALS (1H + 2H)

☆ what’s your concept of marriage?

☆ what top values do you want to bring into our partnership/marriage?

☆ what do you hope to achieve in the near and long term?

RELIGIOUS AND SPIRITUAL LIFE (9H + 12H)

☆ what role does religion play in your life, and how do you envision us practicing together?

☆ what do you expect from your partner/spouse in terms of religious practice?

☆ how important is religious knowledge and growth to you?

ROLES AND RESPONSIBILITIES (6H + 7H)

☆ what are your expectations when dividing house and partnership responsibilities?

☆ what are your views on “his” and “her” roles?

☆ what is your idea of balance within partnership?

if you've made it this far, i hope you enjoyed this little corner of my world. thank you for reading and please feel free to share your thoughts. always remember to love yourself as if it's your greatest romance.

the pictures featured in this post are from pinterest.

until next time,

artemis x

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UPCOMING POSTS

hi, here’s a list of a few upcoming posts that i had in mind to share, along with some that have been requested. the list is not in chronological order, as some make take longer than others. if you have any other requests, please let me know!

these are the posts that will be shared in the upcoming weeks —

OBSERVATION POSTS

astrocartography observations + helpful tips

age gap indicators

career observation (10H)

nakshatras + career observation

solar return observations

CELEBRITY REQUESTS

cha eunwoo future spouse observation

jake (enphyen) as a boyfriend

jjk love languages (bts)

namjoon as a boyfriend (bts)

namjoon’s thoughts on children + love life (bts)

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Sources I used to study Vedic Astrology as a beginner :

I've gotten quite a few anon asks regarding how can one get into vedic astrology so I thought of making a post mentioning all the sources I personally used for studying astrology.

(NOTE: I'm not a professional astrologer and the books, videos and links mentioned in this post are the things which i personally used in my study. Feel free to correct me/add your own book, youtube channel or website recommendations!)

Books-

1. Nine planets and twelve bhavas by M.N Kedar.

2. 27 stars, 27 gods by Vic diCara

3. The Book of Nakshatras by Prash Trivedi.

4. The Rahu- Ketu Experience by Prash Trivedi.

5. Elements of Vedic Astrology by K.S. Charak.

6. Vedic Astrology : An Integrated Approach by P.V.R. Narasimha Rao.

7. Star Guide to Predictive Astrology: Bhavas- Planets in the 12 houses by Pandit K.B. Parsai and Pandit D.K. Parsai.

8. Mahadashas at the speed of light by Kapiel Raaj.

YouTube Channels-

1. KRS channel

2. Vic diCara

3. Claire Nakti

4. Astrologer Loka (Gina Lyhane)

5. Vedic Oracle by Kadambari

6. Lunar Astro

7. Destiny Star

8. Aastroind

(the last three channels are only applicable if you are a hindi speaker, though the channel lunar astro provides English subtitles.)

Websites-

1. Mikes Sleeping Dog

2. Barbara Pijan Lama

3. @ Ultimate Astrologer

4. Indastro

5. Astro Pankaj Seth

Some random astro notes-

The planets and the planetary relations:

The twelve houses:

The Nakshatras:

The Divisional Charts:

alright that's it for today, i hope you guys have a wonderful day ahead 💌

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so important.

I pray I marry a man who actually wants to be married. A man who isn't out here embarrassing the family we created. I pray I marry an honest, hardworking, loving man. I pray he has morals, goals, and boundaries. Even when things get tough between us, he won't give up and will try fix things with me.

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SO long overdue but i am over the moon for her. also, this schiaparelli look was BREATHTAKING!🤠🐎💛

BEYONCÉ wins Album of the Year for "Cowboy Carter" at the 67th Annual Grammy Awards — February 2, 2025

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hm, 4H/6H taurus PoF and this really put things into perspective and it makes sense!

What People Are Jealous Of You For, Based on Your Part of Fortune (PoF):

Your Part of Fortune can reveal not only your natural talents and the areas in life where luck finds you but also what others might envy about you. Let’s break it down by house!

♈ PoF in the 1st House: aries

You seem to have a golden aura—people admire your individuality, confidence, and natural leadership abilities. You give off the impression of always knowing who you are, which others may envy.

What they won’t admit: They wish they could embody your level of independence and charisma.

♉ PoF in the 2nd House: taurus

Money and material resources seem to come naturally to you, or you find ways to live comfortably no matter the circumstances.

What they won’t admit: People might think you have a “money magnet” or assume you’re naturally privileged, not seeing the effort behind it.

♊ PoF in the 3rd House: gemini

Your wit, communication skills, and charm get you far. You have a way with words that makes others wish they could articulate themselves the way you do.

What they won’t admit: They might envy your ability to talk your way out of anything or the ease with which you connect and network.

♋ PoF in the 4th House: cancer

You have a knack for building a sense of home and stability. You may come from a solid family foundation or create your own haven of warmth and support.

What they won’t admit: They’re jealous of your seemingly unshakable roots and emotional depth, even if it looks simple on the outside.

♌ PoF in the 5th House: leo

People envy your creativity, passion, or magnetism. You attract joy, love, or even fame in a way that feels effortless.

What they won’t admit: You inspire, but your ability to light up any room can make others feel overshadowed.

♍ PoF in the 6th House: virgo

You thrive in routine, hard work, and being dependable. Your knack for problem-solving and consistency gets you ahead.

What they won’t admit: They resent that you excel at balancing discipline and grace, and secretly wish they had your work ethic.

♎ PoF in the 7th House: libra

You seem to attract partnerships, whether romantic, platonic, or professional. People admire how effortlessly relationships flow for you.

What they won’t admit: Some may assume you “rely too much on others” or get breaks from your connections that they don’t have.

♏ PoF in the 8th House: scorpio

People envy your ability to transform and rise from the ashes. You may have access to support, shared resources, or a deeply magnetic aura.

What they won’t admit: They wish they had your emotional resilience or mystique, not understanding the challenges that gave it to you.

♐ PoF in the 9th House: sagittarius

You have an enviable sense of freedom, adventure, and wisdom. People see you as expansive and full of life experiences.

What they won’t admit: They envy your ability to find opportunities in travel, education, or spirituality.

♑ PoF in the 10th House: capricorn

Success and recognition seem to find you. You radiate authority, competence, and ambition that people respect (and sometimes fear).

What they won’t admit: They may believe you have it “easy” professionally without seeing your efforts.

♒ PoF in the 11th House: aquarius

You’re surrounded by a network of friends, supporters, and community resources. People assume you always have someone to help you out.

What they won’t admit: They might think you don’t “deserve” all the support or see you as taking it for granted.

♓ PoF in the 12th House: pisces

You hold a deep inner peace, spiritual connection, or creative vision that others don’t fully understand.

What they won’t admit: They might resent your ability to find purpose or growth in solitude while feeling “lost” themselves.

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Hi! How are you? I hope you are doing great. What does it mean when lord of second house i.e. Jupiter is placed in house of virgo (8th house) along with Mars and Venus in D1 chart?

2H RULER IN THE 8H ENERGY IN D1 CHART

8H virgo jupiter + mars + venus

❊ you may be someone who is attuned to transformation and the challenges but eventual blessings it may bring.

❊ you likely are a private person, especially when it comes to your finances and love life. this secrecy isn’t due to having anything to hide but stems from the peace of protecting your inner world. if not, the hidden nature could be from a deep-seated lack of trust in others.

❊ your intuition is one of your greatest strengths – you have a natural ability to understand hidden meanings and read between the lines that others would overlook. you may receive insights through vivid dreams or subconscious cues, allowing you to gain knowledge and perfect your innate skills.

❊ when it comes to finances, you may have strong financial literacy skills and strong potential for accumulating wealth, especially through wills, investments, inheritance or shared resources (business and spouse).

❊ this placement is favorable for property and land development, especially in foreign lands but your financial situation may be cyclical, going through periods of transformation. though with 8H jupiter, you can't have the lows without the highs, meaning that financial opportunities tend to always work in your favor over time and you will always land on your feet!

❊ your self-worth is closely tied to your work ethic and service-oriented nature. you take great pride in productivity and may fear that without your acclimated work ethic, you’re wasted potential. you tend to be highly critical, especially of yourself. your self-criticism may also impact your confidence, making you your own worst critic. because of this, you likely thrive on routine and detailed planning as it provides a sense of stability and peace.

❊ you may often experience unexpected events, especially concerning family matters. what may work for you is to have a structured plan in place to safeguard your ability in handling those situations effectively.

❊ you may find yourself drawn to hidden knowledge, mysticism, astrology and the occult. with these passions, you may seek a deeper self-awareness through research to cultivate a strong sense of self-worth that inspires you to share your knowledge with others!

❊ you likely tend to keep your partnerships private as a way to honor the connection. financially, you are likely to benefit through partnerships, especially in marriage.

❊ you may attract a generous spouse who enjoys providing for you. joint finances may be a significant source of wealth, especially with 8H venus and jupiter. if there are no afflictions, your relationship with your spouse’s family is likely to be harmonious!

❊ you may have a strong willpower and inner strength, allowing you to overcome challenges with resilience. your well-being, especially mental health, is a priority and your happiness is not easily swayed by external pressure.

❊ you may truly enjoy the comfort of your own space as the home tends to be your sanctuary for mental clarity and peace.

❊ your family may play a significant role and you likely have a deep attachment to both your loved ones and your cultural roots. if there are afflictions, your childhood may have come with challenges, but you still uphold traditional values and reciprocate love and respect to others.

❊ you may be highly observant and adjust your affection based on others’ behaviors.

❊ sexual intimacy is deeply important to you but if afflicted, this can manifest as sexual addiction or emotional stress.

❊ you may also idealize partners, which can lead to turbulence in love. with this, your self-worth can become tied to validation, creating push-pull dynamics and emotional highs and lows in your romantic relationships. in the end, you may have a tendency in staying in draining relationships or attracting toxic cycles.

❊ open communication may be crucial for you in your relationships. you crave deep emotional and intellectual intimacy, especially through meaningful conversations, as they strengthen your connection and understanding with your partner.

❊ at your core, you are kind, caring, and deeply giving. you may also naturally look after others and extend that kindness to the world!

these are just a few points that came to mind but i strongly advise doing more research on your placements to gain a better understanding. there's a lot more to consider, especially when looking at aspects and the overall chart. still, i hope this helped in some way!

x

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Now that we have Namjoon’s birth time would you be willing to do an analysis on him?

of course, he’s actually one of my favorites. please let me know if there any specific posts you’re wanting to see!

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VEDIC ASTROLOGY

INDICATORS

foreign spouse | age gap

OBSERVATIONS